Civilized etiquette greetings and basic etiquette

Civilized etiquette greetings and basic etiquette

Lead: Etiquette is the most basic moral norm that human beings require people to abide by in order to maintain the normal operation of society. It is gradually formed in people's long-term life and communication and is fixed by customs and traditions.

Courtesy greetings: Hello! Good morning! Good evening and good night! Good morning! How have you been recently? Are you okay?

Basic etiquette

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Instrument refers to a person's appearance, which is the external expression of a person's mental outlook. A person's hygiene and cultivation habits. Clothing and image are closely related to maintaining a dignified and generous appearance.

1. personal hygiene: hygiene is the key to beautiful appearance and the basic requirement of etiquette. No matter how beautiful the dress is, no matter how luxurious the clothes are, if they are unkempt and smelly, they will inevitably destroy a person's external image. Therefore, everyone should develop good hygiene habits, such as sleeping, getting up, washing face, washing feet, brushing your teeth at breakfast and dinner, washing your hair frequently, taking a bath frequently, and paying attention to personal hygiene such as neat appearance, changing clothes frequently and washing your hands frequently. Don't clean your personal hygiene in front of people. For example, picking teeth, picking nostrils, digging ear wax, manicure, rubbing dirt and so on. These behaviors should be avoided by others, otherwise, it is not only unsightly, but also disrespectful to others. When talking with people, keep a certain distance, and it is best not to speak too loudly, which will splash on the population.

2. Dressing: Clothing reflects a person's cultural quality and aesthetic taste. Specifically, it is necessary to be natural, decent, harmonious and generous, and to abide by some established norms or principles. Clothing should not only adapt to its own specific conditions, but also always pay attention to the dress requirements of objective environment and occasions, that is, dress should take time, place and purpose first, and strive to keep in harmony with time, place and purpose in all aspects of dress so as not to destroy its image and taste.

The content/manner of speech

As an art, speech is also an important part of personal etiquette.

1, courtesy: be sincere and kind; The sound size should be appropriate, and the tone should be peaceful and calm; Respect others.

2. Terminology: honorifics, words expressing respect and courtesy. Like daily use? Please. 、? Thank you? 、? Excuse me. Wait, the second guy said that? What about you? Words, etc First time? I've heard a lot? ; Long time no see? Long time no see? ; Please criticize it as? Teaching? ; Trouble others to weigh? Excuse me. ; Convenient? Excuse me. ; What does the client do? Please. Wait a minute. Efforts should be made to form the habit of using honorifics. Now the polite language advocated in our country is ten words:? Hello? 、? Please. 、? Thank you? 、? Excuse me. 、? Goodbye? . These ten words embody the basic language form of speaking civilization.

Etiquette and manners

1, Conversation posture: Conversation posture often reflects a person's character, cultivation and civilized quality. Therefore, when talking, the two sides should first look at each other and listen to each other. They should not look around, read books and newspapers, look tired and yawn, otherwise they will give people the impression of being absent-minded and arrogant.

2, standing posture: standing posture is the most basic posture of people, is a static beauty. When standing, the body should be perpendicular to the ground, the center of gravity should be placed on the palms of the two front feet, chest out, abdomen in, jaw in, head up and shoulders relaxed. Arms naturally droop or cross in front of the body, eyes straight and smiling. Don't bend your neck, waist and legs when standing. In some formal occasions, it is not advisable to put your hands in your trouser pockets or cross your chest, let alone make some small moves unconsciously. This will not only appear stiff, give people a feeling of lack of self-confidence, but also lose the dignity of etiquette.

