Learning to be generous people

Being generous is a reflection of each person's ideological character and cultivation, which is both a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation and a basic concept. A person's ability is strong and knowledgeable, but if the character is not good, people are not right, will never be recognized by everyone. Therefore, generosity is a noble character, and excellent qualities such as sincerity, frankness, tolerance, humility, kindness and goodness are its profound connotation. As dealing with people, treating people with sincerity, generosity and tolerance, humility and courtesy, willingness to help each other, honesty and trustworthiness, you can certainly win the goodwill of others, heart for heart, and others will treat you with the same sincerity and generosity.

People live in a vacuum, everyone around such and such a person, together, they formed a colorful world. People need to be generous, generous people will get the respect of others, generous people can get a lot of sincere friends. To be honest, not mean, not exaggerated, not cheat, the table is the same, a little more understandable, simple.

Personally, I think that if you can be honest in the world and ask yourself if you have no faults, you will be able to rest assured. In our daily life, we often hear people say: so-and-so is generous, or so-and-so is not generous enough. Chutzpah is not chutzpah, is just to say that people are loyal or not loyal, honest or not honest, down-to-earth or not down-to-earth, in the final analysis is to evaluate the merits of a person's character.

In fact, there is no fixed meaning of chutzpah, it can only be the embodiment of a certain spirit, chutzpah also has no fixed form, it should be more of a practical interpretation of life. Chutzpah is a reflection of a person's thinking style is positive, honesty and integrity, words and deeds are consistent, so that people feel down-to-earth, a sense of security.

In a word, people like to make friends with people who are generous, on the contrary, if a person speaks to the mouth is not the heart, the table is not the same, it is difficult to distinguish between true and false; or here is a face, there is another face; or face a set, behind the back of a set of a set of people, a set of their own, this kind of people are often called? This kind of person is often called "two-faced person". This kind of person is often called "two-faced person", always let people feel that with such a person to socialize with unsafe and unreliable, in everyone's mind, this kind of person is not generous. Thick people will not count you, thick people will not cheat you, thick people will not betray you, and thick people deal with like in the moonlight on the lake rafting, let a person serene and warm.

Then, life should have a generous heart how to practice it? Personally believe that there are mainly the following six points:

To be a generous person, we must have a kind of tolerance. Tolerance, can reflect a person's good cultivation, elegant demeanor. It is the manifestation of kindness, the symbol of transcendence. People with the virtue of tolerance, often open-minded, generous people, have tolerance, tolerance, tolerance of words, tolerance of the temperament. Some people say that the world is vast is the ocean, more than the ocean is the sky, more than the sky is the broad-mindedness of people. This sentence is very philosophical. In fact, the human heart contains a great deal of inclusiveness, the more tolerant people are of others, the easier it is to gain respect. There is an old adage called ? Discipline yourself when strict, treat others when forgiving? Ice can be exchanged for understanding, for harmony, for friendship, and grudges will only make the distance between people more and more distant. Of course, tolerance is not unprincipled by its recklessness, but on the basis of adherence to principle, to give others enough space and the opportunity to change, to be generous and serious, soft and firm. Tolerance morally to strictly abide by the innocence, the spirit of the pursuit of noble, open and honest behavior, in the relationship between words and deeds on the issue of consistency, words and deeds, real, can not say one thing and do another, not to see people say people say, see ghosts say ghosts. If everywhere playing smart, everything has to count for personal gains and losses, a long time, will be recognized by others, this situation generally speaking, others will not point out in your face, but you have been lost by others to lose trust, once the loss of trust will lose the value of life

To do the person of chutzpah, we must have a kind of truthfulness of the goods. Sincerity and chutzpah, holding the simple and conservative thick that is thick, it is an excellent quality of people. The ancients said? Cultivate yourself first and then seek to be able to? There is also an old saying called? People can not be a lifetime, not a day without virtue. Said are cultivation, the importance of character to personal growth. Truth is the truth and beauty of human nature, the truth of the heart of selflessness, open-minded, open-minded, clear and bottom of the heart. True love is heart for heart, love for love. True love is not cowardice, not incompetence, but a kind of temperament, a kind of elegance. True love of the heart of selfless, open-minded, open-minded, clear and bottomless heart. People give me self-esteem, I also his noble; people give me joy, I also his happiness; people give me tolerance, I also his sincerity; people give me comfort, I also his enthusiasm; people give me hope, I also his gratitude; people give me kindness, I also his respect. These are what people often say on their lips? People respect me a foot, I respect people a foot? The truth is that everyone understands, just ignore the meaning of the exchange in this sentence. So with a good genuine character as a guarantee, do people have the bottom line, do things will be hard.

