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Why do you have a headache at home during the Spring Festival?

It is the happiest time for a family to sit together during the Spring Festival, but there are several moments at home during the Spring Festival that make me prefer to go to work rather than stay at home.

First of all, some people don't like their relatives coming home during the Spring Festival. The reason why these relatives don't like them very much is that they nominally come to their home to pay New Year's greetings, but in fact they come to their home to compare. Brush your sense of superiority and existence. For example, when a relative of mine visits my home during the Spring Festival, she will get to the bottom of my current situation, including whether I buy a house or a car in other places, and then she will brag to me that her son is so excellent and his income is several times that of me. I hate such relatives, so whenever this time, I would rather go to work than stay at home to receive such relatives. Also, when I was at home during the Spring Festival, my parents were single because I was over 30. They are worried that my marriage will often nag me and even force me to go on blind dates. At this time, I would rather go back to work than stay at home. Although I know their intentions are good, I can't force my feelings. They should also respect and take care of my feelings as much as possible. Many times, it is difficult for a marriage without feelings to really come to the end. Although my parents and I have expressed our views many times, they are also hard to accept, which has become a headache for me when I go home for the New Year.