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What is the family culture and family training?
The family culture originated from the ancient rural kinship society in China, which is the traditional family education, including the inheritance of values, theories and morals, including the basic methods and rules of inheritance. The ultimate goal of good family style and family training is to achieve "family harmony" and "prosperity", and to achieve the prosperity of the family from generation to generation. Therefore, the key to "family discipline" is often to emphasize respect for the elderly and children in the family, mutual understanding among members, openness and honesty, tolerance and trust, and avoid suspicion, complaints and even accusations. In the case of the vast majority of families, the focus of their respective family motto is for the next generation, the next generation of strict requirements, hoping that the next generation can be honored, practiced, and passed on.
Excellent family tradition and family motto
1, to be honest (law-abiding), honest (consistent), good people, more good deeds, the end of good things.
2, independent personality, hard work and thrift, patience in all things, continuous learning, integrity, and work with heart.
3, porridge and rice, when thinking about the place is not easy; half silk and half a wisp, always thinking about the difficulties.
4, heavy moral cultivation, strict sentiment character; help justice, repel evil.
5, often will have the day to think of the day, do not wait for no time to think of sometimes.
6, there are a hundred generations of virtue, there will be a hundred generations of children and grandchildren to protect; there are ten generations of virtue, there are ten generations of children and grandchildren to protect; if it is chopped without the latter, it is the virtue to thin.
7, a porridge and a meal, when thinking of hard-earned; half silk and half a wisp, always think of things difficult.
8, a body can be diligent and respectful, although the fool also has a wise flavor.
9. Children and grandchildren will always be blessed.
10, students should be three diligent: hand hard, brain hard, reading hard.
11, Han's Yuan's tired of loyalty, my heart is Shang, you should take it as a teacher, always admonishing themselves.
12, gold is not a treasure book for the treasure, everything is empty good not empty.
13, filial piety and respect for the elderly, strict teaching children and grandchildren; respect for the elderly and love for the young, pro-Mu Cunxin.
14, filial piety, loyalty and courage to show Dan Cheng; brothers help each other, compassion without borders.
15, do not be evil, do not be good.
16, wide accumulation of people, leaving children and grandchildren to disaster; more sound and color, the disability of life to catty axe.
17, the first to think of filial piety, in the next think of respect; pour themselves hard to do virtue and righteousness.
18, flawless jade, can be a national weapon; filial piety and fraternal son, can be a national Switzerland.
19, not indifferent to the will, not serene to the far.
20. Anyone who does not love already, really lacks the qualification of being a father.
21, the promotion of thrift and frugality, saving honor, shameful waste.
22, the book mountain has the road diligently for the path, the sea of learning is boundless bitter boat.
23, young people do not know the pain of hard work, old people regret reading late.
24, support for parents is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, from my generation to generation.
25, unfilial parents, honoring God is not beneficial; brothers and friends is not beneficial; the heart is not right, Feng Shui is not beneficial; behavior is not good, reading is not beneficial; high-minded, erudition is not beneficial; doing things, smart is not beneficial; bad luck, delusion of salvation is not beneficial; delusion of taking people's money, giving is not beneficial; not sparing the gas, taking medication is not beneficial; obscenity is wantonly evil, yinzuozhi is not beneficial.
26, life is no good father and brother, no strict teachers and friends, and can be achieved less.
27, people are all rich because of the wealth, I only to the poor official. I'm not sure what I'm talking about, but I'm not sure what I'm talking about.
28, pro-virtuous, far from the small man; heavy etiquette, honesty.
29, mean family, extravagant, is the defeat phase.
30, see the ill-gotten gains do not take, meet the reasonable things from.
31, the family has a difficult to read the scripture, only open mind to read through.
32, live to learn old lying in the coffin is not coincidental.
How to make a family motto
In this case, refer to the following words, make a card
Family motto
1. Choose a good person to befriend, choose a good book to read, choose a good word to listen to, and choose a good deed to follow.
2. A man's happiness is not because he has much, but because he cares little.
3. To be angry is to punish yourself for someone else's faults. To forgive others is to be kind to yourself.
4. Not necessarily more money will be more happy, more tired of their own troubles. The first thing you need to do is to get rid of all the problems you've had.
