Types of family atmosphere of family atmosphere

If roughly divided according to the family atmosphere, China's modern family can be divided into orthodox, conflict, democratic, arranged, permissive and other families. Different family atmosphere on the child's personality is very significant.

Orthodox family parents are serious, behavioral, strict requirements for children, never easy to praise their children. The general principle is "responsibility is heavier than mountains, joy is hidden in the bottom of the heart". Due to the lack of pleasant emotional exchange, children tend to respect their parents far away, there are worries would rather put in the heart, and some children even develop the surface obedience, the heart is not convinced, in front of a set, behind a set, afraid to bear the failure of the mentality.

Conflict-type family parents often quarrel. This type of family children have a hard time, always be on the lookout for "war", or cowardly retreat, or aggressive fighting, very easy to cause mental illness.

Democratic families, parents and children love and respect each other. Family life is appropriate, lively, rigorous and orderly. Parents and children have full exchange of ideas and emotions. Children raised in such families are prone to develop a cheerful, confident and positive mindset and pioneering, self-controlled and flexible habits of mind.

The parents of an arranged family are generally hard-working, and love their children as if their lives depended on it, taking care of them in every way and obeying them in every matter. The children will develop a dependency mentality, poor social adaptability, and will not be able to handle themselves independently, which will make the parents and children suffer.

There are generally two types of laissez-faire families, one in which the parents are busy with their work and entrust their children to nannies or relatives; the other in which the parents educate their children as they wish, without consistent standards. Children in these two types of family atmosphere are difficult to develop good habits of thinking and behavior. Children are generally more lively than rigorous, with poor responsibility, self-control and pioneering skills. As parents, we should create a good family atmosphere for our children.