What are the influences of family on love?

1. Being born in a family has a great influence on early love.

Our family background, our relationship with our parents, our parents' emotional situation, our childhood, and the environmental atmosphere at home. It can even be traced back to our childhood needs, whether our parents took care of us in place, and whether they gave us enough attention and love. This will affect how we contact the world, others and lovers in the future.

Life and family have a great influence on the early stage of love, including how we choose the object of love and what are the characteristics of the object of love. A common example is if a girl's father plays a dominant role in family relations and gives her a strong sense of security. Then when looking for the other half, girls will tend to refer to their father's personal personality characteristics, or find a father to make him feel similar. Many times, we are not aware of these influences brought by family background, but these influences will subconsciously affect our decisions.

2. Being born in a family has a great influence on the love pattern.

The influence of family background on love patterns is very common in our usual marriage counseling cases. Let's take a boy's example first. Suppose the boy comes from a family. His mother is the highest and most powerful in their family, while his father is relatively weak. Or the role of the father is completely absent, that is to say, the boy's family is a single-parent family, his parents are divorced, the boy is mainly brought up by his mother, who takes care of everything, and almost all decisions are controlled by his mother.

His mother is a very strong and capable woman, very capable. As a boy who comes from a family, he will also refer to his mother when choosing a spouse, because in the process of his growth, his mother gave him enough sense of security, and this image of his mother also occupied most of the common female images in his life, and he would be very used to this mode of getting along with girls. Therefore, when looking for a partner, he will tend to find someone with similar characteristics to his mother, whether it is personality or attitude towards life, or love and career. Our recent common example is Wang Xiaofei, whose mother is a very capable female entrepreneur and very strong, and his lover and girlfriend, including his wife, are relatively strong women.