How did the men and women who once loved thousands of thanks change their minds?

In this era when you want to cheat when you are walking and when you are standing, the probability of changing your mind seems to be much greater. Both men and women show signs of changing their minds. Personally, I think it is necessary to know something and refer to it.

Some people will inevitably say: I live independently, and I don't care about knowing whether a man has changed his mind. If I dump him, I'll find another one.

Under the influence of this kind of self-boasting, contemporary people have lost the proper appearance of love affairs. For example, wondering why the other person doesn't reply to the information, and judging whether the other person loves you or not ... are all manifestations of women's lack of self-worth.

It seems that only by showing that you don't even care about each other's infidelity can you show the strength of the new woman. What kind of logic? Want to fall in love, want to get married, can't wait to see each other's heart, liver, spleen, lungs and kidneys clearly.

Being left out will make you sad, disappointment will make you sad, being cheated will make you angry ... haggle over every ounce, be careful, think about everything, laugh and cry ... aren't these all what love should look like?

Women are eager to be coaxed by men, but coaxing is a prerequisite. He doesn't return your messages, and you never ask questions. He lied to you, and you were never angry. He pissed you off, but you didn't cry ... always acting like you were safe, so how did he coax you?

If women always show an indifferent attitude in their feelings, over time you will find that men really don't care about you, and even the reasons for perfunctory you are saved. Anyway, you don't care. You're awesome. You're awesome.

Most of the advantages that will be revealed are strong outside and weak inside. Even if you really don't care, there is no need to show it. Without this talent, it is easy to suffer from dumb loss.

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Let me talk about the moment when a man is most likely to change his mind—

First: external factors.

External factors are not only external temptations, but also external resistance.

Let's talk about the temptation of foreign countries first. When a man is eating an apple in his mouth, even if the apple is delicious, he will have the idea of trying a pear.

But if the pear tastes bad and doesn't sell well, he may feel less refreshing than the apple in his mouth. At this time, the influence of external temptation is not great. If this pear is fragrant, sweet and fresh, he will drool.

Besides, external resistance. Like, be together, be appropriate, and go on-these are four different concepts and four different things.

Like, not necessarily together. Being together is not necessarily appropriate, and even if it is appropriate, it may not go on.

Why? One of the factors is external resistance. For example, if you fall in love with your boyfriend, the other parents don't agree. As time goes on, he may change his mind. For example, if you are together, you are at home, and he is at home, he may change his mind.

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Second: the gap leads to estrangement.

Walking side by side is the most stable and fair form between husband and wife, but if the husband walks too fast and the wife walks too slowly, the former is pulling hard and the latter is struggling, then at this time, the excellent one is more likely to change his mind. The gap includes: ability, thinking, achievement, face value, etc.

For example, the husband's ability, thinking, achievements, and face value ... are all kept at 90 points, while the wife's is 20 points. The bigger the gap, the more husbands cheat. And because of the mismatch caused by the gap, external factors will be amplified.

For example, someone said intentionally or unintentionally: Your wife doesn't seem worthy of you. These external factors are prompting men to change their minds.

Third: the expansion after being rich and the sensitivity when being poor.

Both men and women will be more or less conceited after success. After a man has a successful career, it is easy to let go of the beast that he has been locked up for most of his life. This beast contains his selfish desires and greed.

He tried red roses, and he wanted to try Bai Yueguang. I have tasted the fierce girl and want to see the demon girl.

A man driven by desire, his heart is scattered, he can't just focus on you, because you can't satisfy all his desires, which is when he is easy to change his mind.

In this society, it is too poor to love the rich. I've met some women. It is true that she likes this man, but it is also true that she dislikes the other person's poverty. Under such contradictory emotions, a woman's good and bad will be inadvertently output at the same time.

In prosperity, people go to heaven, in adversity, people go to hell.

The two kinds of contempt that men can't stand most should be the money in their hands and the birds in their pants. The lethality of the two is inseparable. Even if it hurts one of them, it is also a time when he is easy to change his mind.

If a man is poor in both fields, I will change my mind if he doesn't change his mind.

Fourth: when you don't feel love.

This applies equally to men and women. After you don't feel a little affection on each other, it's easy to go to other people's arms to find warmth.

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Finally, let's talk about several signs of a man's change of heart-

First: refuse you to go deep into his life and psychology.

A man resists you from entering his life, either without considering the future or without considering the future.

You can't meet his family, friends and colleagues ... once or twice is a coincidence, but you still find reasons to refuse your intervention four times and five times. It is almost certain that you are not on his life list.

In that case, why not say goodbye?

Several reasons: 1, don't want to take responsibility, forcing you to break up on your own initiative. 2. I haven't found my next home yet or don't plan to find my next home at present, so I treat you as a physical emergency. At present, you still have certain life functions, such as washing and cooking for him and taking care of the children. Although I don't love you, I know I can't find a better one, so I will try my best.

Second: Either you are full of lies or you are telling the truth.

These two extremes are both manifestations of not loving you, or both are lies, which are used to deceive people. Or never tell lies, out of disdain

You asked him if he wanted to break up, and he said yes. Ask him if he doesn't love anymore, and he says yes. Even perfunctory disdain, no worries.

Third: alienation.

Alienation includes: verbal communication, physical interaction and ideological collision.

Like it, people can't help but want to get close. But once this kind of love is less and less, the intimacy will gradually disappear. I used to be inseparable from you, but today I am indifferent to you. This is a prelude to changing your mind.

Women trust their intuition, but they are used to denying it. Obviously, I can't feel the warmth, but I deceive myself: perhaps, as he said, I have been too busy recently.

At the moment when you constantly doubt, even if his love has not completely disappeared, there is not much left.