A girl grows up without a family How to understand

Because in Chinese tradition, family property is reserved for sons, and daughters are married off.

If the daughter is happy in her in-laws' home and her relationship is relatively smooth, then the in-laws' home is the daughter's home. But once a daughter's marriage breaks down, the in-laws can't go there, so she has to go back to her mother's home. But the parents are old, most of the sons in the family have already started their own families, many daughters-in-law are very mindful of their daughters living in the in-laws' home.

If the parents are no longer there, the mother's home has become the home of the brother-in-law or sister-in-law, so such a mother's home can not go back. That's why there is this saying that there is no home for a girl when she grows up.

Thinking about it is indeed very pitiful, which has led many women to work hard before marriage and buy themselves a good house, which is also to leave a way back to their own lives.