Analysis of etiquette status quo

Present situation and summary of etiquette education research at home and abroad

Zhouyi

Yuan Zhengzhou Tourism Vocational College Henan Kiln Zhengzhou 450009 yuan

China Library Classification Number: G642 Document Identification Number: Part A Number:1672-7894 (2013) 21-0044-02.

Different countries and regions have different cultures and various interpersonal relationships outside different nationalities, so as to avoid harm and prevent "fighting" or "war", and gradually there are differences in ways of thinking and values. This paper mainly introduces various dynamic etiquette related to "fighting" and "fighting" from two aspects. For example, regarding the characteristics of etiquette education and learning in the East and the West, on the one hand, the etiquette culture in the East and the West taught them to signal that they have no weapons in their hands. In order to make the other party feel that they have no malicious * * * communication, no matter what form, there are fixed or specific * * * communication, which resulted in a hand-raising ceremony and later evolved into a handshake ceremony. In order to express the norms of mutual friendship; On the other hand, etiquette education shows disrespect in different cultural backgrounds and is willing to "take off your helmet and armor" in front of each other, thus taking off your hat and other etiquette from the same connotation and essence. On this basis, we should pay attention to the etiquette "* * *", which comes into being. It is recorded in ancient Greek literature that people like Socrates, Plato and Aristotle respect the "personality" of etiquette, which can enhance our sensitivity to cultural differences. And the ability to adapt to other cultures. 2 the development and differences of etiquette education Keywords the differences of etiquette values between the East and the West * * *

2. 1 western culture emphasizes propriety in politeness, while Chinese etiquette education has always emphasized "the present situation and review of etiquette education research". China's etiquette culture comes from the Confucian etiquette tradition. "Those powerful people are inferior and respect the abstract. Different countries and regions have different cultures and people." We are required to be humble and self-effacing when dealing with people, and at the same time to respect different ways of thinking and values. This paper is more important to others. Basically, it is rare for China people to mainly introduce the characteristics of Chinese studies and brag about themselves. For example, when China people called themselves and related people or things in ancient times, the etiquette education in the West. Based on this, we should pay more at-people, feel inferior, humble, humble, humble, give up, give up? When addressing, they all say "contempt for' common property' in courtesy and respect"-others, most people are used to using "Your Excellency, your surname, your surname, your house" and so on. Westerners will be confused if we "split in two" in etiquette to enhance our sensitivity to culture-to incorporate relevant words that China people think are polite and polite into English conversation. Because westerners emphasize and advocate the differences between China and the West-physical value and personal value, they attach importance to equality and etiquette in their communication. Leach is polite Kratos; Values; The first principle of common attributes is the "success principle", with emphasis on the "six principles" of "reducing as much as possible".

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Culturally, if the other person praises you, the polite way is usually to accept it with pleasure. When you hear compliments from the 1 etiquette education source, your usual reply is "thank you" and so on. , to win each other's goodwill and respect from the source 1. 1 China ancient etiquette. China was called "Huaxia" in ancient times. Huawei's etiquette is great, and summer is the beauty of clothes. In ancient times, the Chinese nation, with its extensive and profound etiquette culture, was respected and praised by the surrounding 2.2 western etiquette culture, which advocated pecking order. Before Confucius, there were Li Xia, Li Yin and Zhou Li. In his Five Principles of Politeness, Mr. Gu Yueguo pointed out that it is necessary to greet each other.

Appropriate address, taking into account the identity, age, occasion and other factors of the other party. On the contrary, due to the inheritance of leather, the ritual system in the Duke of Zhou was close to perfection. Is to let us respect our elders and respected people, know how to be polite, and safeguard the high and low. Confucius was the first etiquette expert in Chinese history. He regards "ceremony" as the social order of governance. When you meet an old man, call him an old gentleman, a master, a grandmother, etc. The foundation of national security. Confucius' thought has far-reaching influence so far. Mencius should address his colleagues when he is important, and add his surname to those older than himself. Later generations and The Book of Rites regard benevolence, righteousness, propriety and wisdom as the basic moral norms. In his view, the initiation of the ceremony is that the subordinates should respect the opinions of their superiors at ordinary times, and they are not free to express their personal views. The core is "humility" and "respect". Xunzi paid more attention to "courtesy". He pointed out that it was disrespectful to prevent conflicts and refute each other's face. In the west, many works of Wen have demonstrated the origin of etiquette and its role in social development. He believes that before the revival of art, he has put forward the idea of human rights, praised individual values, preached individuality, advocated "courtesy is extremely humane", and regarded etiquette as the foundation of being a man and even the highest principle guiding personality development. Nowadays, the concept of freedom and equality is deeply rooted in people's hearts. There is no significant difference between people's thinking about respect and inferiority, and whether they know or not, and whether they follow the etiquette as the important boundary to measure people's virtue and stupidity, high and low. Therefore, most westerners like simple and standard names. He has always stressed: "rude people are not born, things are not rude, and the country is unclear." Miss, Mr. and Mrs. are often used, and the words indicating positions are rarely polite and restless. " Guan Zhong also takes propriety as his leading thought in life and takes safeguarding Ding as his title. For example, students call their teachers, unlike China's surname+you, which is an important pillar. They believe that "a country with propriety, honesty and shame, four dimensions of the country, four dimensions that cannot be separated, a country that is a teacher and whose mother tongue is English, will probably perish if you add Miss, Mr. and Mrs. before the surname". It is not difficult to see from the speeches and works of the above thinkers that it is possible. In the way of communication, westerners are more casual, and everyone develops reasonably, regardless of the need to adjust interpersonal relationships. Discipline and position are free to express their views. For example, in class, students can interrupt the teaching of the origin teacher of 1.2 foreign etiquette education at will and ask questions to the teacher, which is considered disrespectful in China.

In the west, the word etiquette can be traced back to the French word etiquette, which may be condemned by public opinion. It means "court pass". Translation is the meaning of etiquette, which means that 2.3 Westerners advocate the individual, while China pays attention to the principle of "the channel of interpersonal communication". The history of western civilization shows the history of human beings in China to a great extent. People have long put forward the concept of "one family in the world" and the pursuit and evolution of etiquette by paternalism. In order to maintain and develop the deep blood relationship, the author on page 46: Zhou Yi (1980-), female, Henan new savage, undergraduate, teaching assistant, and her research direction is tourism management.