What do you mean by grabbing a bouquet? Grab flowers and grab happiness?

In western-style weddings, the bride will throw a bunch of flowers at her sisters, and whoever receives this bunch of flowers will be the next bride. This is a traditional wedding custom in the west. In fact, there are similar wedding customs in China, such as throwing hydrangeas. In the countryside, what does it mean to grab a flower ball? Grab flowers and grab happiness? .

In rural areas, people pay special attention to marriage. If two married couples meet halfway, the couple will fight for the big red flower. According to tradition, whoever grabs the big red flower will always grab the blessing. There is another legend about the origin of this folk custom. It is said that there used to be a village called Dujiazhuang in the northwest of Fugu. There is a rich man named Du Youcai in Dujiazhuang, and Du Youcai has a daughter named Du Baolian. Du Baolian is 28 years old and charming. Du Youcai betrothed her to a teenager in a neighboring village. On the wedding day, a Taoist priest with long hair came to Du family, and the Taoist priest said? The bride Pauline is possessed, and something will happen in a few days. ? Du Jia was frightened when he heard this. He asked the scholar if there was any way to save him. Taoist priest said that? Today, on my way to get married, I met another married man. You used to snatch the big red flowers from another bride. In this way, Pauline will be happy if you rob his husband and wife. ? On the way to get married that day, I met another married party. Du Jia said that the other party was unprepared and took the bride's big red flower. From then on, Pauline was really safe.

Since then,? Grab the blessing? Our habits began to spread in Fugu area. Also, in order to grab flowers and happiness, the two sides will also fight. This did not rob happiness, but brought disaster. Later, the two families got married, did not grab flowers, and took the initiative to change flowers. Both sides have their own income and return satisfied. So, the so-called? Grab the blessing? It becomes a veritable one? For happiness? Yes