The story of family style and family instruction

Family style and family instruction stories include Meng Mu's Three Movements and Zeng Guofan's Family Instruction.

First, Meng Mu's three movements

Speaking of China's classic family story, the first thing that comes to mind is Meng Mu's three sports stories. Mencius' mother was called Meng Mu. Mencius lived near the cemetery when he was a child. Mencius learned some things like worship and played games to deal with funerals. His mother said, "This place is not suitable for children to live in." So he moved his family to the market, and Mencius learned some knowledge about business and slaughter. The mother thought again, "This place is still not suitable for children to live in."

I moved my family to Gong Xue. Mencius learned the etiquette of bowing forward and backward in the imperial court. Meng Mu said, "This is where children live." Settle here. Mencius learned six arts when he grew up and gained the reputation of a great scholar. This gentleman thinks this is the result of Meng Mu's gradual enlightenment.

Second, Zeng Guofan's family precepts

There are many stories about family precepts of celebrities in ancient and modern times, and Zeng Guofan's family precepts are the most impressive. Zeng Guofan's idea and practice of educating children and managing families have been unanimously recognized and highly praised by the public. He was a brave soldier all his life, but he never relaxed his education for his children and family. Zeng Guofan particularly emphasized "diligent housekeeping" and "harmonious housekeeping", which is the family purpose, and he himself is meticulous in every word and deed.

Family style and rules are as follows:

1. Integrity, honesty and kindness.

2, honest and trustworthy, open-minded and diligent, low-key life, low-key work.

3. Treat people sincerely, modestly, filial and help each other.

4. Be cautious in words and deeds, be generous and patient, work hard and seek truth from facts.

5. Learn to give up and cherish.

6, do not be suspicious, do not listen to the language of alienation, do not identify things, do not take advantage of the public.

7. The husband works hard for the family, and the wife keeps the house diligently.

8. There is virtue, love and home.

9, filial piety to the elderly, strict education of children and grandchildren, respect for the elderly and love for the young, pro-admiration.

10, flawless jade, can be a national instrument; A filial son can serve the country.