What is the best way to send a gift to the mother's family when the daughter marries in Anhai, Jinjiang, and gives birth to a child?

Children are born, the mother's family and uncle (if there are more than one) to send a pair of red crab or pigeon (4-8) to the female

children to supplement the body. 14 days and the full moon to send children's clothes. The week-old send children's clothes and children's silver jewelry (silver bracelets silver anklets this online or gold jewelry stores have ready-made is not expensive) or to say that the package a red packet can also (commonly known as "knot three belt"). (These abundance and frugality vary from person to person, just Anhai custom which is the daughter's family to the daughter's face). Relatively speaking, the man in the receipt of the woman's gift, to give the woman gift giver, cook 4 sugar water eggs wrapped in a red packet (the amount also varies from person to person, is the face of the man to his daughter-in-law) in addition to the birth of small children, the other 14 days, the full moon, the week of the age of the man at the same time to send back the gift of rice, flour and oil and so on. To the child's 16 years old (imaginary age) the mother's family also send clothing and children's gold rings. The man invites the uncle to "sit on the big seat", which means that the uncle is the biggest and most honored guest. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal on the price of the product, and then you have to pay for it.

Anhai people tell you Anhai customs, not to spread the old customs, but just to give a little help to those who need it. Because of the change of customs a lot of them have changed. Give the best answer, no thank you