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What is "breaking off relatives"? Why is the phenomenon of "breaking off relatives" becoming more and more common?

Human relations have been the mainstay of society since ancient times. Especially relatives, is the past society more solid human relations, but the continuous development of society, to the present day, between the relatives of the kind of human feelings seems to be more and more faded! In the past, that kind of strong human feelings seemed to disappear, and the "break" between relatives is becoming more and more common.

The so-called "breakup" is a situation in which people who are related by blood or marriage are gradually fading away from each other for various reasons. Especially after 90, this phenomenon is accelerating the rise, more and more after 90, has not and relatives to deal with! So why is the phenomenon of "broken relatives" becoming more and more common?

1, the popularity of the network and cell phones, alienated the feelings between relatives. There is no doubt that nowadays we can't get away from our cell phones no matter where we go. Everyone spends much more time with their cell phones every day than with the people around them. In today's world where networking has spread to the rural areas, most people like to communicate with people in the online world, and usually they just want to be on their phones, and they don't want to be on their neighbors and relatives. So, can this relationship not become indifferent?

2. In the past, it was a family-type agricultural production relationship, relying on blood relations to survive. Now is the development of industry, more dependent on commodity trade to survive. That productivity determines the relations of production, it is inevitable to break the blood relations. Today's people will not have the kind of simple relationship between the previous, many relationships are built on the interests and relationships.

3, the one-child policy leads to no siblings, only cousins of siblings, grow up and go their own way, and so the old man who maintains the cousins passed away, and slowly do not return to their homes do not come to each other, they do not know. The relationship between relatives is slowly broken. There is not much contact and interaction with each other, so there is no **** love topics and memories.

All in all, for the phenomenon of broken relatives, in fact, there is not much that can be done, after all, barely maintain the relationship can not be long, but also very tired. Like-minded friends must be long-lasting friends, but relatives are sometimes not necessarily true relatives!