Do Fuqing girls bring gold when they get married? How much to send?

The bride price of the man: the man's parents and matchmaker take the groom to the woman's house for engagement. You can make an engagement appointment at the hotel now, and then we can have a light meal. )

The man wants to send: dowry: 33,53,000 or 65,438+0,000,000 (the mantissa of the dowry agreement must be three words. Fuzhou dialect is homophonic to students, symbolizing having more children after marriage. Festive and colorful (5 kg 2 packs of candy, 2 big pig legs, 2 big fish, 2 dried fish, 5 kg 2 packs of noodles (noodles should be wrapped in red paper), some red eggs, some apples or oranges, 2 bottles of red wine, 10 feet, two big cockroaches that turn red after cooking, and a pair of live chickens. Men will take the hen back when they go back. At this time, the red rope was tied to the hen's feet. ) some gold (note: it is not necessary to send it when you are engaged, and both parties can negotiate when to send it)

These things should be wrapped in red paper, or put square red paper on the things you send.

The woman returns the gift: you can prepare a hen and exchange it with the hen that the man gave when he was engaged, so that the man can bring back a pair of chickens (including the cock that the other party originally gave). Some women don't prepare hens in advance at home, but leave the hens given by the man and let the man take them back to the rooster. Must be returned: a set of groom's underwear, a suit and a shirt. The groom has a pair of socks (not white socks) and a gold ring. Among them, "socks and golden pants" means that the groom will develop into a "living treasury" in the future.

As for how much gift the woman wants to send to the man, she can return it on the spot at the engagement ceremony or give it to the bride as a dowry when she gets married.

(Remarks: As mentioned above, the woman can return half of the "ten colors" given by the man at the time of engagement. But this "ten-color celebration" is also negotiable. Now many people don't give ten colors, just give them casually. )

The woman's dowry:

First, do some electrical appliances needed for a new home: according to everyone's situation, do it as needed. If the woman has the conditions, it is popular to buy a car.

Second, the red suitcase: (generally two, meaning yes-men). The suitcase contains some common clothes and the dowry given by the woman's parents to her daughter.

3. Red Umbrella: When taking a wedding, the bridesmaid holds a red umbrella for the bride to go out, get on, get off and go out. This umbrella is required to be brand-new, without a trademark, and the color can be red or pink. This is also an old saying to pray for good luck, such as avoiding disasters and evil spirits.

1 red plastic bucket: it needs to be wrapped in 3' 3 red cloth (provided by the man).

Five, Xi Wa: A pair of dolls, a man and a woman, auspicious, meaning many children and many blessings. If it is the best gift from the woman's friend, if it is bought by the bride herself, never.

6. 1 children's bathtub, 1 red cosmetic box, a mirror, 2 red towels, a pair of red tooth cups, 2 toothbrushes, 2 horn combs and 2 red washbasins.

Seven, plastic flowers and vases (provided by the man); Plastic flowers, Bai Baihe and red roses, each with nine colors, represent boys and girls, and also symbolize a century of harmony and prosperity.

Pick up relatives:

On the first day of marriage, the man's family should prepare more than two decorated wedding cars to come to the woman's house to pick up the bride and dowry, which is also called picking up relatives. The groom's wedding car arrives at the woman's house, and the woman's house will set off firecrackers. After that, the groom can enter the woman's house. The groom will also bring the bride's flowers and fine cigarettes to the bride's house. When you see the bride, give her the bouquet. At the same time, cigarettes were generously distributed to the woman's family. When the couple are at the woman's house, after meeting their ancestors, they should eat Taiping (note: Taiping's soup must be chicken. And the bride should eat slowly, preferably not faster than the groom. After eating too much, the newlyweds took their dowry to get married. Before the newlyweds go out, the bride's house will also set off firecrackers. After that, the newlyweds can walk out of the bride's house. When the bride walks out of the woman's house, never look back. She should move forward happily. Even if she forgets something, she can't turn back. She should let someone else get it. From the time the bride leaves the house until she gets on the bus, the bridesmaid will open an umbrella for the bride when she enters the door, and the bridesmaid is responsible for opening the door. The wedding car began to leave, and the woman's house had to set off firecrackers again. When a daughter gets married in Fuzhou, she must go to the man's house at 12 am. Generally, brides will set off to pick up relatives before 9 am 10.

Eat peacefully:

When the groom arrives at the woman's house, the couple must eat a peaceful bowl. After the bride receives the husband's house, she must eat another bowl of peace. It means to stay safe. According to Fuzhou tradition, before meeting family members, newlyweds should eat Taiping chicken noodles and the groom should eat the head of the chicken, which means that the head of the household and the bride should eat chicken wings and feet. In Fuzhou dialect, this means that it is more blessed to keep a good house and have more children. There are two Taiping eggs in the Taiping plane. Usually, you should eat one and leave one, so that everyone can be safe together.

Make the bed:

Fuzhou people want the elders of the man's family to make beds in the new house, and the elders should choose their parents. A complete child shows that a newcomer can be as happy as this elder. Then find 1 or two cute, smart and beautiful little boys rolling in the new bed, hoping to have beautiful boys in the future. If you like having a girl, find a man and a woman, or just find a girl to roll around. Remember to give each child a red envelope.

See the elders:

From 3 pm to 4 pm, the couple will begin to meet their ancestors, elders, old people and relatives and ask for red envelopes. Fuzhou people are called "Jiantang".

The hotel has a banquet:

Around 5 o'clock, the newcomers will welcome guests to the hotel, and finally the common etiquette in the hotel. The relatives and friends of the couple get together for a wedding banquet. The wedding of the hotel can be arranged by the wedding company. I have seen relatives of my peers on the wine table, and I can still get red envelopes at that time.

Back to the door:

According to Fuzhou custom, when getting married, the first day is the man's house to handle wine. The next day, wine was served at the woman's house, also called Huimen wine. The day after marriage is the day to go home. The bride's family will send her brother-in-law to pick up the bride, and the groom will give her money. Then the groom prepares gifts, visits his parents-in-law with the bride and needs to return the same day.

At this point, the whole wedding ceremony is over. Then our lovely bride and groom can take your suitcase for their honeymoon ~ ~