5. sit still and often think about their own faults, gossiping about people's rights and wrongs, can suffer is the aspirant, willing to suffer is not a fool, respect for the gentleman show virtues, afraid of the villain is not incompetent, back a step of the sky high and wide, so that the three peace of mind, want to make progress need to think about retrogression, if you start to think about letting go of the first, such as the satisfaction should not be re-expanded, all things should be done to the rest of the step. Hold gold as precious, know the value of peace of mind, things are approaching, think twice as good, anger on the heart of the highest forbearance. Do not be greedy for unexpected wealth, the heart of a contented person is always happy. If you can do this, you will be able to enjoy your life in peace.
6. There is no need to seek success, no fault is work. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
7. Peace is good fortune, contentment is good fortune, clear mind is wealth, and lack of desire is life.
8. People's hearts, more desire is narrow, less desire is wide.
9. It is better to be poor and happy than to be rich and worried.
10. It is better to retreat from the depths of thought, and to rest when you are happy.
11. You can't use all the power, you can't enjoy all the blessings, you can't take all the advantages, and you can't use all the smarts.
12. Water dripping through stone is not a big force, but a deep effort.
13. Do not do frowning things in life, the world should not cut teeth.
14. To make friends with those who have the way, do not make friends with those who have no sense. Drink the tea of tranquility, don't covet the wine of flowers and colors. The door of convenience is open, and the mouth of right and wrong is idle.
15. The room with many doors gives rise to wind, and the people with many words are in trouble.
16. The world is as busy as water, do not put the fame and fortune in mind. The most important thing to remember is that you can't be too careful about what you do, and you can't be too careful about what you do.
17. "I want" is a sign of poverty. The thing can always be enough, the heart is always cozy, people to no demand from the high quality.
18. The most evil thing in life is to talk about people's faults; the most foolish thing in life is to hear about one's faults.
19. Do not do all the evil, all the good deeds, do not take the good small, do not take the evil small.
20. Don't be jealous of his long, jealous of the long, then you are short. The first thing you need to do is to protect your own shortcomings, and if you do, you will not be long.
21. Things do not have to be the same with the common, and should not be different from the common. Things do not have to make people happy, and not to make people hate.
22. There are two things in the world can not wait: First, filial piety. Second, do good.
23. To have an equal heart, do convenient things, there is nothing in the world. Compassionate heart, do compassionate things, then the heart of peace.
24. A small mind, more trouble, a large mind, wisdom and abundance.
25. There is nothing in your life that you can hide from others.
26. "Evil", fearing that people will know, is a great evil. "If you are a good person and want people to know, you are not really good.
27. To help the emergency is a beautiful thing. If you don't boast about it, then you have a lot to live up to!
28. In good times, in the light, in bad times, in the calm.
29. Right and wrong every day, do not listen to nature.
30. The five senses of stimulation, not the real enjoyment. The inner peace, is the place to start.
31. People are good, although the blessing has not yet arrived, the disaster has been far away; people are evil, although the disaster has not yet arrived, the blessing has been far away.
32. If you don't ask for anything, your heart will be at peace, and if you don't do anything, your body will be at peace.
33. Those who don't value themselves will be humiliated. If you don't grow up, you will be in trouble. The person who is not complacent, benefit. Those who are not self-sufficient will be knowledgeable.
34. Accumulate gold left behind in the children and grandchildren, the children and grandchildren may not be able to keep; accumulate books in the children and grandchildren, the children and grandchildren may not be able to read. It is not as good as the accumulation of virtue in the netherworld, which is the treasure training of the family for all generations.
35. The accumulation of virtues is better than a beautiful house and a good land.
36. To be able to give love is a blessing, and to be able to eliminate troubles is wisdom.
37. A safe body is better than a safe mind, and a wide house is better than a wide heart.
38. Julius Caesar, a Roman, who was a great man in Europe, Asia and Africa, told his attendants at the end of his life: "Please put my hands on the outside of the coffin, so that the world can see that the great Caesar, like me, is also empty-handed after his death.
