What was the process of blind date in ancient times? How is it different from modern blind date?

In ancient times, it was called "blind date", but it didn't meet. How can there be the word "phase"?

0 1. The words of ancient parents' life matchmakers are the reality of "blind date". At that time, the newcomers basically never met, or even met, and there was no process of communicating with each other. They probably met after they got married and entered the bridal chamber. If there is a problem in their married life, they can only accommodate each other (the high probability is that women accommodate men, because men are superior to women at that time, and if women really don't like men, they will become remarried concubines).

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Marriage and other life events are decided by parents. They think each other's family is ok, their parents and children are good, and their children are about the same age as each other's children. This can basically be done by a matchmaker. Once the other family agrees, it will be solved directly. There's not that much debate at all.

02. Now blind date is called "blind date". There is no need for a matchmaker to do anything now, as long as two young people are present. Generally, when dating, both men and women will ask each other questions about family, individuals, future ideals and so on. , and fully understand each other's needs, ideas and personality. If the first impression is good, then the two will temporarily determine the relationship or talk for a period of time. If you don't feel good, then go next.

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If two young people get along well and feel that they can enter the marriage hall after a period of time, then parents will start to find time to meet and then put some marriage issues on the table to study together. After the plan is confirmed, the marriage time will be almost the same, and it will not be too complicated to get married then.

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However, the great difference from the ancient countryside is that there were no regrets in ancient times, while modern blind date, love and even marriage can all break up. "Parting if it is not suitable" is no longer conditional and there will be no obstacles, which has become the normalization of love in the modern century.