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Brief introduction of good men not marrying Fuzhou women

Naughty and loud: Many people have the impression that women in Fuzhou are fluent in "Tiger Truth", and their tongues are always flat, and their speech is as rapid, sharp and lethal as machine gun fire. When quarreling or chatting with others, it is indecent to habitually tilt your middle finger from top to bottom and keep cursing around "X you X".

Clever calculation: watch some Fuzhou women buy cabbage "peel three layers before buying food". A cabbage breaks the green tie outside, then breaks the tender second layer of leaves, shaking off the natural residual water in the dish, and the dishes in the supermarket have to be tied up with transparent glue to sell. ... [Details]

Laziness loves gossip: Fuzhou men do laundry and cook at home, and it is common for women to run around the street in pajamas and shoes. And women in Fuzhou still like to get together and play mahjong, and their hands are not idle. They love spiritual communication, and like to get together to open a memorial arch (Fuzhou dialect, which means chatting), talk about themselves, their relatives, their neighbors and their parents.

Love face, love yourself more: Fuzhou women's sense of self-worth is not only affirmed by their families, but also advocated by the society, to affirm them and keep themselves bright and beautiful. Most of them have lazy petty bourgeoisie plots and enjoy life. Doing housework without a job will make you a yellow-faced woman, which is absolutely intolerable!

People in my mother's generation all said that it seems that women in Fuzhou are lazy. In the old house, it is often seen that the neighbors opposite are husbands cooking, while the wife is watching TV with her legs crossed. The same is true of my mother's daughter-in-law. She doesn't cook until her husband comes home to cook.

However, everything is not absolute, mainly depends on how the tutor is. I think there are many hardworking and virtuous Fuzhou women. There are historical reasons why Fuzhou's son-in-law is difficult. Fuzhou is the place where Beijing officials come. Zhuzifang, Guanglufang and Yijinfang are all aristocratic men. Although time has played down all this, everyone's good family has become a small jasper. Over time, women's talents have been polished in managing the family. In terms of financial management alone, women surpass men in psychological resilience and their ability to handle affairs, and it has become a common phenomenon that women in Fuzhou are psychologically strong.

Rong adult, eldest son-in-law is grandson, elder sister is respect. Being a son-in-law is being a grandson, with profound historical and cultural traditions on his shoulders. Before marriage, I should work for my mother-in-law, do housework and clean the floor, and after marriage, I should be responsible for decorating my sister-in-law's new house. My elder sister is my parents, who take care of my younger siblings and act as my mother. Brother-in-law's love affair reached a certain temperature, so he had to quickly raise all the passbooks above his head and offer them devoutly. Fuzhou son-in-law is particularly pitiful in this respect. Fuzhou dialect calls girls "Zi Niang". This statement is correct. Fuzhou girls are really more refined and elegant than northerners who call them young women and girls. Compared with the interest in pursuing material life, Fuzhou women look forward to unforgettable love. From a distance, three famous talented women in modern history of China, Lin and Lu Yinhe, are all Fuzhou women. Lin Damei once fell in love with Xu Zhimo, a romantic genius, which shocked him for half a century.

Comments: As the saying goes, if you have the courage to marry an out-and-out Fuzhou girl, you must have the courage to undertake these responsibilities and obligations. Daughters in Fuzhou are more filial to their parents than sons, so choosing a son-in-law depends first on whether they can be loyal to their duties. Today, "Good men don't marry Fuzhou women" is still so popular because it is really convincing. In Fuzhou, there has always been an idea that a woman should be supported by her husband after marriage, which is beyond most cities. Maybe you want to say that it is the same in other places, but Fuzhou is an upgraded version and an enhanced version in this respect. It is said that there are many migrant workers in Fujian and more in Fuzhou in recent decades. Because most men go abroad, women don't have to do anything at home, just wait for the man to send money back to live with her and bring it down when they have children. But you can't kill all the women in Fuzhou with a stick. There are countless illiterate women in Fuzhou. Few women in Fuzhou are really knowledgeable and have nothing in common with them. They are almost "uneducated" except where they are going to have fun tonight, and they don't know what they have learned in college. You'd better not expect too much when chatting with them. Don't talk about ideals, dreams, science, reasoning and decision-making. It's no use. They just want real things, such as a raise, more money and what they are going to buy for me. What is nice is true, and what is ugly is vulgar! Vulgar, soulless, low spiritual level. Fuzhou women are much more fierce and gentle, because in such a big environment, men are waiting for them if they are not henpecked, and there are quarrels at home for three days, which makes you want to die and sigh: there is a good man, why not a Fuzhou woman? Of course, if you are a bad guy, the situation will be different, but now the bad guy is not good, and her whole family goes out and takes the guy to beat you to death. This is really bad. When the relationship between husband and wife is seriously bad, the woman brings someone home. Fortunately, this phenomenon is obviously less now. You can't shoot all the women in Fuzhou. Good Fuzhou women are rare, but they are the best. If you meet them, you must be sincere. This is the knowledge of many people, not just one person's nonsense. The above premise is that you have to be a good person, a good person, a good heart and a good career, otherwise you have nothing to be wronged.