I want to know the life of Yuguo in Blue Sky University?

1962 I was born in Jingdezhen, Jiangxi, and my parents both worked in the long-distance bus station. I gave birth to a baby when I was one and a half years old.

Guo Yu's "family portrait", a warm threesome.

Paralysis, left leg falling disability, rejected and rejected by his father. Every time I come home drunk, he treats me as the object of venting and beating and scolding. In order to protect me, my mother often wrestles with my father desperately; When my father vented enough and fell asleep, my mother hugged me tightly and healed my mental and physical wounds with her love.

With the birth of two sisters, our life is getting more and more embarrassed. But my father, who has no sense of responsibility for his wife, children and family, not only refuses to get his salary back, but also drinks too much outside. When he came back, he fought with me and my mother. Looking at my mother's haggard face, I feel extremely distressed. While wiping my mother's tears, I vowed to say, "Mom, I will never smoke or drink or abuse my wife and children when I grow up. I want to be the best father in the world. " My mother was heartbroken at my words and cried and hugged me tighter. 1976 when I was in the second grade, my kind mother couldn't stand my father's rudeness and asked for a divorce. When the court ruled, my father thought that I was disabled and would only be a burden in the future, so he proposed that two sisters be raised by him and I be raised by my mother. Mother accepted it without saying anything.

In order to let my mother get rid of the pain and shadow of marriage as soon as possible, my uncle in Wuxi, Jiangsu took my mother back to her family, and my uncle left me a sum of money to live in school. From this day on, I became sensible, knew the cruelty of life and the difference between me and other children: because of my disability, my father never loved me, and now my mother is leaving me, so I can only go on on my own. Before leaving, I comforted my tearful mother: "I must study hard and learn more skills."

After living on campus, learn art from the teacher. Because I am diligent and eager to learn, I quickly mastered the painting skills and became a little painter. 1980 graduated from high school and took the college entrance examination. His score was more than 40 points higher than the admission line because he was rejected by the university because of his disability. I was very sad and depressed. My remarried mother took me to my new home in Nanchang. My stepfather is an old artist of Jiangxi Repertory Theatre. He thought my painting was good and asked me to take an examination of artists in Jiangxi Theatre. The theater leader appreciated my talent and was ready to hire me, but I was not approved because of my left leg disability when I submitted it for approval. Troupe leaders who are eager for success have come to the cultural department again and again to explain the situation. Finally, several leaders of the cultural department came to the troupe. They watched me work and watch me walk. It was not until they saw that I climbed scaffolding flexibly like a normal person that I was approved to become an artist in Jiangxi Theatre.

I cherish this hard-won opportunity and work hard. The porcelain pillow designed and produced for the costume drama "Handan Dream" won the Jiangxi Science and Technology Progress Award. Later, I fell in love with clothes. An actor in the troupe got married and I made him a suit for free. As a result, the guests said it was more exquisite than the suits sold on the street, and I became famous from then on. Many people in the troupe begged me to make clothes for them, and my ability and enthusiasm won unanimous praise from the troupe.

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There is an actress in the group named Yu Xiaomei who sings Hua Dan. She is very handsome and very diligent when practicing martial arts. What is more rare is that she is gentle and considerate. We often chat together. After learning about my life experience and family situation, she was particularly sympathetic to me. She treats me like a big sister and often brings me delicious food from home.

At that time, my monthly salary was only 16 yuan, and I couldn't afford a bicycle at all. Xiaomei always lends me her new car to ride. Unconsciously, I had attachment and affection for this girl who is two years older than me, but I dare not confess to her-she is so excellent and perfect, and I am an ugly duckling with only a disability, how can I deserve a white swan?

198 1 year, our group went to Yiyang to perform. When moving props, the pulley that was dropped hurt his waist and he was admitted to the hospital. Xiaomei and her colleagues came to the hospital to see me, secretly went to the market to buy some eggs, cooked them in an alcohol stove and sent them to the hospital. She said to me with red eyes, "Eat while it's hot. I wanted to stew a chicken for you, but I can't afford it. " Hearing this, I was moved to tears. I grew up in the eyes of people's discrimination and indifference. Coupled with the divorce of my parents and the remarriage of my mother, my emotional world is almost blank. For many years, I have longed for this kind of care and consideration. I choked up and said to her, "Xiaomei, having you is better than eating anything."

After I was discharged from the hospital, the troupe went to Leping to perform again. Xiaomei's skin is allergic, and the original fair skin is red and swollen after exposure to the sun. The hospital is far from our station, so I don't trust her to go alone, so I offered to accompany her to the hospital for an injection. She agreed, and we agreed to meet at the railway station square at two noon and go together.

Actually, this is our first date. I am too nervous to take a lunch break. I got up secretly at one o'clock and went out. I didn't expect to meet Xiaomei halfway. When she saw me, she was surprised and said, "Why are you here so early? Didn't you say two o'clock? " I cross the tunnel: "Aren't you here early?" You can see that we are still here. I feel the harmonious heartbeat of the sacred unicorn! "She blushed and bowed her head. Later, she told me that she felt uncomfortable after she promised to let me accompany her to the hospital that day. The young man was embarrassed to see the injection on the big girl's ass, so he wanted to go to the hospital alone and come to the square to find me after the injection. I didn't expect me to come early, which caught her off guard.

