What is the root of being a man and the way to survive?

"Fang" is the foundation of human beings; "Circle" is the way of life.

"Circle" is the knowledge of Taoism in China. And "Fang" is the ideal realm of China's Confucian personality cultivation. It can be said that the mutual tolerance of Fang and the complementarity of Confucianism and Taoism constitute the main spirit of China traditional culture.

The inside and outside circle is an incisive principle for dealing with people. This is not the philosophy of a wily man. Among them, the "inner side" shows the persistence of one's ideals, principles and beliefs, while the "outer circle" shows the harmony with the surrounding environment to reduce resistance and contradictions.

"Fang" is the foundation of human beings; "Circle" is the way of life. The square is in the circle and the circle is in the square, and the two blend with each other. In a word, if the Fiona Fang method is used reasonably, we will be invincible, and we will take our time no matter whether we surpass or stop.

First, "Fang" is the foundation of human beings.

"Fang" is the independence of personality, the embodiment of excellent quality and value, and the firm pursuit of human civilization. Throughout ancient and modern times, at home and abroad, the most popular and beloved people have traces of "Fang". If there is no "square" soul, people will violate social ethics and will be spurned by everyone.

Successful scientists say that a person's mind is outstanding and his behavior will be outstanding; A person's heart is beautiful, and his temperament will be beautiful. Therefore, "Fang" should be honest, upright, modest, tolerant and respectful.

1. Integrity is like a mountain.

Formal "goods" end, straight "people" stand. Integrity, which is fair and honest. It is the backbone of life, the backbone of the world, the unity of motivation and effect, and embodies wisdom and realm.

Often, honest people, be upright and do things cleanly; We will resolutely adhere to the right and resolutely oppose the wrong without hesitation. In this way, being totally honest is convincing and appealing; In this way, the strength of the waist will be hard, and the strength will be sufficient. This is combat effectiveness.

Advocate honesty and support justice. This requires us to set a correct attitude and set high standards for ourselves. No matter what you say or do, you should stress morality, keep your responsibilities in mind, and establish a clear concept of right and wrong and values. For myself, I don't seek public interests for personal gain, greed for profit, and arrogance; For the people, do not keep the yin; Do the right thing, uphold justice and safeguard justice. In a word, we should do things openly for people.

Honest and trustworthy

Sincerity means sincerity and loyalty; Faith means keeping your promise, keeping your promise. It can be seen that honesty is a sincere and realistic attitude that people should have in the practice of being a man and treating others, and it is the behavioral quality of keeping promises.

Be honest. Adhere to the concept of "treating others with sincerity and doing things with faith", and be honest and trustworthy. Take honesty as our moral standard. In practice, we should improve the moral sense and sense of responsibility of honesty, tell the truth, do honest things, be honest people and keep our promises. Never pretend, hide anything or cheat others. In this way, everyone will climb the peak of their career with integrity, standardize the pace of growth, protect the sky with good heart, and the world we live in will become more exciting.

Humility and tolerance

Since ancient times, humble morality and tolerant mentality have been praised by the world. It can be said that modesty and tolerance are both a realm of life. What is humility? Modesty is to treat yourself and your achievements correctly, guard against arrogance and rashness, make persistent efforts and create new heights forever. And to face people and things with a broad mind and an inclusive attitude is tolerance. Only with a tolerant attitude can a person learn from others, make up for his own shortcomings, enrich himself, expand himself and achieve himself.

No matter what you do, you need the qualities of humility and tolerance. Only by carrying forward the excellent quality of humility and tolerance can we constantly improve our taste and ability and win more support and help. Therefore, we need to keep an open mind, face up to our own advantages and disadvantages and achievements, be self-aware, actively absorb spiritual food beneficial to our own development and make continuous progress; We need to be strict with ourselves, be lenient with others, live in harmony, always think of others, look at their advantages and pay less attention to their shortcomings; Need to be a broad-minded person.

