What is the custom of sitting at a table in rural Jilin? What's the point?

The custom of being a guest in rural Jilin is a way of making friends in order to celebrate the wedding of the host, to conform to human feelings and to reciprocate. Pay attention to say hello to the host first, say congratulations, and then write the gift account. Find a suitable seat and leave after dinner. In rural Jilin, no matter your relatives, friends or villagers, if their family holds a happy event, they will go to the waiter who attended the ceremony. Is the person who holds the wedding ceremony here called reunification? Owner? . A few years ago, all families had daughters to get married, sons to get married, and old people had birthdays, so they were going to hold weddings at home. They called their relatives, a living neighbor, and relatives and friends to celebrate. Because the restaurants in the village were not popular in those years, the host invited a caravan specializing in cooking to set up some tables in his yard, and everyone sat on the tables in the yard to eat. Generally, shopkeepers will prepare dishes from 12 to 16, all of which are northeast specialties, such as chicken stewed mushrooms, sauerkraut ribs, pork elbows and so on. We call it a seat. Before you go to your boss's desk, say hello to your boss's people and let them know that you are here. If it's a woman, you can help cut a dish. If you are a man, you can help move tables and stools. In short, you can help your boss. Before the banquet begins, find a seat and wait for the food to come, then you can eat. It is generally known, or old, that young people like to sit at one table, and men and women sit at one table. When you sit at the table, you must remember to write down the account of the gift first. If it's a man, don't get together with a woman, just sit at a table full of men. In recent years, there are many hotels in rural areas, and people who handle affairs like to do it in hotels in order to save trouble. There is no smell of cooking in the caravan at home, no steaming fireworks in the yard, and no feeling of excitement.