The first thing you need to do is to get rid of the problem.

First of all, we have to see whether your boyfriend will change for you, if your boyfriend simply did not change the idea of this kind of thinking, then we suggest that as early as possible to stay away from can be divided into points in time to stop loss. Our country against feudalism, not without any reason, the current has been 2021, still have feudalism thought culture is a very terrible thing, in order to their future happiness must be well planned.

1, whether you can communicate:

If your boyfriend can not communicate positively, if you only care about your own thinking advice, or break up immediately. Otherwise, the future suffering is certainly you, if there is a pre-marriage before the idea of male superiority, after marriage if you do not have a job, only to be a housewife, then as long as you tube him to ask for money will be subjected to the face to see. By the time you will dislike you old and yellow dislike you will only spend money will not make money, think about some of the marriage to find find to do housewives of women are what happens? And if your boyfriend this kind of thinking, the probability that his family interpretation of this kind of thinking, later your mother-in-law and father-in-law will not treat you as a person.

2, whether you can change:

People's fixed ideas are very difficult to change, if your boyfriend has been educated for more than 20 years this kind of education, this kind of fixed ideas feudal concept has been y rooted in his mind is very difficult to change. And live with this kind of person will be very difficult, a great concept he will think that the girl where can not show? Must be wrapped tightly, once the idea of mentioning the Lord has the freedom to dress, but also with its inevitable conflict, if life everywhere there is a conflict, then this life is not happy happy,

3, what should be done:

Remember that there are a lot of many people in the world, we should go out! to see more, rather than hanging from one tree. This kind of feudalistic thinking of the boys, as well as the phoenix man basically can not want, whether he is a graduate of a prestigious school or the family while millions are the fire pit, absolutely can not jump into it. If you don't want to spend the rest of your life with the other side of the family, then it is recommended to break up quickly.