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Ancient female etiquette poems

1. Ancient poems about etiquette, famous sayings about civilized etiquette

1, static to cultivate one's morality, frugal to cultivate one's morality. -Zhuge Liang

2. People who respect others will always respect others; People who love others will always love others. -Mencius

3. The overlord takes two rivers alone, and hundreds of descendants descend. After the success of luxury, what is the double danger? -Wang Anshi

4. People are rude, things are rude, countries are rude and restless. -Xunzi

5, treat people like brothers; Evil spirits welcome people and harm soldiers. -Guan Zhong

There are brave people in the world. They are not surprised when they come, but they are not angry. -Su Shi

7. Looking back at the countries and families of the former sages has become the result of thrift and extravagance. -Li Shangyin

8, poor but not flattering, rich but not arrogant. -Zigong

9. If you don't learn manners, you can't stand it. -Confucius

10, strong is frugal, poor is not poor. -Xun Kuang

1 1, you won't be arrogant, arrogance will lead to rudeness, rudeness will lead people to leave, and people will rebel. -Zhuge Liang

12, extravagant and lazy people are poor, and thrifty people are rich. -Han Fei

13, the gentleman's trip, quiet to cultivate one's morality, frugal to cultivate one's morality, not indifferent to his ambition, not quiet and far-reaching. -Zhuge Liang

14, Tufu can be a city wall, and it is thick. -Li Bai

15, luxury leads to more desires. If a gentleman longs for more, he will read Mu Fugui, and he will waste his way and get into trouble soon. -Sima Guang

16, extravagant, messy and frugal, a fierce one is just around the corner. -Bai Juyi

17, learned in the article, with a gift. -Confucius

18, if you don't suffer from a position, you don't respect it, and you don't respect it; Not ashamed of Lu's disagreement, but ashamed of his lack of wisdom. -Zhang Heng

19, don't think about being prepared for danger in times of peace, and refrain from extravagance and thrift; Swargen seeks wood for luxury, and the source of the plug wants to flow long. Wei Zhi

20, don't do it with evil, don't do it with good. Only virtue and virtue can serve others. -Liu Bei

2. The poem about etiquette "If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand." -The Analects of Confucius and Ji's "A gentleman carries things with virtue": a benevolent person loves others, and a courtesy person respects others. Those who love others will always love others, and those who respect others will always respect others. -Mencius: Under Li Lou, courtesy reciprocated. It is impolite to go instead of coming; It is impolite to come instead of going. -On "Book of Rites Quli" Etiquette is a mirror that reflects everyone's own image. Goethe: One of the most important tasks of affinity civilization is to make people obey the form in his pure material life. Make people become aesthetic people in the realm of beauty. -Schiller: Aesthetic education of letter politeness is the art of making choices in one's true thoughts. ——A· Stevens: Mrs de Steele makes polite people happy, and also makes those who are treated politely happy. -Montesquieu: On the spirit of law, politeness will not be lost. But you can get everything. -montague: Etiquette in the collection of letters is the smallest but most stable norm. -laroche Foucault: The book of moral proverbs is the flower of universal love. People who have no manners can't talk about universal love. Joubaire: A collection of famous sayings makes a person great, not because of wealth and family, but because of its preciousness. The second is misconduct and neglect; The only way to avoid these two situations is to abide by the following rules, that is, don't look down on yourself and others. -John Locke: A ramble on education.

3. Ancient women's etiquette The so-called ancient women's etiquette refers to: not marrying from the father, marrying from the husband, and dying from the son.

It means that girls should listen to their parents' instructions before getting married, and don't contradict the instructions of their elders at will, because their social knowledge is rich and has fundamental guiding significance; After marriage, you should be polite to your husband, keep a house and practice with your husband, respect the old and love the young; If the husband unfortunately dies before himself, he should stick to his duties, find ways to raise the children and respect their philosophy of life. What we are talking about here is not the superficial meaning of following, but the essence of work.

The so-called four virtues refer to: virtue, tolerance, words and deeds, that is to say, being a woman, the first thing is morality, and being upright; Then there are looks (pointing out that you should be dignified and steady, and you can't be frivolous and casual), words (referring to talking with people, being able to attach meanings at will, being able to understand what others say, knowing what you should say and what you shouldn't say) and the way of running a family (the way of running a family includes caring for each other, educating children, respecting the old and loving the young, frugality and other details of life).

Three cardinal guides and five permanents are also the basic moral principles and norms of China feudal society.

The three cardinal principles are that the monarch is the minister, the father is the son and the husband is the wife. It is required that ministers, sons and wives must absolutely obey the monarch, father and husband, and at the same time, they are required to set an example for ministers, sons and wives. It reflects a special moral relationship between monarch and minister, father and son and husband and wife in feudal society.

Benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom and faithfulness are the code of conduct used to adjust and standardize the interpersonal relationship between monarch and minister, father and son, brother, husband and wife and friends.

