Cao Dewang worth tens of billions of dollars, love confidant divorce, illiterate wife, "a word" to restore the

In the circle of Chinese entrepreneurs, CAO Dewang can be called a moral model.

After his career has reached its peak, Cao not only did not emigrate overseas to enjoy life as some tycoons do, but also took out hundreds of millions of family assets to develop public welfare, and became a famous philanthropist in China.

What many people don't know is that Mr. Tsao had a prodigal experience in his early years. Cao Dewang, who has a successful career, met a confidante, and for the sake of the so-called love, he actually went out of his way to divorce his married wife.

However, the illiterate Chen Fengying saved their marriage with a single sentence, what happened?

First, the poor Cao Dewang

From the perspective of the "origin theory", Cao Dewang's success has a lot to do with his father.

According to public information, Cao Dewang's father, Cao Heren, was a business tycoon in Fujian and Shanghai during the Republican era, and the first department store in China, Yongan Department Store, had Cao Heren's shares.

In a shipwreck, Cao Haren lost his entire fortune, but he passed on his most valuable business skills to his son.

When Cao Dewang was 16 years old, he took the risk of "speculation" and started selling cigarettes because he couldn't stand the poverty. The person who brought him to the shopping mall was his father.

After six years in the business, it was time for him to start a family.

Under his parents' arrangement, he married a girl named Chen Fengying. Although Chen Fengying was illiterate, and her family was not from a prestigious family, she was full of the virtues of traditional Chinese women.

Chen Fengying took care of Cao Dewang's parents when he went out to work; when Cao's business lacked money, Chen Fengying took out her dowry to support his career.

From here we can see that Chen Fengying is a good wife.

Second, the "Chen Shimei" storm

In China's traditional culture, Chen Shimei is undoubtedly a character everyone spurned,

Cao Dewang, who has already had a successful career in the 1980s, almost became a contemporary Chen Shimei, what happened?

In 1988, Cao Dewang had already become a family member of Fuyao Glass Company Limited, and in the course of a business negotiation, he recognized his "vermilion sand mole".

If Cao liked an unmarried girl, it would be understandable, but he fell in love with a husband, a wife with children.

According to the morality of ordinary people, this kind of behavior of Cao Dewang is undoubtedly despicable, because he not only destroys his own family, but also destroys other people's families at the same time.

But according to the media had broken the news, the scandalous heroine is a very open person.

Not only did she not mind being a stepmother to Cao Dewang's children, but she also divorced Cao Dewang without a second thought.

After much deliberation, he sent Chen Fengying a "breakup letter".

It is said that because Chen Fengying could not read, the letter was read by Cao's sister. At that time, everyone, including Cao Dewang himself was sure that Chen Fengying would give his life and Cao Dewang a big mess, but Chen Fengying's next action is a reflection of her emotional intelligence.

Third, the illiteracy of high IQ

Many people are very contemptuous of the illiterate, think they must not be high IQ, but Chen Fengying is obviously a counter-example.

After receiving a letter from Cao Dewang, Cao's family is in favor of Chen Fengying, the Cao family's legitimate daughter-in-law. But after all, this is Cao Dewang's family affair, others can only support Chen Fengying morally, the only one who can really reverse the defeat is herself.

If Chen Fengying chooses to make a scene and make a scene, not only will it be difficult to scare off Cao Dewang, who has been working in the shopping mall for many years, but she will probably lose the support of Cao's family.

After all, whether from the perspective of protecting the Cao family's industry or safeguarding the family's reputation, the Cao family does not want to make too much of a fuss.

However, Chen Fengying did not do so, she just calmly accepted Cao Dewang's request for a divorce, in addition to another request "to leave the children and the house to me".

Objectively speaking, the house and money may be Cao's family will not begrudge, but Cao Dewang's two sons and one daughter is they can not give up in any case.

Perhaps some people will feel that this is what is difficult, the lawsuit to fight for custody is not finished, Cao Dewang can not fight a illiterate people who do not know the word?

Of course, Cao Dewang could have done that, but then his reputation would have been completely ruined, so of course he didn't dare to do that.

And after receiving his wife's reply, Cao Dewang had mixed feelings.

He is such a big industry, his wife did not want anything, as long as the children and a place to stay. I thought my wife would make a fuss, accusing myself of derailment, but followed his own suffering for most of his life, but she did not say anything. So, Cao Dewang has changed his mind, and the prodigal son has returned, and his child, his wife, has become a bond that he can't easily part with.

It is said that a sensible, good wife is the basis of the husband's success, now Cao Dewang can be said to have both fame and fortune.

Not only will the unemployment to do the boom, but also become the country's first good, who can say that this is not behind his illiterate wife's credit?

Conclusion

Emotions are inherently very selfish, so we can't easily judge the rights and wrongs between Cao Dewang and his wife.

However, Chen Fengying's experience tells us that when faced with a negative person who cheats on you within marriage, sometimes it is better not to argue or make a fuss. Just imagine if Chen Fengying had chosen to make a scene, how could she have been able to hold on to her position as the boss of Fuyao Group?

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