39. In the dream, there is a pleasure in the underworld, and after the realization, there is no greatness.
40. Children and grandchildren have their own blessings, do not worry about children and grandchildren.
41. The love is born of wisdom.
42. Conquer the world, not great, a person can conquer their own, is the world's greatest people.
43. To minimize one's desires and to sublimate one's reason to the highest point is to be a saint.
44.Jealousy of others and hatred of dissenters is tantamount to giving one's life to others.
45. If a man is not infected by vices, happiness is near.
46. Slandering others is like spitting blood, first polluting one's own mouth.
47. Hate others, but the pain is their own.
48. The reason why people are ordinary, lies in the inability to transcend themselves.
49. The big belly can tolerate, cut off a lot of trouble obstacles, smile smile, and make a lot of happy edge.
50. Change yourself, is self-help, influence others, is to save people.
51. Lies like a blooming flower, beautiful appearance, life is short.
52.Only those who respect themselves are more courageous to shrink themselves.
53. People do not seek blessings, there is no disaster. If you don't want to be profitable, you can't be harmful.
54.The wise man plans according to the time, the fool moves against the time.
55. He who often reproaches himself is often understood by others.
56. Seeing oneself is not, the door of all good. Seeing others is not, the root of all evil.
57. Learning a point of concession, a point of bargain. Increase one point of enjoyment, reduce one point of blessing.
58. Thoughts are correct, the star of fortune, thoughts are not correct, the star of disaster.
59. Good people do good, from the music into the music, from the bright into the bright. The evil people do evil, from the bitter into the bitter, from the dark into the dark.
60. Those who are kind-hearted will live long. He who has a harsh heart will have a short life.
61. Bone should be strong, gas should be soft, ambition should be big, bold should be small, the heart should be false, the word should be true, wisdom should be increased, the blessing should be cherished, not far from the worry is also close.
62. Bitter mouth is a good medicine, against the ear must be loyal. The first thing you need to do is to change your mind. The heart of the shortcomings of the heart is not wise.
63. What you have now will become someone else's with your death. So why not give now to those who really need it?
64. The reason why people suffer is that they pursue the wrong things.
65.The greatest enemy in life is oneself. The greatest failure in life is arrogance. The greatest folly in life is deception.
The most pitiful thing in life is envy. The greatest mistake in life is low self-esteem. The greatest pain in life is obsession.
The greatest humiliation in life is pandering. The most dangerous situation in life is greed. The most troublesome thing in life is to strive for fame and fortune.
The greatest sin in life is self-deception. The most pitiful disposition in life is inferiority. The greatest bankruptcy in life is despair.
Life's greatest debt is human debt. The greatest sin in life is killing. Life's greatest abomination is adultery.
The kindest act in life is devotion. The greatest happiness in life is to let go. The greatest comfort in life is giving.
The greatest gift in life is forgiveness. The most admirable thing in life is refinement. The greatest wealth in life is health.
The highest enjoyment in life is learning Buddhism. The greatest joy in life is chanting the Buddha's name.
66. The heart is good and life is good, rich until old age. The good life of the heart is not good, the blessing is turned into a sign of trouble. If you have a good heart and a bad life, you will be blessed with a good fortune.
The heart of life is not good, suffering and poverty. The first thing I want to do is to make sure that I have a good understanding of what is happening in the world. If you are not a good person, you will not be able to get a good deal on your own.
67. Few words to raise the gas, few things to raise the spirit, few thoughts to raise the essence, few thoughts to raise the nature.
68. To change others, it is better to change yourself first.
69. Be grateful to the person who hurt you, because he honed your mind.
Be grateful to the person who cheated you, because he improved your knowledge.
Be grateful to the one who whips you, for he removes your karma.
Be grateful to the one who abandoned you, for he taught you to stand on your own two feet.
Be grateful to the one who tripped you up, for he strengthened you.
Be thankful for the one who rebukes you, for he has strengthened your resolve.
Be grateful to all those who make you firm in your accomplishments.
70. The mortal is lost in the present and regrets the past. Saints realize in the present and are liberated in the future.
