How do parents carry out home-school cooperation?

Parents' home-school cooperation mode is as follows:

1.？ The right idea? Positive attitude: actively cooperate with school education and never participate in school education with the idea of "letting nature take its course". Actively participate, but also have a correct concept. For example, how to give full play to the subjectivity of parent teaching? How to understand and apply advanced educational concepts such as respect and encouragement? How to treat academic qualifications and abilities, and so on. If the concept is incorrect, the more positive the attitude, the more unfavorable it is for the growth of children.

2.？ Know the teacher? There is a way to cooperate: parents can get to know the personality and education level of teachers (especially class teachers) as soon as possible through contact with teachers and conversation with children. In cooperation, it is necessary to vary from person to person, mobilize teachers' enthusiasm for work to the maximum extent, give full play to their potential, and enable them to implement education that conforms to children's characteristics. For example, a teacher who has a bad temper and likes to criticize face to face can't come clean about the mistakes made by introverted children at home. Because the teacher is impatient, does not understand the situation deeply, and directly faces criticism, it will not be conducive to children's understanding of mistakes, and even make children have psychological problems such as confrontation with teachers.

3.？ How close is the connection? Solve the problem: Some parents go to the teacher to ask about the situation when they have time in order to cooperate with the teacher in education and get to know their children in time. This not only delays one's own time, but also brings unnecessary troubles to teachers and even affects their normal work. Parents must be clear about what problems need to be solved when looking for a teacher and make an appointment with the teacher in advance. It is best to communicate simply by phone in advance, so that teachers can be psychologically prepared and help solve problems.

4.？ Take the law as appropriate? Various forms: in the contact and communication with teachers, parents can use letters, telephone calls, emails, interviews and other forms. According to the situation of solving problems, rather than sticking to the form of going to school to interview teachers. Appropriate methods may be more conducive to communication and cooperation.

5.？ Respect the teacher? Establish prestige: In any case, parents should help teachers establish prestige. Otherwise, a teacher who has no prestige in the eyes of students can imagine the educational effect on children. When teachers educate children or deal with problems, it is inevitable that things will go wrong, and parents should treat them calmly.

The purpose of solving problems is to help children grow up healthily, so we must not damage the position of teachers in children's hearts. For example, a young teacher complained to parents that after repeated education by teachers and parents, children could only listen for more than 20 minutes in class, and they couldn't sit still the rest of the time, asking parents to discipline them well, or they would stop their children from attending classes.

6.？ Empathy? Resolve conflicts: Sometimes teachers say something wrong and do something wrong in front of their children, so parents should be more considerate. Because teachers are ordinary people and have secular desires; Some young teachers should have a growth process; It is inevitable that a teacher will make mistakes when he has to manage forty or fifty people. When children are improperly criticized or treated unfairly by teachers, parents should bear in mind that the purpose of communication is to facilitate the healthy growth of children. A junior one boy came home from school and said angrily to his father, "I didn't speak at all in class, but the teacher insisted that I speak and criticized me in public?" Dad replied, "Really?

Maybe the teacher is wrong. I sympathize with you for being misunderstood by the teacher. "When the child saw that his father sympathized with him, he confidently said that he would settle accounts with the teacher. Dad led the child and said, "It's a little petty for you to do so. Men should have tolerance and self-cultivation, and high-quality people should have tolerant qualities.