I am gay. I called my dad a few days ago. My father asked me not to go home for the New Year. I didn't come out. My parents hate me for not finding a girlfriend.

You can understand your parents' thoughts. Most parents in China are very traditional. They want their children to get married and have children as soon as possible. Parents often say that life is extraordinary, how can we live without children? This is the general psychology of parents in China. Homosexuality is no big deal, but the laws of our country do not allow marriage, so there is no legal protection! Try to communicate with your parents. China's parents are the easiest to compromise, because the parents who love their children the most in the world are China's parents. Even if they can't accept it for a while, they will choose tolerance if you communicate more. After all, their love for you is selfless.

I suggest that you don't love others during the New Year. Chinese New Year is the most reunion festival in China, and most families don't like outsiders to attend, especially since they don't know the real relationship in your yet, so as not to be angry with you when they know it later.