I'm not sure how I'm going to be able to get along with my husband if he's a chauvinist.

The so-called "machismo" is inseparable from the feudal culture that has been passed down in our country for thousands of years. In the distant ancient times, the idea of male supremacy is y rooted in people's hearts, and, along with the emergence of male cultivation and female weaving, the man is outside to support the whole family, the woman is in the home to raise children, which also determines the man's status in the family to a certain extent. Moreover, machismo was also determined by the level of productivity at that time. In that case, the husband had the absolute right to speak and the wife had to obey her husband.

But times are progressing and people's minds are becoming more and more open. In today's society, the idea of equality between men and women is becoming more and more common, and I think that traditional machismo should be abandoned, and at the same time, new machismo should be promoted. That is to say, while men take up their responsibilities, they should also protect their wives and at the same time give them enough respect and voice.

It is also clear from your question that your husband is a traditional chauvinist: he doesn't take your feelings into account when he does things, and, moreover, he wants to control your thoughts and influence your behavior.

Since you have clearly felt the other person's intention, I suggest you can sit down with him and have a good talk to see if there is still room for maneuver in this matter. Although rivers and mountains are easy to change and people's character is hard to change, the power of love is also great, sometimes we may go to change some of our own things for the sake of our beloved ones. However, if good communication doesn't work, I think you need to consider tougher tactics. After all, marriage is for life and you are responsible for your own happiness.