When are girls unprepared for you?

When girls are not psychologically prepared for you, most girls are psychologically prepared for the opposite sex, but judging from psychology, there are three moments when girls are not psychologically prepared for you. Let's follow me to see when girls are not ready for you, hoping to help you.

When are girls unprepared for you? 1 1. Women are sensitive to both sides of their bodies: from left to right, they are unprepared.

Psychology has found that the left and right sides of the body have different meanings to the human body. For most people, things on the right tend to attract attention more easily.

In business negotiations, only the signing ceremony is left for both parties. In order to avoid damaging the harmonious atmosphere of negotiations, the two parties usually take out the contract from left to right, that is, from the other party's right to the left. Usually this feeling will look more natural, and the other party is the least defensive.

This is not only used for business negotiations, but also for performances. On the stage, when decent characters appear, they habitually move from left to right. The villain understood from right to left when he appeared, which increased the audience's disgust.

So if you know a girl's psychological secret and you want her to accept you more naturally when you carefully choose a gift or get along with her, then your best way is to walk to her right and take it from left to right when you take the gift, which will double her surprise and make her accept you more.

2. Women are more defenseless at dusk.

Besides being close to her, men with high emotional intelligence also know that women are wary of time. Psychological research has found that the coordination of human psychology and physiology is dominated by internal time.

Just like the law of physical and mental development of the human body, the time in the human body is also divided into high tide and low tide. Generally speaking, the high tide period is in the morning and the low tide period is in the evening.

Grace of monaco Grey Kelly once described in her masterpiece "Upper Society" that between dusk and evening, when a hero courted like a heroine, it was often easier to get the heroine's nod.

Psychologically speaking, women are more easily persuaded at night, when their feelings are often very fragile. Correspondingly, the psychological defense function will also decline, so if you want to make any demands on women, or pour out your inner feelings and confessions, then this time of night is undoubtedly the best time.

3. Women are also very sensitive to the place of communication: women pay great attention to the atmosphere, and the atmosphere is in place but not ready.

We just said that the choice of time can help us break through the defense system of women. In fact, for women, the same is true in position.

My student Xiao Wei once asked me for advice when she was chasing her girlfriend. Teacher Tang, what do you think is the best place to date and communicate with women?

I gave Xiao Wei advice. In the choice of place, we can pay attention to these three principles, which makes it easier to succeed in conversation and communication:

1 First of all, in a relatively spacious environment, in such an environment, women tend to lower their vigilance.

Secondly, there are no negative emotions around, such as toilets or strange smells.

Thirdly, you can choose certain music to accompany you, so that you can open her heart more easily and enter the other person's world for you to communicate with women. If you choose a place that conforms to the above three principles, women will usually accept men more easily.

Xiao Wei followed my advice later. He chose a romantic western restaurant with a soft atmosphere and music when dating Xiao Jing, an independent girl. At first, the girl was still a little nervous. Later, because of the soft music, the girl slowly let her guard down and began to feel happy.

Women are people who pay attention to the atmosphere. If the atmosphere is harmonious, women can feel more at ease. In this environment, she is more likely to trust each other. If the atmosphere is noisy or the air is not fresh, women are easily disturbed by these small details, and their mood will be seriously affected. Of course, the desire to communicate and speak will also decrease.

Generally speaking, in order to truly understand a woman's heart, we must understand these three defense systems. The more you understand a woman's mind, the more you can go deep into her inner world and win her approval, thus establishing a close relationship between you.

When are girls defenseless against you? These four kinds of women are very defensive.

First, women who have been hurt in their feelings have a particularly strong sense of psychological defense.

As the saying goes, "once bitten, twice shy", so when a woman is hurt in her feelings, it may not be easy to believe in love! Because she paid too much in the last relationship and showed her sincerity, but she didn't expect to be hurt in the end! Therefore, in the face of the next new relationship, even if she really likes this man, she will not be particularly sincere, and she will be prepared. She has some psychological defenses and won't open up like this man!

Second, women who grew up in insecure families have a particularly strong sense of psychological defense.

If a woman grew up in an insecure environment, then she may have a strong sense of defense against others, because this defense is a self-protection ability forced by her growing environment! Therefore, in the face of emotional problems, she will be more sensitive and psychologically alert, and it will not be so easy to expose her true thoughts! In short, women who grow up in an insecure environment will have a strong sense of defense and psychological defense, and it is difficult to open their hearts to men!

Third, women with parents with particularly strong psychological defense ability have a particularly strong sense of psychological defense.

As the saying goes, "parents are the best teachers for children", and every word and deed of parents will have a subtle influence on children! Therefore, when a pair of parents have super psychological defense ability, then their children will also be affected and have strong psychological defense ability! Therefore, a woman with parents with strong psychological defense ability has a particularly strong sense of psychological defense, and it is difficult for her to open her heart to a man!

Fourth, women who often have sex with women with a particularly strong sense of psychological defense have a particularly strong sense of psychological defense.

In life, we always make friends with like-minded people. Similarly, we will be influenced by our friends and become like her! Therefore, if a woman is often with a person with a particularly strong psychological defense ability, then she will become a woman with a particularly strong psychological defense ability, so it is difficult to open her heart to a man!

In short, these four kinds of women have strong psychological defense consciousness, and it is difficult to open their hearts to a man!