When I got to the hospital, I stood outside the door waiting for her. On the way back, I finally got up the courage to say to her, "It's still early, let's take a walk." Xiaomei nodded embarrassedly. We walked silently for a long time along the winding path. There are a thousand words in my heart, but I don't know where to start. Go straight to a new building, and we sit on the threshold to have a rest. Looking at the new house without doors and windows, I joked, "Xiaomei, if only this were our new house." Xiaomei gave me a shy smile and said, "You dream of marrying a daughter-in-law, just to be beautiful."

I boldly took her hand and said, "Xiaomei, I dream of marrying you." Will you marry me? " Xiaomei snorted like a mosquito: "I do." I asked nervously, "My family is poor and my salary is lower than yours. You don't think I have nothing, do you? " Xiaomei said, "When we have love, everything will be there." I hit my lame left leg and said what I was most worried about: "I am disabled." If your family knows, they will definitely object. " She smiled and said to me, "You are smarter and more capable than normal people. As long as we really love each other, my parents will agree with my choice. " I hugged her tightly and swore, "Xiaomei, I will love you all my life, and I will do my best to make you happy all my life."

Sure enough, our love was not only strongly opposed by her parents, but also the leaders and colleagues of the troupe thought it unwise to ask me to be a boyfriend on Xiaomei's condition. Later, the leader also talked to me specifically and said, "Xiaomei is a very good girl and a top actress trained by the group." Her future is boundless. To tell the truth, you are not a good match together, and you will not be happy even if you get married and start a family in the future. You are a smart person, you should know how to choose your own love. I did this for your own good and for Xiaomei. "

Xiaomei's mother came to me and said, "Xiaomei is two years older than you." Women are prone to aging, and your marriage will not be happy in the future. " Xiaomei's father insisted: "I firmly oppose Xiaomei talking about friends with you, and I hope you can be sensible."

Faced with such great pressure, I am really disheartened. I said to Xiaomei, "Let's make a clean break for your future and happiness." Xiaomei cried and said to me, "Without your love, I will never be happy." Didn't you promise to love me for life and make me happy for life? "In the face of such a spoony woman, I swear to heaven: this is a woman worthy of my life's love and pain, and I should not shrink back.

On March 6th 1985, no guests were invited, no banquet was held, firecrackers were set off, and two dishes were fried. Xiaomei and I held the simplest and most deserted wedding for ourselves. A year later, our son was born While I am busy with my work in the troupe, I also do housework and wash diapers from morning till night, and keep my childhood promise: love my wife, don't beat and scold my children, and be a qualified husband and father. Mother-in-law sees that our life is happy, so she doesn't care about the past. She often comes to help us look after the children, and the family is harmonious and warm.

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1990 I changed my name to Yuguo, which means to work hard and do something to live up to my wife's true feelings for me. I went to Russia to do barter trade when my company was in recession and I didn't have a chance to play. Thanks to the help of my friends and my correct decision, in less than half a year, I have succeeded in several businesses, one of which has a net profit of more than 1 10,000 yuan. I'm preparing to make great achievements. When I was in Moscow, my wife called to say that she and her children missed me very much. What they want is my husband and father, not money. What they want is me to go home and live together. I put the phone down without saying anything, ready to pack up and go home.

When my friends learned about it, they all regretted my decision, saying that I have a good business mind and talent, and that Russia's reform and opening up is also very beneficial for us to do business there. If I work there for a few more years, I will definitely become a billionaire. But I shook my head and said, "compared with my family, billionaires are nothing." The friend asked inexplicably, "How can you, a man, give up your career for your family?" I smiled and said, "Just because I am a man, I am responsible for my wife, children and family." The friend was angry and said, "You are still a small farmer, and you can't live without your wife's hot kang." . Do you know what kind of wife a man can't find when he has a career and money? "I smiled and said," a wife is easy to find, but a happy family can't be made by money. "Besides, talented people can develop everywhere, and I can expand my career when I get home."

Perhaps the shadow left by my bitter childhood and my parents' divorce is too deep. I especially value the feelings of my wife and children and cherish the happy marriage I have now. So, under the call of my wife and children, I left Russia regardless of my friends' repeated detention.

After returning to Jiangxi, I invested and set up a school in Nanchang to train losers and disabled poor students like me. After six years of hard work and struggle, at present, our school has 14600 students and fixed assets of nearly 300 million yuan, making it the largest private university in China. Not long ago, at the Third Session of the Ninth National People's Congress, as the only representative of private schools, I submitted the motion of the Private Education Law to the General Assembly. I firmly believe that with the country's emphasis on education, we will be able to build a famous private university in China, so that more young people can receive a good education and become useful people to society.

(This is Guo Yu's own narrative, using the first person)