71. Abstinence from desire and anger is the law of body protection, convergence and quietness is the law of family rule, casual and natural, is the law of provincialism, and practicing goodness and cultivating the heart is the law of the world. Keeping these four laws, the end of the world.
72. Life is like a play, because there is a chance to get together. It is not easy to help each other to old age, whether it is more to cherish. For the sake of small temper, think back and why. Other people angry I do not gas, gas out of the disease no one to replace. If I die of anger, who will be happy? Besides, it hurts my mind and takes a lot of effort. The neighbors do not want to compare, the children and grandchildren of the trivial let him go, suffering and enjoying together, the gods envy a good partner.
How to make a card with a good family style
In this case, refer to the following words and make it into a card
Family style
1. Choose good people to be friends with, choose a good book to read, choose a good word to listen to, and choose a good deed to follow.
2. A man is happy not because he has much, but because he cares little.
3. To be angry is to punish yourself for someone else's faults. To forgive others is to be kind to yourself.
4. Not necessarily more money will be more happy, more tired of their own troubles. The first thing you need to do is to get rid of all the problems you've had.
5. Sit still and often think about their own faults, gossip and do not talk about people's rights and wrongs, can suffer is the aspirant, willing to suffer is not a fool, respect for the gentleman show virtues, afraid of the villain is not incompetent, back a step of the sky high and wide, so that the three peace of mind, want to make progress need to think about retrogression, if you start to think about letting go of the first, such as the satisfaction should not be re-expanded, all things should be done to the rest of the step. Holding gold is precious, know the value of peace and happiness, think twice when things are on the verge, anger on the heart of the highest forbearance. Do not be greedy for unexpected wealth, the heart of a contented person is always happy. If you can do this, you'll be able to get away with it.
6. There is no need to seek success, no fault is work. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
7. Peace is good fortune, contentment is good fortune, clear mind is wealth, and lack of desire is life.
8. People's hearts, more desire is narrow, less desire is wide.
9. It is better to be poor and happy than to be rich and worried.
10. It is better to retreat from the depths of thought, and to rest when you are happy.
11. You can't use all the power, you can't enjoy all the blessings, you can't take all the advantages, and you can't use all the smarts.
12. Water dripping through stone is not a big force, but a deep effort.
13. Do not do frowning things in life, the world should not cut teeth.
14. To make friends with those who have the way, do not make friends with those who have no sense. Drink the tea of tranquility, do not covet the wine of flowers and colors. The door of convenience is open, and the mouth of right and wrong is idle.
15. The room with many doors gives rise to wind, and the people with many words are in trouble.
16. The world is as busy as water, do not put fame and fortune in mind. The most important thing to remember is that you can't be too careful about what you do, and you can't be too careful about what you do.
17. "I want" is a sign of poverty. The thing can always be enough, the heart is always cozy, people to no demand from the high quality.
18. The most evil thing in life is to talk about people's faults; the most foolish thing in life is to hear about one's faults.
19. Do not do all the evil, all the good deeds, do not take the good small, do not take the evil small.
20. Don't be jealous of his long, jealous of the long, then you are short. The first thing you need to do is to protect your own shortcomings, and if you do, you will not be long.
21. Things do not have to be the same with the common, and should not be different from the common. Things do not have to make people happy, and not to make people hate.
22. There are two things in the world can not wait: First, filial piety. Second, do good.
23. To have an equal heart, do convenient things, there is nothing in the world. Compassionate heart, do compassionate things, then the heart of peace.
24. A small mind, more trouble, a large mind, wisdom and abundance.
25. There is nothing in your life that you can hide from others.
26. "Evil", fearing that people will know, is a great evil. "If you are a good person and want people to know, you are not really good.
27. To help the emergency is a beautiful thing. If you don't boast about it, then you have a lot to live up to!
28. In good times, in the light, in bad times, in the calm.
29. Right and wrong every day, do not listen to nature.
30. The five senses of stimulation, not the real enjoyment. The inner peace, is the place to start.
31. People are good, although the blessing has not yet arrived, the disaster has been far away; people are evil, although the disaster has not yet arrived, the blessing has been far away.
