How to write a kindergarten parent classroom experience

It seems to be fast, and it seems to be slow, and my daughter is now four years old. Raising this little person has had its share of bitterness and joy, but either flavor will be the most precious treasure in my memory. Along the way, the growth of our children has delighted us, but of course, we have encountered all sorts of headaches. As parents, we are also learning to move forward with our children, and I have tried to learn to be a parent in these few short years. Although there are many parenting concepts on the Internet, I have also read some books on parenting, but the practice of those theories is always difficult, because the child's growth process is different, but also because I'm not persistent enough, so, in the process of moving forward, I also continue to amend their own concepts and methods of parenting. Not long ago, Mr. Sun asked the parents to share their experiences, so I'm going to talk about what I've learned in the past few years of raising my baby.

One, learn to really respect the child

My baby is relatively precocious child, so to treat her, in the case of not against the principle of the issue, most of the time I will respect her choice. When the result is not good, I am not just roughly asking her to obey me or coaxing her to listen to me, but to present the facts and reasoning, so that she really agrees with me. I think this point is particularly important, never think that the child does not understand, do not understand, and then think that the talk is in vain, in fact, the child is very often reluctant to listen just because they do not understand why they have to listen. "Get down and talk to your child" is not just an empty phrase, but it is a way for us to treat our children as our equals, to take their needs seriously, and to answer their questions seriously, and once we do that, we will definitely get something out of them. In this regard, I have a very deep experience, I remember the brushing of teeth, my daughter did not cooperate at first, when there is a new toothbrush or a new toothpaste will be a few days because of the novelty of brushing, but not long, do not want to adhere to it, must be supervised by us in order to complete the task, and sometimes if it happens to be unhappy, not to mention that she can not be expected to cooperate. In response to this, I did some thinking and understood why she didn't want to brush her teeth, because she didn't know why she had to brush her teeth and couldn't understand the serious consequences of dental caries that we were talking about. So I decided to explore with her why it is important to protect her teeth. First, I searched for some pictures of children with toothache and showed them to her, and she told me it was very scary; then the next day, I took her to the dentist's office and let her see some of the process of the doctor's treatment on the spot. In the process of exploring why we need to protect our teeth, I wasted no time in educating her, and she was y impressed. From that day until now, she has gone from being unconscious about brushing her teeth before bedtime to being obsessive about it. And, for example, when buying toys or snacks, my baby never

will play around. Because every time you go shopping in the supermarket, when she shows interest in something, I will be very serious and discuss with her need to buy or not need to buy, rather than arbitrarily decide to buy or not buy, once you are reasonable, the child is very willing to listen to your opinion, and there are even surprises, for example, my baby shopping on their own will already have a rational choice.

Two, seize the characteristics of their own children to overcome the problem

In the usual get along we basically follow the principle of respect for the child, so when the conflict with the child how to do? I think it's a good idea to strategize on your child's characteristics. Although the child has been four years old, but after all, is still a toddler, the immunity is not strong enough, easy to catch a cold and cough, many parents for how to make the child willingly take medicines and injections is a great headache, I am also. Especially Chinese medicine, it is hard to smell and drink. I thought of a lot of ways to do this, and finally succeeded in the "story method". Because my daughter loves to listen to stories, so I "customized" a "good bacteria and bad bacteria" story, in the story, the good bacteria can not beat the bad bacteria, only with the help of the general of the Chinese medicine can overcome the bad bacteria. My daughter willingly drank the herbs that she had refused to drink before. After that, when I encountered similar problems again, I made up all kinds of stories, and the effect was good. The reason is that my baby is a bit precocious, and she especially loves listening to stories and reading picture books. Therefore, I think that when you encounter problems, if you can customize your approach according to your baby's characteristics, you will definitely be able to accomplish them. For example, a gentle and lady-like little girl can make her parents hope that she can do in the princess code and other small agreements may be twice as effective; naughty and aggressive little boy can use his competitive spirit to motivate him to complete, and it is best to have a reward embodied in the wall, such as a reward for bravery, and can be reflected in the conspicuous place, and so on. In short, it is the parents themselves who know their children best, so we are the right people to help them overcome some of the difficulties they encounter as they grow up.

As parents, the education of children is the biggest investment and project in their lives, more responsibility, more spoiled a point are afraid of affecting the healthy growth of children, many times will be cautious, and many times feel confused and helpless, do not know how to deal with. Seeing the child's smart and lively, interesting and lovely behavior, often feel the pride and comfort of parenthood, and see the child stubborn and disobedient, doing wrong and refusing to admit it, will feel irritable and annoyed. Since having a daughter, life is always hovering between the two, with laughter, anger, but more hope? I believe that as long as not overly pampered, not excessive expectations, not demanding, so that my daughter grows up in a happy and happy and healthy, she will grow up to make us proud.