When I went to someone's house for tea, I found that the tea had not been changed for a long time and there was no tea fragrance. What does this mean?

In my opinion, if we go to someone else's house to be a guest or talk about things and find that the tea brewed in his house is tasteless, it means that the host family is driving us away in disguise.

China's tea ceremony culture is profound and has a long history. Generally speaking, if we go to a friend's house as a guest, or go to a business partner's house to talk about things. Well, first of all, the host will make us a cup of tea. Even if the host family doesn't drink tea, there will be a cup of boiled water.

It should be noted that bringing you a cup of boiled water is not to look down on you, just because their family really doesn't drink tea, so don't get me wrong.

However, if the tea we drink in our host's house belongs to unchanged tea, it is already very weak and almost has no tea flavor, then the host is driving us away in disguise. But I am embarrassed to say that I can only express my meaning euphemistically through "tea that has not been changed for a long time". At this time, we should take the initiative to leave, or we will break off diplomatic relations.

Then some friends may think I'm making a fuss. Maybe some people just forgot to change their tea? In fact, we really don't rule out this possibility, but it is more likely that the host family is really kicking us out in disguise. In our traditional culture in China, tea ceremony culture is regarded as an important channel for communication between friends, and it has penetrated into everyone's life.

How to understand this? Tea ceremony culture plays a role in our daily friends' communication, just like the sentence "Have you eaten?" Questions we ask when we meet in China. . It feels vulgar, but it is indeed an indispensable tool for making friends in our daily life.

Therefore, friends can often be seen on TV, and the host usually brings a pot of good tea to entertain.

In fact, we can also use this kind of "long tea" to euphemistically express our hope that the other party will leave in the future.