What does it mean to be reserved?

Reservation means dignified and generous, moderately flexible, polite but kind.

Try to be solemn, feel stiff and stick to justice. But it is more often used to describe women's solemn and measured communication attitude.

People tend to be too reserved, giving people a very cold, low-key and alienated image, so we should grasp the degree, and being reserved does not mean refusing.

Bacon once said a famous saying about reserve: among close partners, we should pay attention to reserve so as not to be offended. Good manners are like people's clothes, neither too wide nor too tight. We should not only pay attention to it, but also leave room, be generous and careless, so that we can move freely.

Characteristics of reserved people:

1, know how to talk and do things.

A reserved person knows how to be polite and measured in speaking and doing things. Generally, he won't get too close to others, but he won't seem distant, giving people a feeling of generosity and composure.

2, low-key and not very active

Being reserved is not refusing to refuse, but not taking the initiative. Generally speaking, you won't show any high-profile behavior or words. Only when you are close can you really understand this person.

3. Don't like asking for help

People who are reserved should not bother others, but always solve most things by themselves, because they think asking for help will cause trouble to others and make them feel guilty.

4, will not take the initiative to share what they like.

Generally speaking, reserved people attach great importance to face and will not show their likes and preferences in a high-profile way. First, I am afraid that others don't like it, which will lead to my losing face. Second, they are not active personalities.