Common sense in raising babies

1. What should be the common sense and ability to raise children

I. Adoption

Adoption refers to the adoption of other people's children as one's own children.

Second, the adoption of children to need to have what conditions

According to the "Chinese People's *** and State Adoption Law", the adopter should also have the conditions for:

(1) no children.

The so-called "childless" means that the adopter has neither natural children nor adopted children or stepchildren.

(2) the ability to raise and educate the adoptee.

The so-called "have the ability to raise and educate the adopted person", the source means that the adopter should have full civil capacity, in terms of physical, intellectual, economic, moral character and education of children have the ability to raise and educate the adopted person, able to fulfill the obligations of the parents to their children.

(3) does not suffer from the medical opinion that the child should not be adopted.

The term "not suffering from a disease that is not considered medically appropriate for the adoption of a child" mainly refers to mental diseases and infectious diseases.

(4) Be at least 30 years old.

The term "over 30 years of age" includes the number of 30 years of age. In the case of adoption by husband and wife, both of them must be at least 30 years old.

2. What are the precautions to be taken when raising a baby

1. No salt is added in the month of October.

2. No honey in the first year of life. 3. Only milk within three months (no juice within four months for exclusively breastfeeding).

4. Milk is best drunk after 2 weeks of age, and yogurt can be eaten before 2 years of age. Skimmed milk is healthier for children than whole milk.

5, three years old before the child's salt for adults 1/5-----1/3, eat more salt will lead to calcium loss. 6, drinking carbonated beverages such as cola will affect calcium absorption.

7, dad's bad mood will make the baby's crying increase 2 layers. 8, Dad genetic height, mom genetic body shape.

9, dad with children, children with high IQ; mom with children, children with good academic performance. (Children with low IQ have to put in more effort to study well).

10, the end of the crotch pants best not later than one and a half years old, urinary tract infections will also be feverish, treatment is not timely upstream leading to infected nephritis. 11, pure breast milk 4 months do not have to deliberately drink water, only after drinking milk to give some, when gargling.

6 months do not drink more water, because whether breast milk or milk powder contains a lot of water, more water will increase the burden of the child's liver and kidneys. 12, avoid sedentary (1 hour) within the week, studies show that children who are sedentary for more than 1 hour within the week will increase the rate of exhaustion.

13, the child placed on the couch in the exhaustion rate is placed on the bed 4 times. 14, Sleeping with the light on at night lowers a child's immunity.

15, patting the child's chest can induce exhaustion. 16, direct sunlight on the soles of the feet, the mother's smile will increase the child's immunity.

17, if you protect the four hours of the child's safety, often need three hunger and cold (Huangdi Neijing). 18, 10 months within the child is prohibited to shake, injury to the brain, the heaviest can lead to intracranial hemorrhage and mild concussion.

19, hit the child *** will affect the child's sexual health in adulthood. 20, 2 weeks of age under the ban on watching TV.

21, baby dining table and chairs - a good helper for mothers to cultivate children's good habits (best to buy second-hand). 22, when the indoor temperature > 24 degrees, laid on the ground to prevent the cool foam pad will release formaldehyde.

23, do not use the bath heater, because the child tilts his face, it will hurt the child's eyes. You can use the heater to increase the temperature.

24, there are children at home, it is best not to use air conditioning and carpet, foreign statistics, the use of air conditioning and carpet families, their children get allergic asthma is not to use the family children 2-3 times (the main culprit is dust mites). 25, if the child has got allergic asthma, then every day before going to bed to the child to drink a bowl of honey water, this dietary therapy need to eat long-term to be effective.

3. Raising children must know the legal knowledge

The Supreme People's Court on the people's court hearing divorce cases to deal with a number of specific opinions on child support issues, Article 19, parents shall not be refused to pay child support due to the child's change of family name.

If one of the parents changes the child's surname to that of the stepmother or stepfather without authorization and a dispute arises, he or she shall be ordered to restore the original surname.

Article 18 stipulates that the child's request for an increase in maintenance fees in one of the following circumstances, the parent has the ability to pay, shall be supported: (1) the original amount of maintenance fees is not enough to maintain the actual standard of living in the area; (2) due to the child's illness, schooling, the actual needs of the child has exceeded the amount of the original; (3) there are other justifiable reasons for the increase. The Supreme People's Court on the people's courts on divorce cases to deal with the issue of child support in Article 6 clearly stipulates that: "in the interests of protecting the children's premise, the parents agreed to take turns to raise their children, may be permitted.

