What about the end of the Harmony in the Neighborhood note clipping essay?

Harmony in the Neighborhood Newspaper clipping is one of the things I like to do in my leisure time, and it is also an important way for me to live the extracurricular knowledge. This afternoon, I was clipping newspapers, suddenly found a cartoon, the picture is not very exquisite, but caused me to contemplate ...... the title of this cartoon is: "between neighbors". The cartoon is: a building suddenly blackout, all the people home is dark, rummage for candles. At that moment, a little girl with a red scarf gently knocked on the door of a newly moved neighbor's house across the street. A man opened the door and poked his head out. The little girl hurriedly asked, "Uncle, do you have a candle, please?" The man rudely interrupted the little girl, "No!" No!" With that, he slammed the door behind him. （Just as he was about to light the candle, there was another knock on the door. The man opened the door and saw that it was the little girl again. He yelled impatiently, "I told you, I don't have any candles! Don't ask me to borrow any more!" The little girl, however, was not angry, and took out two candles from behind her back with a smile on her face, and said, "My father knows that you have newly moved here, and you must not have candles at home, so he asked me to send two candles to you. He said 'neighbors should help each other'." At once, the man's face reddened to his ears, and he froze there in embarrassment, not knowing how to react. In the cartoon, the man's indifference, selfishness, and lies are in sharp contrast to the warmth, generosity, and sincerity of the little girl's family, which also reflects the distrust between neighbors in modern cities. In fact, from the point of view of the structure of the Chinese character "人", one stroke and one press are interdependent and indispensable. This is especially true for neighbors. As the saying goes, "A distant relative is better than a close neighbor." When you need others to help, around the non-relative neighbors can often be more direct and timely than distant blood relatives to help you, to solve your urgent needs. Therefore, the unity and harmony between neighbors is very important. However, disharmonious neighborly relations abound in real life. "The sound of dogs and chickens heard each other, old and dead people do not come and go" "each person sweeps the snow in front of the door, do not care about others on the frost". What's more, in order to their own little bit of interest, but at the expense of conflicts with the neighbors, the whole day for some trivial and trivial quarrel with the neighbors. What is the point of doing so? I remember reading a fable: a blind man and a cripple were neighbors. One day, a fire broke out in their house. But the two did not panic, the blind man carried the cripple, the cripple for the blind man to show the way, in their tacit cooperation, the two finally escaped the fire, survived ...... read the cartoon, listened to the fable, friends, you have a more comprehensive understanding of the relationship between neighbors again? New Neighborly Relations Neighbors are, for us, an important link between family life and social life. The old saying, "A distant relative is better than a close neighbor," speaks volumes about the importance of neighborly relations. Neighborhood is an important public **** relationship in society, and if it works well, it will have a profound impact on the quality and morality of the population. With the increasing improvement of housing conditions, we may no longer fight for the aisle and red in the face, do not have to worry about the walls have ears, but we are again wrapped in concrete barriers. At the same time, neighborly relations have moved from the emotional stage to the rational stage. You certainly have the right to say that neighbors don't matter to me. However, when a society is lamenting the lack of neighborly relations and the deterioration of interpersonal relations, the sprouting of new neighborly relations may mean some kind of change and hope - equal human relations become the soul of a society, and the neighborly relations that we have forgotten are an important part of this. According to a survey, the proportion of neighbors greeting each other now has dropped by 25.18% compared to ten years ago, but the proportion of mutual help and reciprocity has risen by 65.61%. The new neighborhood greatly embodies "humanization" - people have more room for two-way choices. Neighborhood relations have risen from an emotional stage to a rational stage, which means that superficial pleasantries may be fewer, but the way of solving problems is more scientific and effective. The new neighborhood focuses on getting along but never interfering in "internal affairs", emphasizing a sense of distance - as we all know, distance often produces beauty. Many high-class communities have "residents' service centers" and "owners' committees", where neighbors no longer bother each other but go directly to the residents' service centers, which has become a mode of operation. People are always nostalgic for the compound life in the old days, saying that it fully embodied the concept of "distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors". However, this kind of closeness and bustle is built on the basis of the housing dilemma and narrowness. In the end, it is a kind of helplessness - seventy-two tenants of the crowded created close, narrow space, people's spirit is also small. Knowing too much about each other, familiar with each other's personalities and temperaments, anything