How should girls give birth to the family concept of son preference?

Influenced by the traditional culture of China, the concept of son preference has always existed in China. So, if you live in such a family, how can you resolve the complaints and hatred in your heart? I think the following points may be helpful to you:

First, always be grateful.

We can't choose our parents, but we can choose our attitude towards life. The world is very big, without parents, there would be no us, and it would be more elegant and educated.

Compared with the life given by parents, the ideological "defects" seem insignificant. Even if our parents don't do well, we should always be grateful, because remembering the warmth from our parents can help us resolve some dissatisfaction and resentment.

Second, the road to life depends on yourself.

In addition to the imbalance of parents' spiritual care, the preference for boys over girls is more manifested in material discrimination.

In the middle school in the TV series, Sue's mother can sell iron for her son to go to school, even at the expense of selling a house, but Mingyu just wants to spend money to enroll in the remedial class, but she is ordered by Sue's mother to stop, and finally Mingyu runs away from home in grief.

After many years, Mingyu has become a golden collar in the workplace, and has made a "sunshine avenue" on her own and achieved financial freedom. When she is rich in material and independent in spirit, her past complaints and hatred will also be alleviated.

Third, you must untie the bell and the person who tied it.

The so-called complaints and hatred, in fact, just hope to get more care and love from parents.

As the saying goes, the palm of your hand is full of meat. Even if parents have a preference for sons, I believe they love their daughters.

Since you have bad feelings in your heart, it is better to sit down with your parents, talk openly and tell your parents what you think. All complaints and hatred will be resolved at the moment of "letting bygones be bygones" and hugging your parents.

Fourth, seek professional help.

When there is a long-standing bad mood in your heart that cannot be solved independently, it is better to seek the help of professionals.

You can find a psychologist or counselor, and with professional guidance and resolution, complaints and hatred will be well solved.

Mu took the lead and Hua Mulan joined the army as her father. These allusions are telling: Who says women are not as good as men?

In my opinion, both boys and girls, since they are parents, should pay the same love to their children. This is what a qualified parent should do.