4. About the ancient etiquette, it is said that you can't believe it-Mozi people don't believe it-Confucius has no dignity without integrity-Cicero's truth is often a big lie in China's editorials-Franklin is sincere, and so is Heaven; If you are sincere, you will learn from others-Mencius' dishonesty is a failure-Zola's sincerity is an opening of mind-laroche Foucault can only deceive people for a while, but honesty is the long-term solution-john ray's honesty is a dignified weight, you wear it, life will no longer shake, and the balance will tilt to one end immediately.

Honesty is a bright moon. Only by looking into the bright eyes of China's editorials can we precipitate a true attitude towards life. Honesty is the living water on the top of the mountain, which can wash away glitz, restlessness and falsehood and leave a wonderful truth that inspires the soul.

When credit disappears, there is no life in the body-Dumas must be honest with himself if he wants others to be honest-Shakespeare's most immoral subscribers are dishonest and cowardly-Gorky hides the truth and lies to himself. Keep your word and you must abide by it.

Honesty is the wisest strategy. It's a deal.

A promise is a promise. Keep your promise.

A golden mouth and a jade word. A word spoken is a word that must be honored.

I ask others to be honest, and I want to be honest myself. Two hearts can't have one person, and one heart can't have a hundred people.

Sincerity is the highest virtue in life. The truth of Chaucer in China's editorial may be sad, but it is better than a lie. Of all the moral qualities, the kind nature is the most needed in the world. Russell, what is money compared with a pure conscience? Hardy's frankness is the most touching. Shakespeare sincerely believes that Chinese editorials and simplicity are precious qualities of genius. Stanislavski's paper can't contain fire, and mistakes can't be covered up. In a people's country, there is also a driving hub, and that is virtue.

Montesquieu cannot live like an animal, but should pursue knowledge and virtue. -Dante don't do it with evil, don't do it with good.

Only virtue and virtue can serve others. -Liu Bei is not suffering from disrespect, but suffering from disrespect for morality; Not ashamed of Lu's disagreement, but ashamed of his lack of wisdom.

-Zhang Hengtu can help the city wall, and he is kind. -Li Bai does a good deed and is calm; If you do a bad thing, you will feel ashamed.

-God shines in the mud without being defiled or eroded by bourgeois sugar-coated shells. This is the most valuable revolutionary quality. -Zhou Enlai One person thinks that the most sad thing in China's editorial is the death of conscience.

-Guo Moruo Shyness is a feeling of fear or humiliation, which can prevent people from doing some despicable acts. Spinoza should be keen on acting according to morality, not talking about morality.

-democritus Emotion has great inspiring power, so it is an important prerequisite for all moral behaviors. -Kailov Without great character, there would be no great people, let alone great artists and great actors.

-romain rolland's reason is higher than the soul, while credit is considered more reliable than feelings in Chinese editorials. -Gorky's factionalism is not only manifested in the fields and sweaty factories, but also in the family, at the dinner table, among relatives and in their relationships.

-Mayakovski Virtuous people have virtue only because they are not tempted enough; This is either because their life is monotonous and rigid, or because they are absorbed in running towards a goal and have no time to look around. -Duncan Human beings have been given a job, that is, spiritual growth.

-lev tolstoy people should be wise, morally innocent and physically clean. Chekhov's conscience is determined by man's knowledge and all his life styles.

-Marx Law-abiding and conscientious people will not steal even if they are in urgent need, but even if you give a thief a million gold coins, you can't expect him to never steal again. -krylov's Spiritual and Moral Strength Credit China's editorial has played its potential and raised its banner, so our patriotism and sense of justice have to play their role in reality.

Hegel teaches your children "virtue": it is virtue that makes people happy, not money. This is my experience.

What supports me in the predicament is morality, and what keeps me from committing suicide is morality outside art-if Beethoven's morality is corrupted, his taste will inevitably degenerate.

-Diderot I want to prove that any kind and noble person can bear troubles because of kindness. -Beethoven's decoration is also incompatible with virtue, because virtue is the strength and vitality of the soul.

-Rousseau I am convinced that only moral citizens can pay acceptable respects to their motherland. -Rousseau Let's regard shame as the heaviest part of punishment! Montesquieu's correct judgment of facts is the real foundation of all virtues.

-Comenius Virtue is achieved through actions rather than words. The only work and all work of Comenius education can be summarized by this concept-morality.

Herbart virtue is like a famous fragrance, which becomes stronger after burning or squeezing. Luck can best show evil virtue, and misfortune can best show virtue. -Bacon Those who conspire against others will suffer misfortune first.

Aesop A wise man would rather prevent a disease before it happens than cure it before it happens; Instead of seeking comfort for pain, it is better to encourage overcoming it. -Thomas Moore Our strong morality is to achieve material success through struggle; This morality applies to both Guoxin's Chinese editorials and individuals.

