My husband always speaks ill of me to my mother-in-law behind my back. What should I do?

I don't know if you have heard the saying: whoever doesn't speak behind his back, no one speaks behind his back. In fact, it is very common to talk about people behind their backs, because nothing can develop in the direction they think. Once you meet someone who is dissatisfied, you will definitely be dissatisfied. At this time, you will want to talk to someone, so don't mind someone talking about yourself behind your back, because it is normal.

And I also know that I am an imperfect person, and I do have many shortcomings and deficiencies, so I don't expect everyone to like me. I can allow them to talk about me behind my back, but that doesn't mean I won't be angry if I know.

I believe that no one can be broad-minded enough to hear others speak ill of themselves and still face it calmly. Even if it seems calm and expressionless, there will be sadness in the heart, especially when the husband talks about himself behind his back, which is a great blow to the girls' hearts.

In fact, my mother-in-law said behind her back that she wouldn't be so sad. After all, she is not a family, because she is a family because of men. She has many different habits, and she doesn't live with her mother-in-law every day. There is no need to change it for her, so there will definitely be contradictions between the two people. Moreover, the mother-in-law is also a woman, and the girl herself has a broken mouth, so she will spit herself out, which is completely acceptable in her heart.

But my husband will be a little sad when he spits. After all, this man is the one he loves deeply. Although there will be contradictions between two people, shouldn't this kind of thing be known only by the other party? Even if he told his friends that I wouldn't be so angry, but only with his mother-in-law or elders, I would feel that I was the object of being excluded from this family, and my heart would be very sad.

But at this time, you shouldn't just be sad. The most important thing is to talk to your husband. First, you need to know what the problem is between two people. Secondly, you should discuss with him. No matter what problems you have in the future, don't involve your elders.