A model of traditional marriage: Jiang Yang's parents have different personalities, but they will be together for life, which is happier than his daughter's marriage. Do you envy them?

The perfect love between Jiang Yang and Qian Zhongshu is the envy of the world. They fell in love at first sight in Tsinghua campus, experienced a wonderful encounter, and then experienced many ups and downs together.

In these 63 years, * * * has experienced political turmoil, endured the blandness of daily necessities, maintained love for each other, deeply loved each other, and interpreted the most sincere and romantic love.

Mr. Jiang Yang once wrote in an article: "Our sisters are very kind to their husbands, but not as good as my mother is to her father."

Jiang Yang's mother Tang Xu and Yang Fu got married on 1898.

After marriage, she took good care of her family, loved herself, loved her family more, and started a happy marriage with her husband. This is another kind of love.

From marriage, be loyal to love and be together. Up to now, their marriage life is a model of traditional marriage life. It is also beyond the reach of many couples in modern society.

A gentle intellectual, a diligent, honest and frank person.

Tang Xuwa was born in a wealthy family in Wuxi, Jiangsu, a typical Jiangnan woman with fair skin and aura.

When she was a little girl, her parents asked her husband to tutor her to read. She didn't give up her studies because she was a girl, but she was also allowed to study in a famous girls' school in Shanghai at that time.

Because of this, she became an early intellectual woman in the history of China and a talented woman in the Republic of China.

Tang Xu, full of poetry and painting, is gentle and sensible.

If, at that time, she didn't marry Yang Yinhang, and she was such a talented woman, would it add a lot of color to the literary world of the Republic of China?

Jiang Yang's father, Yang Yinhang, came from a poor scholarly family and was strictly educated by his grandfather and father since childhood.

He was arrested and imprisoned by the Qing court for participating in the recovery activities of Wuxi in the Revolution of 1911. At that time, I was married to Don.

On the recommendation of others, he was appointed as the director of the judicial department. During his tenure, he handled it impartially, was upright and upright, was not afraid of powerful people, and had no regrets for offending his superiors many times.

Jiang Yang wrote in the article "In memory of my father": "My father is dignified and powerful, and all our children are afraid of him, although he never scolds." From this, we can know that Jiang Yang's father is honest, frank and rigid.

Husband and wife, a gentle, a gentle and modest, a heart of stone, an honest and frank, completely different personality, many people may not be able to live in harmony.

They often quarrel because of their personality, but together they can tolerate and understand each other, which may be the reason why they can be together for life.

I love you, so I take care of you wholeheartedly.

People who really love you deeply will make you feel safe. When you are helpless and frustrated, you can hold your hand and face it with you.

When Tang Xu was seriously ill in bed in Yang Yinhang, he took care of him wholeheartedly and didn't leave his bedside for days and nights.

In his later years, Yang Yinhang treated Tang Xu Eva who suffered a stroke in his later years in the same way. In the most difficult time, both of them take care of each other.

There is no sweet talk, no blushing and heartbeat, and some turn love into concrete actions and express love in their own way, which may be the details that many modern girls require.

Love is not black or white, right or wrong, and love has no standard answer.

But it's just the words of the seas run dry and the rocks crumble, and the oath of heaven and earth can be learned, which is illusory.

True love is sharing weal and woe with life and death, and never giving up. This should be like Tang Xu's concern for Yang Yinhang. This is a good expression of my love for you.

Improve self-cultivation, self-improvement and self-love.

If you don't love yourself, you will never love others.

A person can only be loved by others if he loves himself first and then others.

One of the most important reasons for Tang Xu's happy marriage is that she didn't neglect herself after marriage, and constantly improved her inner cultivation through self-improvement and self-love. In that traditional and even feudal society at that time, this was real and rare.

Tang's virtue is that she often sews clothes for her family, treats her relatives and friends warmly and generously, and takes care of her two little sisters-in-law, which is even more touching, and keeps her family in good order from top to bottom.

Jiang Yang once wrote in "Remembering My Mother": "She is broad-minded and does not think about old evils, so she can live in harmony with anyone and has never made enemies in her life."

Such a virtuous and intelligent woman is considerate and indisputable, and her life is naturally simple and comfortable.

She won't spend all her time on daily necessities at home. She has her own hobbies, loves reading novels and can also comment on the writing styles of various novelists.

As a lady, Tang Xuwa has read many books, attended a good school, and has her own unique views on current literary events.

Therefore, she and her husband can often discuss "The Story of the Stone" together, read literary classics together, and have endless topics. She can also teach children the etiquette of poetry and calligraphy, and is also the earliest enlightenment teacher in Jiang Yang.

In front of Yang Yinhang, Tang Xu Eva is the most real one. She is independent, confident, self-respecting and self-loving. She has her own hobbies and ideals and constantly improves her self-cultivation and inner self.

Only one person can live a wonderful life, and two people can bring out the best in each other. Tang Xu is such a woman, a gentle and virtuous wife, and a lover full of talent and wisdom.

So Yang Yinhang loves her, loves her and respects her.

As vividly expressed in Xi Murong's To the Oak Tree, women are eager to be self-reliant and independent, and to stand shoulder to shoulder with their husbands.

At that time, women's lack of talent was virtue, and women had to obey the society of three obedience and four virtues. Few women are as thoughtful as Tang Xu.

Tang Su is a housewife, but not a nanny housewife.

The so-called nanny housewife, that is, completely dependent on her husband economically and spiritually, has no right to speak and is busy with trivial matters of life. The whole person's focus is on her husband and children.

But Tang Xu was able to break the shackles of housewives and become a free and unrestrained talented woman.

After Yang Yinhang resigned as a lawyer, she often discussed cases with Tang Xu. She helped him clear his mind and gave him a lot of help in his career. How could Yang Can Yin Hang not love such a woman full of wisdom and talent?

Jiang Yang described: "Mom indulges Dad, and Dad is willful in front of her, but she will say that Dad is not pleasing to the eye, and Dad will be as obedient as a good child and will not defend himself."

In life, Yang Yinhang and Tang Xu discuss everything, and husband and wife make decisions together. Faced with such a virtuous wife, Yang Yinhang came back with infinite feelings, and their marriage was happy with his wife's company.

The love between Yang Yinhang and Tang Xu is not a vigorous pledge of eternal love, but I take care of you with all my heart, and the surprise and romance you prepared for me are even more elegant, simple, sincere, warm and happy.

The love of parents set a good example for her daughter Jiang Yang. Later, the love between Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang became a much-told story in history.

Tang Xuwa's happy married life is inseparable from his inner talent, self-cultivation and respect, understanding, encouragement and help for her husband.

Her marital status is that you have your career and I have the love in my heart. We can face all kinds of trivial things together, work hard for a happy family and look up at the stars together.

Therefore, if we want to have a happy marriage like Tang Xu Eva, we must cultivate our inner feelings, improve our temperament, become a thoughtful wise man, and reap a beautiful life of our own.