The older I get the more I find it difficult to be close to my parents, how do I get close to them?

I was once confused about this. When we were young, we all longed to be close to our parents, to get their attention and love. As we grow up and start to contact schools, peers, and various recreational and sports venues, our dependence on our parents gradually decreases, and we become more mature and independent, so we are less and less close to our parents. In fact, this is a very normal phenomenon.

So, after growing up, how do you maintain a close relationship with your parents? You can try the following methods:

1, chat with your parents

The most effective is to talk about your childhood anecdotes, which will fly close to your distance, evoking warm memories of your *** with;

Secondly, you can ask your parents more about their youth, they will be happy to say that you understand them better;

Also talk about your parents' favorite things, or some topics that are more popular now, but it's better to be somewhat related to them.

2, take your parents out for a trip

This is a very effective method that I have tried, they will be extra happy and understand that you have them in your heart. In the journey you take care of more, naturally close up.

3, appropriate to talk to them about your difficulties

pick some of the small worries you can solve to talk to them, complain, but do not choose will make them worry about things. They will give advice that may not be sound, but that's okay, this process will make your parents feel that you trust them and will feel that they are still helpful to you, just as they were when you were a child. Parents will be very flattered.

4. Visit often and give thoughtful gifts

If you don't live together, then be sure to visit often and try to make it a point to call every day or two, even if it's just to talk casually.

Care about your parents' lives and send them small gifts that will be useful to them.

5, pay attention to the physical condition of parents, personally give them some relief

If the parents appear to be unwell, then you personally go to give them medicine, massage, and think of some ways to relieve, will be a very good way to get close to the way, but also a child should do.

The key is that in your heart you must believe that your parents are very eager to be close to you, so you yourself must first break your apprehension.

Difficulty in getting close to your parents is often a result of being a child who has unknowingly gone too far, and if you are willing to look back, you will realize that they have actually loved you and have been waiting for you in the same place.

MaoMao, certified Thinking Guide TLI tutor of Bozan Center, UK (Public No.:惟思导图)

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