It's really embarrassing that parents don't want their children to receive three kinds of gifts during the Spring Festival.

The Spring Festival is coming soon. During the New Year in China, people usually visit relatives and friends, get in touch with relatives, catch up with friends, or have some personal contacts.

In this process, some gift problems will inevitably be involved. After all, when you visit, you can't go home empty-handed.

Therefore, some children often receive some gifts from their elders during the Spring Festival.

However, many parents are deeply embarrassed about some gifts their children receive, because these gifts seem to be for their children, in order to make them happier, healthier and more active.

However, the actual consequences of children receiving gifts are often confusing.

Ordinary red envelopes symbolize beauty, while huge red envelopes are tangled.

Among them, the meaning is beautiful, but the most tangled thing may be the red envelope.

Red envelopes are gifts that elders often give their children on holidays. It's New Year, this is lucky money, and the children are very happy to get red envelopes.

Generally speaking, on holidays, the amount of red envelopes given to children by elders is higher than usual, but it is within the reasonable acceptance range of children. What is a reasonable range of acceptance? That is to say, children will not change some of their ideas because of the number of red envelopes, and they can still maintain their previous views on money.

If the amount of the red envelope is appropriate, it can not only keep the original meaning of the red envelope, but also give children enough pleasure, and will not form some kind of ideological or economic burden on parents.

However, if the amount of red envelopes is too large, it will not only improve the positive impact, but also lead to some negative situations.

If the amount of red envelopes is beyond the children's acceptance range, if parents let their children handle red envelopes, then the children's personal concepts may change, which is not conducive to the stability of children's values.

If the parents take it away, it will dampen the children's positive attitude and make them misunderstand or resent the Chinese New Year, even the parents and the behavior of giving red envelopes.

In addition, if the child receives a red envelope, parents must return the gift. As the saying goes, it is impolite not to return a gift.

However, the return of huge red envelopes must be huge gifts, which will increase the family's economic burden to a certain extent, which is not conducive to the family's planned economy and is likely to cause waste of value.

Because the gift you return is not necessarily what the other party needs, it is likely to cause long-term shelving and waste of resources.

Then, big red envelopes are embarrassing gifts for parents.

Although electronic products are loved by people, they are plagued by endless troubles.

Now is the information age, people like electronic products very much, because electronic products make people's lives more convenient and colorful.

Just like a mobile phone, it used to be just a communication device, but now it is a multi-functional device integrating communication, games, audio and video, learning and so on. There are also products such as tablets.

Generally speaking, electronic products are relatively expensive. If you give them as gifts, you can fully show your sincerity.

However, when children receive gifts of electronic products, some parents are full of entanglements.

Why?

In fact, the harm of electronic products to children is obvious to all parents: it affects vision, health, addiction, taking up children's study time and so on.

If the use time and time of children are not well controlled, electronic products may have a "devastating" blow to children, completely destroying their study habits, work and rest plans, living conditions and so on. It has a strong negative impact on their body and mind.

Of course, if it is well controlled, electronic products are still good for children, but as far as the current actual situation is concerned, parents who can control their children's access to electronic devices well are rare.

Therefore, most parents are deeply embarrassed that their children receive gifts such as electronic products.

Besides gold and jade, it is actually a gift.

Everyone's ability and circumstances are different, so will their economic ability. There are still many elders with limited economic ability in society.

And these elders visit relatives and friends, although they don't have high economic ability, they have an extraordinary heart. So when these elders give gifts to their children, they may have some expensive gifts.

Simply put, it's some gifts that are not worthy of the name. They look gorgeous, but when opened, the real products are of poor quality and even have some health risks.

For this gift, parents naturally have a headache. After all, these gifts are for children. It is unreasonable for you not to let the children accept it. If children are not allowed to use it, they will misunderstand it and let them use it for fear of problems.

Did you say you had a headache?

No parents want their children to receive the above three kinds of gifts, and as gifts, we try not to choose the above gifts.

The so-called ceremony is light and affection is heavy, and the home with outstanding gifts is a heart. As long as you really think about your child and choose the most suitable gift for your child, and these gifts can provide positive significance for your child's growth, then no matter how expensive the gift is, it is the best gift that parents are willing to accept.

These gifts have a strong positive effect on children's growth, which is completely difficult to be reflected by money value. So, don't feel bad about giving gifts cheaply. The most important thing for children is to be useful to children.

For example, this book "Our Festival China Year", a pop-up book, is not only golden in appearance, but also rich in connotation, which is simply the most suitable gift for children to celebrate the New Year.

The price of this book is not too expensive, more than 60 yuan, which is completely within the acceptable range.

But most importantly, because many children live in cities now, it is difficult to experience the traditional customs and tastes of the New Year. Perhaps most children don't know what "Nianwei" is. This is actually a pity for the growth of children.

This three-dimensional picture book, through a large number of three-dimensional scenes, allows children to understand the traditional festival culture of China while browsing, and feel the unique charm of China culture, so that children can have a ceremonial Chinese New Year experience.

In addition, the biggest feature of this book is its long panoramic interaction and interesting creative package. Parents can accompany their children to make lanterns, dance lion finger dolls, change clothes for their children, and make lanterns and paper-cuts together, so that children can better understand the joyful atmosphere and significance of the New Year.

A book allows children to experience the happiness of traditional customs and have a different New Year without leaving home, but it is said to be very valuable. Move your fingers, click on the link and take it home to play with your children.