How to deal with the contradiction between traditional marriage and modern marriage?

1, mainly suitable, just suitable for two families, whether the parties like it or not.

2. Since ancient times, the merger of the two companies has always been regarded as "the woman marries the man's family";

In other words, the man pays, the woman pays, and the two sides conduct an asset restructuring.

3. Parents, especially the parents of the man, have absolute right to speak on issues such as wedding and childbirth.

Children can basically only obey.

4. It's also right in essence to help all kinds of relatives, because you are a new member of the integration, and those relatives are the original family.

Let's take a look at the most controversial topic on the Internet.

"My parents have raised me for more than 20 years, and it is not too much to ask you for a bride price."

-if it is a traditional marriage, of course, it is not too much. If it is a modern marriage, it is not appropriate.

"I have been a little princess at home for more than 20 years. Do you want to be a servant in your home? "

-if it is a traditional marriage, it is not appropriate. If it is a modern marriage, you can say so.

Therefore, in either case, it must be in the right place;

Otherwise, it is not appropriate.

Let's see what modern marriage is.

You like TA, TA also likes you, like TA's breath, posture and smile;

If you like to go deep, you just want to be with each other all the time.

So you decided to build a love nest and start a family.

At this time, it has nothing to do with both parents.

Traditional marriage is to integrate two young people into a big family;

Modern marriage is to pull two young people away from their families on both sides and form a family again.

Since it is a newly established family, those two people should be the host and hostess of the family respectively.

In this family, you two are the oldest and have all the right to speak, which no one can surpass.

As long as manpower is available, we can discuss it ourselves and allow the other party to have one vote of veto.