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What is a lady? What should a lady be like?

I think ladies in the new era should have fashionable appearance, lovely personality, good education and enterprising spirit; Self-improvement, self-love and independence; It is long-sleeved and good at dancing, elegant and restrained; Also go to the hall, kitchen and bedroom; Definitely not an "idle" wife and a "cool" mother.