can go unnoticed, and there is no talk of privacy. Social scientists believe that 80% of neighborhood disputes a decade or so ago were housing related. With the improvement in the quality of housing and the clear demarcation between the public*** and private spheres, the disputes that used to be caused by the confusion between the public and private spheres have naturally disappeared. The new neighborhood is actually a new kind of interpersonal relationship under the change of living conditions, the conditions have changed, and people's thinking has changed, and it is obviously a bit impractical to emphasize a certain atmosphere. The relationship between people is a very profound social philosophy. New Neighborhood Relationship The distance between houses is reasonable, there will be good neighbors. A good neighbor is the one who is not too far away from us. In the 1970s, the most common problems between neighbors were who was occupying whose porch, whose coal pond was over the line, inches of land and war. In today's houses, where common areas and private domains are quite clearly distinguished, the emerging question is how far away from other people's homes is the most appropriate distance for our homes to be, and how far away is enough for us to feel that the community gives us a sense of belonging, and that the hidden pleasures of life will not be infringed upon. A good house should look out on a good view, and at the same time should be a view in the eyes of its neighbors, a hedge enclosing a wall of flowers, making the boundaries friendly, even if the thorns on the roses are guarded against more than the hand that plucks the flowers. The distance between a good house and a good house, as if between the heart and the mind, should not be too far and not too close. As social mobility and professional mobility become more intense, there is a need for non-interested, non-work-based human interaction. When coworkers, career partners and competitors are constantly changing, we look forward to a stable but non-financial interest related relationship outside the home. So, a good house belongs in a good neighborhood, and a good neighborhood should have a clubhouse that makes us feel that public **** relationships flow, where neighbors can work well with neighbors and be able to find the people they want to find. The clubhouse enriches home by giving us a strong sense of belonging to a place. A clubhouse is such a place - outside of our family life and professional careers - that it helps us meet a group of neighbors who share our habits. Good neighbors should have a mutual supportive relationship with each other. For example, playing ball together, fixing a flower wall together, and nailing up a swing set for the kids together. In addition to cooperation in the real world, cooperation in the cyber world also brings neighbors in and out of the neighborhood. Neighborhood partnerships are a way of having fun and giving, reflecting values beyond one's own career. Cooperation and mutual assistance make neighborhoods the most fun and relaxed social relationships. Serving as a part of a homeowner's association is sometimes one of the joys of being a member of one's own community. There should be tacit understanding between a good house and a good house, between a good house and a neighborhood, between a good house and nature, and between the owners of a good house. Tacit understanding is what harmonizes, and harmonization is what makes it perfect. The tacit understanding is that your house is very luxurious but will not appear to be abrupt, will not be overbearing, will not be spread out. The tacit understanding is that other people's home is a bamboo fence, your door will not be Roman columns. The tacit agreement is that your neighbors will not let your children pick the flowers you planted, and will not turn on the radio loudly in the middle of the night. Because of tacit understanding, your house is more valuable and your life is more enjoyable. A good house should not only have a large private space, but also a community environment that respects private space, and most importantly, a neighbor with whom you respect each other's private space - no one knocks on your door in the middle of the night, no one takes away the newspaper that falls out of your mailbox, and no one asks you if your house is a one-time payment. On weekends, you both open your doors and greet each other. Your pumpkins ripen and you set one out on your neighbor's doorstep. Respect is when you and your neighbors follow the underlying rules of life. That hustle and bustle and intimacy built into a small space is gone forever. As Yu Yongqi, director of the Rena Gardens Tenant Service Center, said, serving the owners is the lifeline of property management, and whether the owners are satisfied or not determines, to a certain extent, the survival of the property management company - so, it has become a trend for the owners to look for the property, and who would ask for trouble with the neighbors? What's more, no matter how big or small, the tenant service center will try its best to solve the problem, from the smallest water pipe leakage, lost keys, to the largest responsible for the lease of the house, the transfer and so on, a comprehensive package of momentum. Excellent property companies have entered the stage of creating a brand, at any time and place with the owners to maintain the exchange of ideas and emotions is their mandatory course. Property companies through a variety of communication methods to let the majority of owners informed, recognized, support, but also to the majority of owners in the