32. If you don't ask for anything, your heart will be at peace, and if you don't do anything, your body will be at peace.
33. Those who don't value themselves will be humiliated. If you don't grow up, you will be in trouble. The person who is not complacent, benefit. Those who are not self-sufficient will be knowledgeable.
34. Accumulate gold left behind in the children and grandchildren, the children and grandchildren may not be able to keep; accumulate books in the children and grandchildren, the children and grandchildren may not be able to read. It is not as good as the accumulation of virtue in the netherworld, which is the treasure training of the family for all generations.
35. The accumulation of virtues is better than a beautiful house and a good land.
36. To be able to give love is a blessing, and to be able to eliminate troubles is wisdom.
37. The body is not as secure as the mind, and the house is not as wide as the heart.
38. Julius Caesar, a Roman, who was a great man in Europe, Asia and Africa, told his attendants at the end of his life: "Please put my hands on the outside of the coffin, so that the world can see that the great Caesar, like me, is also empty-handed after his death.
39. In the dream, there is a pleasure in the underworld, and after the realization, there is no greatness.
40. Children and grandchildren have their own blessings, do not worry about children and grandchildren.
41. The love is born of wisdom.
42. Conquer the world, not great, a person can conquer their own, is the world's greatest people.
43. To minimize one's desires and to sublimate one's reason to the highest point is to be a saint.
44.Jealousy of others and hatred of dissenters is tantamount to giving one's life to others.
45. If a man is not infected by vices, happiness is near.
46. Slandering others is like spitting blood, first polluting one's own mouth.
47. Hate others, but the pain is their own.
48. The reason why people are ordinary, lies in the inability to transcend themselves.
49. The big belly can tolerate, cut off a lot of trouble obstacles, smile smile, and make a lot of happy edge.
50. Change yourself, is self-help, influence others, is to save people.
51. Lies like a blooming flower, beautiful appearance, life is short.
52.Only those who respect themselves are more courageous to shrink themselves.
53. People do not seek blessings, there is no disaster. If you don't want to be profitable, you can't be harmful.
54.The wise man plans according to the time, the fool moves against the time.
55. He who often reproaches himself is often understood by others.
56. Seeing oneself is not, the door of all good. Seeing others is not, the root of all evil.
57. Learning a point of concession, a point of bargain. Increase one point of enjoyment, reduce one point of blessing.
58. Thoughts are correct, the star of fortune, thoughts are not correct, the star of disaster.
59. Good people do good, from the music into the music, from the bright into the bright. The evil people do evil, from the bitter into the bitter, from the dark into the dark.
60. Those who are kind-hearted will live long. Those who are hard-hearted are short-lived.
61. Bone should be strong, gas should be soft, ambition should be big, bold should be small, the heart should be false, the word should be true, wisdom should be increased, the blessing should be cherished, not far from the worry is also close.
62. Bitter mouth is a good medicine, against the ear must be loyal. The first thing you need to do is to change your mind. The heart of the shortcomings of the heart is not wise.
63. What you have now will become someone else's with your death. So why not give now to those who really need it?
64. The reason why people suffer is that they pursue the wrong things.
65.The greatest enemy in life is oneself. The greatest failure in life is arrogance. The greatest folly in life is deception.
The most pitiful thing in life is envy. The greatest mistake in life is low self-esteem. The greatest pain in life is obsession.
The greatest humiliation in life is pandering. The most dangerous situation in life is greed. The most troublesome thing in life is to strive for fame and fortune.
The greatest sin in life is self-deception. The most pitiful disposition in life is inferiority. The greatest bankruptcy in life is despair.
Life's greatest debt is human debt. The greatest sin in life is killing. Life's greatest abomination is adultery.
The kindest act in life is devotion. The greatest happiness in life is to let go. The greatest comfort in life is giving.
The greatest gift in life is forgiveness. The most admirable thing in life is refinement. The greatest wealth in life is health.
The highest enjoyment in life is learning Buddhism. The greatest joy in life is chanting the Buddha's name.