Respect and help each other.

Simply put, respect each other, help each other, support each other and care about each other. It is the embodiment of love and the symbol of harmony. It is not difficult to find that as long as people respect each other and help each other in life and work, they will create a beautiful scene of joint efforts and happiness.

As far as the organization is concerned, the organization pays attention to employees, and employees pay attention to the organization, vowing to develop together with the organization. In this way, the organization will naturally have vitality. At present, many enterprises have created a humanistic environment full of hardships, sharing weal and woe, mutual respect, understanding and caring, and urged employees to respect each other, help each other, fully cooperate, learn as a team, grow together and succeed together.

Second, "circle" is the way to survive.

What is a "circle"? To put it simply, "circle" means being sophisticated and tactful, paying attention to strategy, method, skill and artistry. Each of us is a social person and needs to communicate, communicate and cooperate with all kinds of people. This is "living in the world". However, if there is no "round" art in life, you will be depressed and it will be difficult to succeed.

To maintain good communication with people, cooperate with people happily, establish extensive contacts and win positive support and reputation, we must be "smart". Of course, to practice the "wisdom circle", we should always be grateful, live in harmony and have a good relationship.

1. Thanks

As the name implies, gratitude is to thank those who have helped you, to appreciate the gift of life, and to appreciate everything around you. It is a philosophy of life and a wisdom of life.

If we are grateful, we will become more modest, respectable and noble. In this world, everything can't be smooth sailing. In the face of all kinds of failures and helplessness, we all need to be brave to meet and respond with a broad mind. It is true that we are always confined to this kind of "disappointment" and always nervous, then our life will be dull. On the contrary, if you are grateful, no matter how many setbacks you encounter, you can make your life full of bright sunshine.

After years of summing up, I have regarded gratitude as an integral part of my core values. No matter in life or at work, I have realized that as long as I am always grateful, I can find endless fun in my life, study and work. As far as organizations are concerned, society provides space and opportunities for organizations to develop, and organizations should be grateful to society and try their best to contribute to society; The efforts of employees have made the development and progress of the organization. Organizations should be grateful to employees and cherish them. Similarly, organizations give employees opportunities and platforms for development, and employees should also be grateful and loyal to the organization. In short, an environment of mutual gratitude will definitely make us feel comfortable and happy.

2. Harmony * * *

The ancients said that harmony is precious and harmony is beautiful. The combination of "harmony" and "harmony" constitutes "harmony", which means appropriate and balanced cooperation. It is the fusion of China traditional culture and the spirit of the times, and it is a beautiful wish that people have been striving for since ancient times.

"Harmony" is the aspiration of the people and the general trend. It has a rich meaning, a broad mind, and an all-inclusive atmosphere and tolerance. If we give full play to its coverage, we can produce strong cohesion. Because "harmony" itself combines tradition and modernity, East and West, science and religion, rule by virtue and legal system. Obviously, if we leave harmony, all organizations will have local differentiation and division, and even lead to fiasco.

Harmony is the eternal theme of any organization. If the organization supports harmony, then it advocates harmony with society, the state and other institutions, and * * * life * * glory; Coordinate with employees, * * * common development, * * * create the future; Cooperate with allies to reach the goal; Compete with competitors to promote cooperation and compete with each other to win.

Step 3 build a good relationship

Buddhists say that all beings are predestined friends, and when they meet, they are light. In fact, good relations here mean being kind to others, making more friends, doing more good deeds and gaining more appreciation.

As we all know, establishing a good relationship has reduced obstacles and won the support of everyone. If we have good interpersonal relationships, others not only support us in our work or life, but also think of us everywhere, safeguard our interests everywhere, and even bring us a peaceful, happy, relaxed and friendly attitude.

Now many organizations take "networking" as their value orientation. Based on the idea that people are social, group and interactive, we should understand, accept, care and sympathize with each other, communicate with each other, learn from each other, encourage each other and make progress together.