near future requirements and voices through a variety of channels to be collected and summarized as an important basis for improving the work methods. "Resident service center" and "maintenance center" 24 hours a day, at any time to accept inquiries and complaints, the property company's monitoring center has a network phone through each household, and in each building at the entrance with "friendly tips Board" at the entrance of each building. In this way, in the past, the kind of establishment in a small space in the lively and intimate gone, neighbors through the "tenant service center" regulation, the distance between day by day more moderate, gradually exudes a sense of cordiality and beauty. Neighborhood is an important public **** relationship in a society. Whether it works well or not often has a great impact on the quality of the people and the moral level of the society. If we live in a luxurious house, but the lack of neighborly relations, family and friend relations with the accelerated pace of life and the expansion of the city brought about by the spatial distance and increasingly distant, if life is only left with co-workers, customers, and other peripheral public **** relations, life will become dry and boring. I live on top of a tall building "I live on top of a tall building, thinking back to the good old days ......" This is my own made-up lyrics. Whenever that familiar melody in the ear, I can not help but hum in the heart, melancholy, sadness, depression, speechless feeling instantly filled the empty size of the room. I have been in this so-called upscale neighborhood habitat for several years, the living environment to enhance the material life has improved, my inner loneliness is increasing day by day. Until recently, I did not know that I live in this building living in 12 families, I am very strange with them, a long time, each other know from a doorway in and out, we meet, just a polite nod, that's all. Modern people seem to be accustomed to make a cold mask over the face, make a thick cocoon to hide the heart. In the past few years, I don't remember any neighbors knocking on my door. I, on the other hand, only walked into a neighbor's house that was being renovated to study it when I was preparing to renovate my house. There is a homeowners' association in the neighborhood, and who they are, I'm not sure. I don't know what a homeowner's association can do. Our neighborhood property feels more formal, often under the building to post a notice, send a notice and so on. There is also a supermarket in the neighborhood, so if you want to buy something, you can call and it will be delivered to your door. I've had my sewers clogged and door knobs broken, so I've had trouble with friends and property owners, but the service is good but expensive. When I moved here, my son was still small and very naughty, although we educated him all day long, reprimanded him, and even beat his buttocks with chopsticks, telling him not to jump around on the floor, or else the uncles and aunts underneath the building would have a problem with it, but we could not avoid making a little bit of noise from time to time. Downstairs, young couples do not have children, the man came up very politely mentioned the views, a long time, people do not say. We are really sorry. One day, our home intercom doorbell suddenly rang in the middle of the night, a male voice came out of it, said the upstairs neighbors, forgot to bring the key. The next day, my beloved told me the person was a Korean, and I got it right. There was a woman living with him and the woman used to sneak out with a small dog around 10pm. I'm not sure if the woman was his wife or if she was Korean. Then the Korean left. There was another guy, also Korean. Koreans do not understand Chinese customs, Dragon Boat Festival, my love put a few wormwood in front of his door, he felt puzzled. Anyway, my son finally has a little friend. The new occupants of the west unit on the first floor, which had been empty for a long time, moved in. The west unit is occupied by an old couple, their daughter and son-in-law, and their little nephew. I don't know the family's last name or what they do. The nephew is less than 2 years old and is called Doudou. Grandpa often hold the nephew in the yard to play, we every day from the front of his house, his son and DouDou familiar. Every time we passed by, Doudou called my son from a distance, "Niu Niu, Niu Niu". Niu Niu is willing to play with Yang Yang, who lives upstairs next door, and Niu Niu and Yang Yang were born on the same day of the same month and year. They met at the fireworks under the building this spring. Niu Niu went to Sheep's house once and played until 10:00 p.m. and didn't come back, playing like crazy. Later, his mom wouldn't let him go to other people's houses. Maybe Sheep's mom felt the same way. It's annoying enough to have people who don't get along playing at home until after 10pm. I'm a fan and I know there are good football players in my neighborhood. Because I often watch football on weekends until midnight, and at halftime, I go out on my balcony for a smoke and can hear my neighbor's TV blaring. Unfortunately, we couldn't communicate. Alas, one cannot go back in time. Those days of living in a big yard filled with the smell of food and the smell of chickens and dogs will not come back. Society has indeed progressed. Sometimes, I hide on the balcony at night to look at the sea in the distance, and think that inside the tall buildings, there should not be a few people who are as confused as I am, right? In the end, people live, the pursuit of spiritual pleasure.