66. The heart is good and life is good, rich until old age. The good life of the heart is not good, the blessing is turned into a sign of trouble. If you have a good heart and a bad life, you will be blessed with a good fortune.
The heart of life is not good, suffering and poverty. The first thing I want to do is to make sure that I have a good understanding of what is going on in my life and what is going on in my life. If you are not a good person, you will not be able to get a good deal on your own.
67. Few words to raise the gas, few things to raise the spirit, few thoughts to raise the essence, few thoughts to raise the nature.
68. To change others, it is better to change yourself first.
69. Be grateful to the person who hurt you, because he honed your mind.
Be grateful to the person who cheated you, because he improved your knowledge.
Be grateful to the one who whips you, for he removes your karma.
Be grateful to the one who abandoned you, for he taught you to stand on your own two feet.
Be grateful to the one who tripped you up, for he strengthened you.
Be thankful for the one who rebukes you, for he has strengthened your resolve.
Be grateful to all those who make you firm in your accomplishments.
70. The mortal is lost in the present and regrets the past. Saints realize in the present and are liberated in the future.
71. Abstinence from desire and anger is the law of body protection, convergence and quietness is the law of family rule, casual and natural, is the law of provincialism, and practicing goodness and cultivating the heart is the law of the world. Keeping these four laws, the end of the world.
72. Life is like a play, because there is a chance to get together. It is not easy to help each other to old age, whether it is more to cherish. For the sake of small temper, think back and why. Other people angry I do not gas, gas out of the disease no one to replace. If I die of anger, who will be happy? Besides, it hurts my mind and takes a lot of effort. The neighboring pro don't compare, children and grandchildren trivia let him go, suffer and enjoy together, the gods envy good companion.
73. Tolerating what people can't tolerate and what people can't do. The name: "Daxiong". Therefore, the name: "Maharishi Temple". That is, the Buddha.
74. Patience is good, patience is a treasure. The idea of a day can not tolerate, fighting for the strong trouble is not small. Tolerance is not a heart disease, life will be your bitter entanglement, let a step there is no harm, the amount of great blessings without trouble.
75. Cold Mountain asked Pick up: the world, someone slandered me, deceived me, insulted me, laugh at me, light me, jian me, how do I deal with it? Shide said: as long as he endured, avoid him, by him, patience, ignore him, and then a few years, you and see him.
76. Endure for a while, the wind and waves are calm, one step back, the sea and the sky.
77. Evil is the plow, good is mud, good people are often bullied by evil people, iron plow year after year bad, have not seen the field for rotten mud.
78. The gas is an invisible fire, patience is the enemy of the star, but leave a square inch of land, put in the children and grandchildren plow.
79. You can put the "forbearance" kung fu to do how much, your future career will be able to achieve how much.
80. The one who bends himself, can deal with the crowd, and the one who wins, will meet the enemy.
81. There is always failure when you don't think twice about things, and people can endure a lot without worrying.
82. Right and wrong to not argue for relief, trouble to endure for wisdom, to do their best for success.
83. All things come to pass through patience, rather than being able to argue, it is better to be able to endure.
84. Hurtful words, such as water covering the ground, it is difficult to undo.
85. When the good heart, is when the good day.
86. More words than less words, less words than good words.
87. Be reasonable and forgive people, straight and gas.
88. Not afraid of more things, only afraid of more things.
89. The real charity, is to put down the worry, worry, separation, attachment, all.
90. A thought to put down, all kinds of freedom.
91. To learn Buddhism is to learn to be a human being. Dharma is the way to complete the awakening of life, and practice is to correct one's behavior, thoughts, and opinions.
92. The saint seeks the mind, not the Buddha; the fool seeks the Buddha, not the mind.
93. Mortals do not turn their minds to the realm. Saints do not change their minds.
94. To know "cause and effect" is to know the way forward and backward. If you know the Dharma, you will be happy.
95. If you want to know the past, you have to be a recipient in this life. If you want to know the fruit of the next life, you have to do it in this life.
96. If you are a true monk, you do not see the world's faults.
97. The wise man knows the illusion of separation, the fool takes the illusion as true.
98. The world is like a dream and a bubble, like dew and electricity.
99. A child who studies Buddhism will not be bad, an old man who studies Buddhism will not be demented, and a young man who studies Buddhism will never be defeated.