To be a generous person, we must have a kind heart. Kindness and chivalry come from the marrow of a human virtue. To see whether a person is kind, to see his attitude toward strangers, especially to treat than his low status? Weak? The attitude of a person who treats strangers, especially those who are in a lower position than him. Some people are very concerned about their family and friends, in front of family and friends to show very? They are very kind in front of their friends and relatives. They are very kind to their friends and relatives, but they are not kind to strangers. The living They are not related to them, but they are all of a sudden? They are not good at all. He has become evil. This person is certainly not really good. Thick and kind of doing things without regard to others, do not create right and wrong people, not afraid of suffering losses. Everyone should learn to be good to people, not to be evil, not to be good. I've never met anyone who has a hard time, help, is a small good; national crisis, go to the fire, give up their lives for righteousness, is a big good. But no matter whether it is a small or large good, as long as there is always a good heart, will be enough to make you become a noble person, a pure person. There is a folk saying that ? Good is rewarded with good, evil with evil? , which is an absolute relationship between cause and effect, makes perfect sense.

To be a generous person, you need to have a sense of integrity. To be upright, to do things decently, upright, is the foundation of the body, the foundation of the world. People are not afraid of the shadow, feet are not afraid of shoes crooked, body and heart security soul dream stable. Behavioral integrity, do people have the courage to do things will be hard, selflessness in the bottom of heaven and earth wide, the table is the same as the broad-minded. Open-minded, open and honest, will win the trust and respect of others. I'm not right, how can I be right? Speaking with a basis, said that the said on the said, the done on the done, said the truth, do is the right thing. The heart is not right, the mystery, the mouth is wrong, with the heart, play the wrist, face a set, behind the back of a set, on the stage to say the words of the gentleman, under the table line small personnel, talk about what is right. Therefore, we must walk straight, walk right, do end, we must ask ourselves whether the integrity, fairness. Integrity also brings many benefits to a person: friendship, trust, admiration and respect. One of the reasons why mankind is hopeful is that people seem to have an almost instinctive ability to recognize integrity? and are irresistibly drawn to it.? Generosity? is a prerequisite for dealing with the world, and people want to learn to? to learn to live in the world. to learn how to live in the world, one has to learn how to be a man. to be a human being. To be a human being is to stand up for oneself in the world, to discipline oneself morally and to treat others morally. It is to stand up in the world, is to moral discipline, to moral treatment.

To be a generous person, there should be a rigorous attitude. Most of the generous people are a say one, two say two truth tellers, never play the trick of making something out of nothing, even if some kind of interest to tempt them to lie, but also never cross the minefield one step. It is because always abide by honesty, they have more opportunities to make good luck, success in business. So generous, is not too shrewd, not too mean, not too calculating, not too determined, not too selfish. Don't be too hypocritical, don't be too impetuous, don't be too ostentatious. Don't be too greedy, don't be too demanding, in short, is to be a real person, eat honest food, do honest things, don't let their behavior is too perverse, don't let their ideas too extreme. Chinese tradition? Virtue? and? Virtue carries happiness? and? Thick accumulation and thin hair? is a good interpretation of the thick.

To be a man of honor, we must have a kind of honesty. Candor contains two meanings: one is honesty, and the other is frankness. Honesty is the most basic moral bottom line of being a human being.? Gentlemen cultivate themselves, not good at integrity. If the integrity, the gentleman so serve the king, pregnant with the lower people. This is the ancient knowledge of integrity. Honesty treats people sincerely, can be tolerant, not mean. And virtue is the highest state. Candor is good at interacting with others, looking at society with a tolerant eye, and overcoming negative attitudes such as hypocrisy, jealousy, and suspicion with a correct attitude of sincerity, tolerance, and trust. Honesty is not pompous, do not report the good news and hide the bad, and not hearsay, blackmail, do not do to confuse, affect the unity of people and things. Honesty is the basic quality of being a human being, is the cornerstone of people's interdependence and friendly exchanges. Everyone likes to make friends with honest people, because with honest people, there will be a sense of security, do not have to be suspicious. Therefore, in the process of interpersonal communication, we should avoid the mouth is not, play smart. Road far know horse power, see people's hearts over time, playing smart will only succeed for a while, later will eventually be recognized, and in the end, the friends left, the credibility of the loss, it will be too late to regret.

Wen / Luo Wenbo