" In judicial practice, the parties agreed to take turns raising children, to the court to apply for recognition. Because the two sides reached such an agreement by consensus, generally from their true intentions, as long as the legal effect of the maintenance agreement, generally can consciously fulfill; if a party or both sides and backtracked, do not fulfill the agreement, the court generally accept the parties to the implementation of the application, and inform the parties to the child support issue of a separate lawsuit.

Article 27 of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China stipulates: "There shall be no abuse or discrimination between stepparents and stepchildren. The rights and obligations between a stepparent and a stepchild who is being raised and educated by the stepparent shall be governed by the relevant provisions of this Law on the relationship between parents and children."

Accordingly, the stepparents have the right to raise their stepchildren after the divorce; of course, the stepchildren can also independently choose the biological father or mother to raise. In addition, the supreme people's court on the people's court divorce cases to deal with the issue of child support, article 13 provides: "biological father and stepmother or biological mother and stepfather divorce, the stepchildren have been subjected to their upbringing and education, step-parent does not agree to continue to raise, should still be by the biological parents to raise."

According to this provision, it can be clear that when stepparents divorce, stepchildren can be raised either by the biological parent or by the stepmother, only in the case that the stepfather or stepmother does not agree to raise them, they should be raised by the biological parent. Article 28 of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China stipulates that grandparents who can afford to do so shall have the duty to raise their minor grandchildren or grandchildren whose parents have died or whose parents are unable to raise them.

The guardianship of parents over their minor children is in the first place, before the grandparents of the minor children. The grandparents who can afford it have the obligation to support their minor grandchildren if both parents are dead, one parent is dead, the other is incapable of supporting them, or both parents are incapable of supporting them, i.e., the relationship between grandchildren and grandchildren is conditional, and the relationship between grandchildren and grandchildren occurs under specific circumstances, and it has the nature of a complementary relationship of parental support between the parents and the children.

Article 36 of the Marriage Law stipulates that the relationship between parents and children shall not be eliminated by the parents' divorce. After the divorce, the children remain the children of both parents, whether they are directly raised by the father or the mother.

After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise and educate their children. Article 36 of the Marriage Law stipulates that after divorce, children who are breastfeeding shall be raised by their nursing mothers.

If the two parties cannot reach an agreement on the issue of raising the children after the nursing period, the people's court shall decide on the basis of the rights and interests of the children and the specific circumstances of the two parties. The Supreme People's Court on the people's court hearing divorce cases to deal with the issue of child rearing of a number of specific opinions, the first article provides that children under two years of age, generally with the mother to live, the mother has one of the following circumstances, may be with the father to live: (1) suffering from long-lasting infectious diseases or other serious illnesses, the child is not suitable for its *** with life; (2) there are conditions of support does not fulfill the obligation to raise, and the (2) If the father does not fulfill his obligation to raise the child, and the father asks the child to live with him or her; (3) If, for other reasons, the child is unable to live with the mother.

Article 2 stipulates that if both parents agree that the child under two years of age should live with the father and there is no adverse effect on the child's healthy growth, it may be permitted. (2) the children live with them for a long time, and the change of living environment is obviously unfavorable to the healthy growth of the children; (3) there is no other child, and the other party has other children; (4) the children live with them, which is beneficial to the growth of the children, while the other party suffers from infectious diseases that cannot be cured for a long time, or other serious illnesses, or other circumstances unfavorable to the physical and mental health of the children, and it is not suitable for them to live with the children ****.

Article 4 stipulates that if the father and the mother are basically in the same position to raise their children, and both of them request that the children live with them ***, but if the children have been living alone with their grandparents for many years, and if the grandparents ask for and are able to help the children to take care of their grandchildren, this may be considered as a priority condition for the children to live with their father or mother. Article 5 stipulates that in the event of a dispute between two parents over whether a minor child over ten years of age should live with the father or mother, the child's opinion shall be taken into consideration.

Article 37 of the Marriage Law stipulates that, after a divorce, if one of the parties raises a child, the other party shall bear one or all of the necessary living and education expenses, and the amount and duration of such expenses shall be agreed upon by the two parties; and in case of failure to do so, it shall be adjudicated by the People's Court. The agreement or judgment on the living and educational expenses of the children shall not prevent the children from making reasonable demands on either parent in excess of the original amount of the agreement or judgment when necessary.

Article 7 of the Supreme People's Court's Specific Opinions on the People's Courts' Handling of Child Support Issues in Divorce Cases determines that, if a person has a fixed income, the child-raising expenses can be paid at the rate of 20 to 30 percent of the total monthly income.