What are the magical customs of marriage in your area?

As a person from northern Anhui Province, I would like to talk about some of the different customs of our side of the wedding, in our side of the wedding a few days before the man's home to their own home and immediate family members home on the door to paste the "happy" word, but also to their own friends and relatives as well as neighbors to send invitations, inviting them to participate in the bridegroom's The wedding ceremony.

The day before the wedding, the groom's family will send a few respected elders to the woman's home to send bride price, including cigarettes, wine, milk, fruit, chickens, ducks, fish, meat, goats, in our area is called "four a little bit of gift". Of course, we care most about the cash, this side of the bride price is generally more than 100,000 yuan, so many people are complaining that the poorer the place the bride price to be more. Previously married in the countryside to ask a chef in the home set up a dozen tables of banquets, invited a few good relations with the neighbors to the home to help, and now many people get married to do wedding banquets slowly accustomed to go to big hotels to do, they feel that this saves time and effort, and the taste of the hotel meal is better, and even a lot of people also put the men and women of the two families of the wedding banquets together to do, but also to save a lot of trouble.

The day of the wedding, the male party should be early to organize a welcome team to pick up the bride, welcome team, including matchmakers, their elders and relatives and friends, but also their younger siblings as well as cousins, in order to sit down on the car is appropriate to go as much as how many to go as much. generally rented some upscale good car to meet the bride to 6 to 8 mostly, most of the choice of black, of course, with a white car can also be.

The woman's home in hearing the welcoming party after the firecrackers, usually not immediately firecrackers, but to wait a while, to the bride's home want to pick up the bride is not an easy thing, usually have to be the bride's good girlfriends bridesmaids embarrassed a bit, so we generally have to prepare a lot of small red packets in advance to solve the problem, you will find that money is a good thing at this time. On the way back to welcome the wedding party, if you pass through more villages, on the way may encounter some stopping the car to ask for happy cigarettes, red envelopes, no matter in recent years with the improvement of everyone's standard of living, this phenomenon has become less and less.

Elders sit down, the bride and groom stand in front of the elders, usually will ask a eloquent master of ceremonies to preside over the wedding, the wedding ceremony master of ceremonies will engage in a number of small activities or to send a number of gifts to liven up the atmosphere. A worship of heaven and earth, two worship high hall, husband and wife to worship, to friends and relatives to thank, sent into the cave, roughly these links. Worship process, in worship elders should also change their mouths, that is, the bride should call the man's father, mother, can no longer call what aunts, uncles, and so on, in-laws should give the bride to change the mouth of the red envelope. General to one thousand to five thousand ranging.

After the wedding, the bride and groom will go to the happy grave together, that is, to pay homage to the ancestors, want to ancestors to report good news.