Knowledge of Chinese Studies —— The Origin of Mutual Benefit

You want to send me a peach, and I want to give it back to Qiong Yao. Bandits always feel good if they don't report it. ? This is the Book of Songs? National wind? Feng Wei? There is a chapter in "Papaya" which means that if you give me Mutao, I will repay Qiong Yao (Meiyu). The Book of Songs? Daya？ There is also a sentence with the same meaning in "suppression": Give me a peach and give it back to Li. ? From here came an idiom? Return the favor .

In the eyes of the ancients, treating others with virtue is a basic moral accomplishment; Ingratitude is the most immoral behavior. People sum up this meaning as? Courtesy in return? ,? Shang? It means advocating, that is to say, courtesy focuses on giving and receiving. This? Etiquette is not limited to material gifts, but should be manifested as emotional and spiritual mutual assistance.

But you mustn't let it go, okay? Courtesy in return? Turned into a deal. Give others help, just wait for others to return; Or if you want to get some benefits from others, you will quickly plan to give them some gifts. In addition, the politeness of communication should be moderate. The original intention of giving gifts is to show respect and gratitude. What should we pay attention to? Meaning? , not less and less. Is that what the saying goes? The ceremony is light and heavy? .