3, sitting posture: sitting is also a static shape. A dignified and elegant sitting posture will give people an elegant, steady and natural aesthetic feeling. The correct sitting posture should be: straight back and relaxed shoulders. Women should put their knees together or tilt their knees together; Male knees can be separated, but not too big, generally not more than shoulder width. Put your hands naturally on your knees or on the armrests of your chair. On formal occasions, you should be gentle when you sit down, dignified and steady when you get up, and you can't rattle tables and chairs and create an embarrassing atmosphere. No matter what sitting posture, you should keep your upper body straight, as the ancients said. Sit like a clock? . If you insist on this, no matter how you change your posture, it will be beautiful and natural.

meeting etiquette

Handshake ceremony

Shaking hands is an important way to exchange ideas, feelings and friendship. When shaking hands with others, look at them with a smile, don't be absent-minded, look around, and don't shake hands with others with a hat and gloves. In general, the handshake time should not exceed 3 seconds. You must stand up and shake hands to show respect and courtesy to others.

Handshakes also pay attention to a certain order: general? Your honour person decided? That is, after a lady, an elder, a married person and a person with high status reach out, a man, a younger generation, an unmarried person and a person with low status can reach out and respond. If a person wants to shake hands with many people, the polite order is: first superior, then subordinate, first elder, then junior, first host, then guest.

public place

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The audience should be seated as soon as possible. If their seats are in the middle, they should politely signal to the people sitting to let them pass. It's impolite to give your seat to the front. Don't put your hips in other people's faces. You should pay attention to dress neatly, even if the weather is hot, don't be topless, don't shout and laugh in the theater, don't turn your mobile phone on vibration, and don't treat the theater as a snack bar. After the performance, the audience should leave in an orderly way and don't push.

Library reading room

Libraries and reading rooms are public learning places.

① Pay attention to neatness and obey the rules. You can't come in wearing a sweatshirt and dragging shoes. When sitting, don't leave a seat for others. When consulting the catalog card, don't turn it over or tear it off, and don't scribble on it with a pen.

② Keep quiet and sanitary. It's impolite to walk lightly, don't talk loudly, and don't eat food with sound or shells.

(3) Books, chairs, benches, etc. in libraries and reading rooms belong to public property, so we should also take care of them, and don't arbitrarily depict or destroy them.

Ride etiquette

1. Cycling: We must strictly abide by the traffic rules. Do not run a red light, ride a bike without an umbrella, chase or run a tortuous race, or ride a bike with people. When the old, the weak, the sick and the disabled are slow to move, they should understand and take the initiative to be polite.

2. By train or ship: In the waiting room, keep quiet and don't make any noise. Line up in turn when you get on the bus. Don't push or collide. Don't spit everywhere, throw scraps of paper and let children urinate everywhere in the carriage and on the boat.

3. By bus: When the bus arrives at the station, you should queue up in turn and take good care of women, children, the elderly and the sick and disabled. Don't grab a seat after getting on the bus, and don't put anything on the seat to occupy it for others. Passengers who are old, weak, sick, pregnant or holding a baby should take the initiative to give up their seats.

Travel etiquette

1. Sightseeing: All tourists should take good care of the public property in the tourist area. Public buildings, facilities, cultural relics and historic sites, even flowers and trees, cannot be destroyed at will; Don't scribble, scribble or carve on columns, walls, monuments and other buildings; No spitting, urinating, no environmental pollution; Don't throw peels, scraps of paper and sundries.

2. Hotel Accommodation: Passengers staying in any hotel should not make any noise in the room, so as not to affect other guests. Be polite to the waiters and thank them for their service.

3. Dining in a restaurant: respect the work of the waiter, be modest and polite to the waiter, wait patiently when the waiter is too busy, don't knock on the table and bowl, and don't shout. For the waiter's mistakes in work, we should put forward them in good faith, not cynicism.

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Bowing, which means bending down to salute, is a polite way to respect others. When bowing, you must stand at attention, take off your hat, salute, or say something nice while bowing. Look at each other before bowing to show sincerity of respect.

welcome

Greeting is a silent greeting etiquette, which is often used by people you know to say hello on various occasions. In social situations, people often wave, bow and take off their hats to show friendliness.

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