How to understand that a man's happiness is to support his family?

As a man, he can support his family and get hot meals when he comes home from work. The wife is gentle and virtuous, and the children are motivated and sensible. In their spare time, they do some things they like, play games and read novels. Of course, you can travel if you have money, which is a man's happiness. As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have her own stable job, so that she can have confidence not to ask for money, her husband is considerate, her children are filial, her family is harmonious and she is young and beautiful. Everyone has his own sense of happiness, which I think is not connected, just as Mr. Lu Xun said: human emotions are not connected, but I just think they are noisy. Nowadays, people like to judge others from the moral high ground.

However, it is impossible for human beings to empathize emotionally, because this sentence itself will be interpreted as: 1. Many times, we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, we may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; When we care about others, we actually don't understand the development of things, but try to understand them from our own perspective. Undoubtedly, we are creating a false intimate relationship and trying to pull into each other's relationship in this way; If you connect everything with yourself, the weight you feel inside is indescribable.