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What about parents who are too conservative?

? As a son or daughter, you should give your parents more new age life concepts and ideas.

? In fact, as our parents in the eighties and nineties, their ideas and concepts of life are very conservative, because they have always lived in the circle where they are, whether it is information or the progress of the times, for them, it is difficult to enter their circle.

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? As sons and daughters of us, we can not go to complain and blame them, after all, they have lived most of their lives, are so over, is not the same also well?

? They do not feel that there is something wrong with their life and status quo, much less conservative. They're just sticking to what they've been sticking to for most of their lives.

? We, as sons and daughters, have that more responsibility and obligation to pass on new information and new ideas to them, so that they know that the times are progressing and their thoughts should follow.

Of course, just with words to express, this kind of persuasion is not enough, we have to use real things and things to impress them, let them understand and accept.

? We can not say that because the parents do not understand not to inform them of the changes in this society, if not to say that they even more do not understand, said they can slowly digest slowly to change their concepts.

In fact, as parents, they are also eager to recognize the new things, but because of the conservative character of the past, they are embarrassed to speak.

? The reason why parents are so conservative is because of the past concepts that influenced them, and as the years went by, this influence became a fixed form, which ultimately led to their more conservative.

As long as we as children have the patience to give them new information, with the passage of time, slowly proved that these new things do have their advantages, they will slowly accept these new life concepts, ideas will slowly change.

Let's say that my father, but also a particularly conservative people, I just started to do health care industry, he can not accept, but also can not stop me from doing so, the daughter can not control the big do not want to care, but he is looking for various reasons to find my fault, through these to oppose me to do this industry.

But then I took the initiative to ask him to do health projects, and told him that people's living standards have improved, the future of people will have a high awareness of health, the prospects of this industry is very good, and now the health are very formal, not the way they thought before.

Plus he himself also felt that I do every time to him after the health program is really a lot easier, and do not say anything, and then also slowly take the initiative to ask me to do his health program.

As long as we deliver new information in the right way, they will slowly change their mindset. We have to give enough time for our parents to adapt to the message and to this new era in order to transform their conservative concepts.

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Not only do we need to pass on the concept of living in a new era, but we also need to understand our parents. For some parents who can't change their mindset, as a child, we need to give time to them, after all, their parents are old, and their ability to understand and accept is not as fast as young people's reaction.

Regardless of whether they eventually change this conservative concept, the mutual understanding between children and parents is a very good thing.