How did ancient parents educate their children?

No matter how old you are, no matter how rich you are, no matter how poor you are, you can't live without educating your children. Especially now that living conditions are good, some parents spoil their children in every way, and they don't want their children to experience the sufferings they have experienced before, let alone the bitterness of starting a business before. They try their best to build a comfortable and pleasant platform for their children. As we all know, this has hurt children. (The picture is from the Internet, thank you! It takes three generations to make a gentleman. This sentence is not unreasonable, but it is quite meaningful. In the history of China, there are many successful examples of educating children. So, how did ancient parents educate their children? During the Warring States Period, there was a famous general in Chu State. His name is Zifa. On one occasion, due to the needs of the national situation, he led troops to fight with Qin. The two sides fought fiercely for a long time, and Chu's frontline armaments were tight. In desperation, Zifa sent someone to the king of Chu for emergency. Before the Commissioner left, Zifang specially asked him to visit his old mother. The old man is very concerned about the coming war. When he saw someone coming, he asked, "What about the soldiers?" The Commissioner replied: "At present, there are only a few beans to maintain our lives, so we have to share them one by one." "Where is your general?" The old lady asked. The Ombudsman thought, alas, what a thousand miles of sorrow! So he told the truth without thinking: "You don't have to worry about the general's life. Every meal has meat and rice. He is in good health! " "Soon, Qi Fa came back with a victorious army. Mother didn't bring anyone to celebrate, but closed the door and wouldn't let him in. Not only that, the old mother also sent someone to accuse Zifa: "You let the soldiers fight on an empty stomach, but you eat well and drink well yourself. Being a selfish general and winning this battle is not your credit. When Gou Jian, the king of Yue, crusaded against the State of Wu, someone once gave him an altar of wine, but the king of Yue sent someone to pour the wine in the upper reaches of the river and let the soldiers drink it together in the lower reaches. Why is this? Although everyone did not taste the mellow wine, it inspired the morale of the whole army and greatly improved the combat effectiveness of the troops. On another occasion, someone gave the King of Yue a bag of dry food and Gou Jian gave it to the soldiers. It's pitiful to give it to everyone, but the morale of the soldiers has increased tenfold. This is called sharing weal and woe, adversity. "Zifa's mother also criticized him and said," What about you? I only think about myself on the battlefield, but I don't care if the soldiers are hungry. You are not my son. Don't come to my house again! "Zifa felt very ashamed after listening to her mother's criticism, admitted her mistake to her mother and promised to resolutely correct it in the future. This was forgiven by the old man and he entered the house. Zifa's mother has a just, loving and kind heart. She is a strict mother, but her heart is always filled with the country and Qian Qian's thousands of "sons". She didn't show off because of her son's efforts; But my love and broad mind are deeply "planted" in my son's heart, which is the greatest success of education. Saint Amethyst has a few words: "It's your father's fault if you don't teach." "Jade is rough and abrasive. "On the road of children's growth, parents play a key role in education and guidance. Spoiling is a kind of connivance, or connivance, which can only encourage children's bad habits and behaviors and eventually go astray. Don't always feel that children are wronged. Please put yourself in others' shoes. Whose child is not a child?