-Russell cultivated their hard-working physical strength, pure and noble morality, broad and free spirit to accommodate new trends, that is, the power to swim in the new trends of the world without being submerged. -Only when Lu Xun not only eliminated class opposition, but also forgot the stage of social development of class opposition in real life, could he surpass class opposition and remember it.

-Engels We have proletarian morality, we should develop it, consolidate it, and educate future generations with this proletarian morality. -Gary ning's current task is to, even under the most difficult conditions.

5. Ancient Female Etiquette In China's traditional ethics, the requirements for women are harsh, and the so-called "three obedience" and "four virtues" are the foundation of women's existence.

-the so-called "three obedience" means: don't marry from the father, marry from the husband, and the husband dies in the child. It means that girls should listen to their parents' instructions before getting married, and don't contradict the instructions of their elders at will, because their social knowledge is rich and has fundamental guiding significance; After marriage, you should be polite to your husband, keep a house and practice with your husband, respect the old and love the young; If the husband unfortunately dies before himself, he should stick to his duties, find ways to raise the children and respect their philosophy of life. Obedience here is not "following" in the superficial sense, but the essence of "engaging" with the nature of work.

The so-called four virtues refer to: virtue, tolerance, words and deeds, that is to say, being a woman, the first thing is morality, and being upright; Then there are looks (pointing out that you should be dignified and steady, and you can't be frivolous and casual), words (meaning that you should be free to add meaning when talking to others, understand what others say, and know what you should and shouldn't say) and the way of running a family (the way of running a family includes taking care of your husband, educating children, respecting the old and loving the young, being thrifty and so on). -

Three cardinal guides and five permanents are also the basic moral principles and norms of China feudal society.

-"Three cardinal guides" means "the monarch is the minister's guide, the father is the son's guide, and the husband is the wife's guide". It is required that ministers, sons and wives must obey the monarch, father and husband absolutely, and that the monarch, father and husband set an example at the same time. It reflects a special moral relationship between monarch and minister, father and son and husband and wife in feudal society.

The "five permanents", namely, benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom and faithfulness, are the code of conduct used to adjust and standardize the interpersonal relationship between monarch and minister, father and son, brother, husband and wife and friends. -

Bow your head (bow can be added to the front-then bow your head)

Qi Mei, please raise your hand.

Step two: kneel down,

Step 3: Put your head on the ground for a while and still raise your hand, Qi Mei.

Step 4: Stand up straight and still raise your hand, Qi Mei.

Step 5: Knees up, hands still up, Qi Mei.

Step 6: Put your hands down.

Second, kowtow (bow can be added in front-then kowtow)

Qi Mei, please raise your hand.

Step two: get down on one knee,

Step 3: Touch the ground with your head. Put your hands on your sides.

Step 4: Straighten your upper body and return to Qi Mei with your hands.

Step 5: Qi Mei, get down on one knee and still raise your hand.

Step 6: Put your hands down.

(If you want to repeat proffering flaming, you still have to kneel up straight and hold Qi Mei's hand for fun. Touching your head on the ground again and putting your hands on your sides is for worship. Repeat this way back and forth, just watch it a few times)

Three nods

Step 1: Get on your knees.

Step 2: Put your hands on the ground and bow your head.

Step 3: nod your head

Step 4: Raise your knees.

Four empty hands

Step 1: Get on your knees.

Step 2: Put your hands on the ground and touch your head (but don't touch your hands).

Step 3: Get on your knees.

Five bows

Qi Mei, please raise your hand.

Step 2: Bow 45 degrees solemnly and slowly, and at the same time move your arms down from your eyebrows to your chest.

Bow slightly.

Step 65438 +0: Raise your hand and hold your chest.

Step 2: Bow slightly.

Nod six (a gift, used by the recipient to thank the giver)

When standing instead of sitting, put your hands on your abdomen and bend slightly.

Seven-handed handover

Raise your hands to chest height and keep your upper body still.

Eighty thousand blessings

Step 1: Raise your hands to chest height, but on the left chest side.

Step 2: the posterior branch of the right foot

Step 3: Bend your knees solemnly and slowly and lower your head.

Then there was hail, as you often see now.

Step 1: Put your hands gently on your left hip.

Step 2: the posterior branch of the right foot

Step 3: Bend your knees solemnly and slowly and lower your head.

Step 3: Bend your knees slightly, lower your head and say "salute to someone".

On the third day of March, it was a sunny day. Many beautiful women were walking along the Chang 'an River. They were receptive, indifferent, sweet and sincere, with soft skin and well-proportioned bones. Their embroidered silk robes sparkled in the spring sunshine, and a group of golden peacocks and silver unicorns hung on their temples? Cui is a lotus leaf hanging on his lips; The beads behind them pressed tightly against their waists and bodies. -Du Fu's "The Second Way" Hu Ji is fifteen years old and has a spring outing alone. She is wearing a long skirt with wide sleeves and a tie. She wears a lantian jade on her head and a big Zhu Qin behind her ears. She is gentle and has no good life. One is 5 million, and two are.