100. Do not waste time outdated regret, black hair does not learn white hair regret. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money to pay for the services you need. The official bribe crime repentance, rich not thrifty poor time repentance. If you are not filial to your parents, you will regret it when you are old, and if you are in trouble, you will regret it when you don't help. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
Family Trainings and Family Customs Couplets
The first couplet: The family name is far away from Houji
The second couplet: The school has a long line of Lianxi
The first couplet: Love and care is warm in the spring
The next couplet: The family is happy with everything
The first couplet: A big yard is not as big as a big ambition
The second couplet: A wide house is hard to beat a wide heart
The first couplet: Doing things honestly
The first couplet: Doing things honestly
The first couplet: Doing things in an honest way
The first line: open and fair
The second line: honesty and sincerity
How does the city carry out the inheritance of good family customs and good family training activities, and how effective is it?
Chinese people have always attached great importance to the family style, about the family style of the written records are as many as stars. The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of a long journey, and I was in the middle of a long journey. Yu Xin said in the preface of "Mourning Jiangnan Fugue", "Pan Yue's literary style is the first to describe the family style; Lu Ji's rhetoric is the first to show the world's virtues." In his poem "Song of Water", Xin Qiji said, "A kot and a fur for many years, a bowl and a bottle for a lifetime, the old family style of the old son." Qiao Ji's "The Marriage of Two Worlds" has in the first fold, "It is the learning of striking jade and knocking gold for three hundred paragraphs, and often it is the twenty years of stirring up the clouds and turning away the rain, and this family style is to be seen by those who have eyes in the world." Yuan Mei, "Supplement to Suiyuan Poetry," Volume VI, "Syngsai is a poet, the son of the Sima Park (Rulin) Secretary of the House of Commodities, the pen is more than a family style." Ba Jin also has this paragraph in Home, "Letting this woman live in the parlor not only insults the dignified place, but will spread *disorderly* poisonous gas in the public house, corrupting the family style of the Gao family."...... In addition, there is the more famous story of Meng's mother's three removals and the Yan Style Family Training - Mu Xian (顏式家训-慕贤), which says: "It is that living with good people is like entering a room of orchids, which is fragrant over time; living with evil people is like entering a restaurant of abalone, which is smelly over time." The family rules, family training, family style, etc. have been sung for thousands of years.
Famous Family Tradition
1. As long as the mind has not been confined to the people, who also like their children than their own stronger, healthier, smarter and more noble. --Lu Xun (鲁迅) 2. A father loves his son and teaches him in a righteous way. --The family is nothing else but the human being himself. The family is nothing else but human beings themselves. --[Russian] Yevtushenko, "The Family" 4. The elders must be guides and consultants, but should not be commanders. --Lu Xun, "How We Can Be Fathers Now" 5. If a man has a shrew, then his good friends will not come, and if there is a jealous minister in the state, then the wise men will not stay. --Ming Liu Ji (明-刘基) 6. Children are to be taught by others, and faults are to be cured by others. --Lu Xun, "The Law of Poverty and Happiness" (安贫乐道法)7. A sound and happy human being requires a sound and happy mother. --Guo Moruo's "Exhibition on the Lives of Women in the Soviet Union" (《主題苏联妇女生活展》)8. Thrifty and frugal is the basis for ruling a family, peaceful and harmonious is the basis for unifying a family, prudent and prudent is the basis for protecting a family, poems and books are the basis for starting a family, and loyalty and filial piety are the bases for passing on a family. --Ching Jin Ying, "Aphorisms and Words" (《格言联璧》) 9. If a family is at odds with itself, it cannot stand. --New Testament, Gospel of Mark 10. He who does not love his wife and children is keeping a lioness and hatching a litter of misfortunes in his house. --[English] Taylor, "Sermon" Ancient Chinese celebrity family motto: 1. Rule the family strictly, the family is peaceful; live in the countryside forgiveness, the countryside is harmonious. --Qing Dynasty--Wang Yu 2. The word "peace" is the main word for ruling a family. --Qing Qian Yong 3, family has a heart, money to buy gold; family has two hearts, no money to buy a needle. --Ming Xu Wei 4, rich and noble children who have no success, lost in the appeasement; poor and lowly children who are easy to become, used to the strict beam also. --Qing - Chen Arthraxis 5, Shi has a shrewish woman is good friends do not come, the state has a jealous minister is a wise man does not stay. --Ming. Liu Ji 6, the father's love for his son, taught to the righteous side. --Song. Sima Guang 7, hard work and thrift of the family, and smooth family of the family, prudent to protect the family of the family, poetry and books to start the family of the family, loyalty and filial piety to pass on the family of the family. --Qing Dynasty. Jin Tassel 8, a body can be diligent and respectful, although fools also have the flavor of wisdom. 9, a precept is (late) up; two precepts of laziness; three precepts of luxury; four precepts of pride. Both abide by the four precepts, and must be regulated by four appropriate: one should read diligently; two should honor the teacher; three should love the crowd; four should be careful with food. 10, the student should be three hard: hand hard, brain hard, reading hard.
On the family style of family training
Although it is now a new era with a new journey, but you can still learn from the "Zhu Zi family training (Zhu Zi family maxims)".
As well as the "Three Character Classic", "Thousand Character Classic", "Young Learning Qionglin", "Rasawong Pair of Rhymes" and so on.
Adults will pick out a few passages and guide the child to read them when he has the time and interest to do so.
The Song family's family tradition
The Song family's family tradition: to be a great talent
Not to be satisfied with the ordinary, but to be a great person. Perhaps it is precisely because of this family tradition that the Song family has been able to produce so many talented people, and if every Chinese can have such a family tradition, China will be saved and revitalized, just as Song Yao Ru dreamed. The Chinese people need this kind of family style to take off.
How to write 50 words on family style and family motto
Family style, family motto and family rules are the traditional culture of China, which is y embedded in the hearts of every Chinese, family style is a family formed in the generations of inheritance of a more stable moral norms, traditional habits, the way of life, life style and the sum of life styles, and it is first of all a reflection of the power of morality. ...
How to write 20 words of family motto
Family motto and family style accompany my growth
Every family has different family motto and family style. A good family motto and family style can make people positive and successful; a bad
family motto and family style can make people go astray and fall into the abyss. Honesty and trustworthiness is my family's motto, and it has always accompanied my growth.
When I was in the third grade, I met a man named Xiao Fang. His mom and dad never cared about him, so he often played games for a long time and didn't like to study. One day after school, he asked me to go to his home to play games, I could not resist the temptation, so I went with him, and played until dark before going home.
Once at home, my mom asked me, "Where did you go? So late to home?" Mom fierce like a
leopard, face is very ugly. I stammered, "I? I was at school writing? homework and finished it before? just
came back." Mom heard the anger shouted, "Nonsense! I've been to your class, it's been empty for a long time, and you're still doing your
homework? Where the hell have you been? Don't think I don't know! Tell me!" Dad saw the situation is not good busy to come over to pull me to the room, said to me in a serious manner: "Son, we often say to you, do people should be honest, how can you lie? You are a student, the main task is to study. 'Young and strong do not work hard, the old man sad' ah?" Listening to my dad's words, I nodded vigorously? To my father said after school to go to a classmate's home to play games, to my mother admitted the mistake and promised not to lie again in the future to come home on time.
A few months after a math test, the exam paper was sent down, I look at the results is 98 points, the heart is quite happy, but a careful check, found that the fill in the blanks have two blanks wrong, the teacher did not find. In this way, my real score is only
94 points. In class, I was engaged in a fierce ideological struggle: in the end to go to the teacher to change over? Or should I not go?
I was in a dilemma. At this time, my ears seem to ring in my father once said to me that "be honest"
. In the end, I had the courage to ask the teacher to change my score. The teacher praised me, and I was very happy because I had been honest.
My father's words are still fresh in my mind, and they always remind me to be honest. Being honest is my
family motto, and it has always accompanied my growth.
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