How to cultivate a good family style tutor

First, advocate the importance of good family style and family education.

Good family education is not only an important content of socialist core values, but also an important way and carrier to practice core values. Socialist core values are the soul of rejuvenating the country and the key to strengthening the country, while family education is the foundation of establishing a family and a body. To some extent, children's growth is a comprehensive reflection of family education and family style. Women play an important role in raising children and taking care of families, and play an irreplaceable role in carrying forward traditional virtues, inheriting good family style, advocating healthy life and building a happy family. There are many allusions in history about mother-in-law's tattoo, Meng Mu's three moves and Tianmu's refusal to pay, which are worth learning and practicing. Therefore, we should fully understand the importance of family style family education, strive to practice core values, cultivate good family style family education, and make positive contributions to consolidating Socialism with Chinese characteristics's ideological and moral foundation.

Second, specific measures to promote good family style and family education

1. Family education in the new era should not only inherit the fine traditions, but also enrich and develop with the times. Good family education is related to everyone's growth and progress, to the happiness and well-being of families, to the harmonious development of society and to the improvement of national quality. We should seriously understand the profound connotation of family style tutoring in the new period, give full play to the important role of family style tutoring in cultivating and practicing socialist core values, and strive to be a builder and practitioner of family style. On the one hand, we should absorb the ideological essence and moral essence of Chinese excellent traditional family style. Since ancient times, the Chinese nation has a cultural tradition of attaching importance to family education, observing family precepts and maintaining a good family style, and has a moral inheritance of "self-cultivation, keeping the family in order, governing the country and calming the world". There are 120 kinds of "family instructions" published in ancient China, all of which emphasize "attaching importance to morality and self-cultivation", covering patriotism, filial piety, kindness, frugality, determination, self-discipline, kindness and enterprising. Family traditions such as poetry etiquette, farming and reading, and loyalty to the country have been passed down from generation to generation and penetrated into everyone's blood. These excellent family style tutors are the unique spiritual symbols of the Chinese nation, which provide rich nourishment for the endless development and growth of the Chinese nation. We must inherit and carry forward them. On the other hand, we should constantly enrich the connotation of family education in the new period. At present, China's economy and society have entered a new normal, and people's values have shown a pluralistic and changeable trend. The connotation of family education must also adapt to the requirements of the times, constantly enrich and develop, and keep pace with the times. Such as gender equality, scientific education, family democracy, social responsibility and other moral concepts, are the development and perfection of Chinese family virtues in the modern civilized environment. We should seriously study, summarize and constantly enrich the connotation of developing family style tutoring, integrate the requirements of core values into it, and promote the internalization of core values into people's spiritual pursuit and externalization into people's conscious actions.

2. Give full play to the positive role of women's federations in promoting family education and practicing core values.

As a mass organization under the leadership of the Party, women's federations should adapt, grasp and lead the new normal, and play a greater role in promoting good family education and guiding women and children to practice their core values. First, we must mobilize extensively to build the "most beautiful family". Taking the village (community) "Women's Home" as a platform, we will organize civilized family style exchanges, show harmonious features, comment on family rules, inspire every family to practice the internal consciousness of the Chinese nation's family virtues to the maximum extent, and lead the majority of women to be builders of good family style and founders of harmonious families. Second, we should pay attention to the combination and cultivate a good family style. Women's federations should take all kinds of family creation activities as the carrier, women's homes as the support, and care for left-behind elderly people, left-behind women and children as the focus, attract and mobilize more women and families to participate in the creation of family moral civilization, and promote the formation of good family style and social fashion. We should unify guiding women to carry forward the spirit of "four selves" with striving to be "loving mothers", "filial daughters" and "good wives", combine giving full play to women's role in the economy and society with giving full play to women's unique role in family life, and guide family members to pay attention to their self-cultivation, behavior and manners, set an example, inherit family virtues, establish a good family style and create a good family environment. Third, we should expand publicity and enhance cognitive identity. We should make use of the website, Weibo, WeChat, QQ and other new media to publicize the profound connotation of family style in the new period in a hierarchical and focused manner, and preach the story of family harmony, so as to make the advanced typical deeds such as moral model, Shawan's feeling for people, helping others, filial piety and loving relatives well known, infect people, enlighten people and educate people with real cases, and convey positive social energy. Fourth, we should strengthen cooperation and form joint efforts. Family style tutoring is the common cause of the whole society. We should strive for the support of the party and the government, pool everyone's wisdom, pool the strength of all walks of life, explore new ideas and innovative methods, and promote the formation of a good family style. It is necessary to carry forward the volunteer spirit of dedication, friendship, mutual assistance and progress, carefully organize various volunteer service activities, make services enter the campus, the community and the family, and strive to form a working situation with government support, social concern and everyone's participation.

Third, the role of a good family style tutor

Family is the smallest combination unit of society and the most basic social element. Without a small family, there would be no big social family. Harmonious family relationship is the cornerstone of social stability. China is an ancient civilization with a glorious history of thousands of years. In the history of traditional ideological education, there is a brilliant spectacle-Confucianism, Buddhism, Taoism and family style education have gathered into the core of China's spiritual civilization. There are many representatives in this garden full of flowers. People describe Guan Gong, Yue Fei and other figures as the embodiment of "benevolence, righteousness, courtesy and filial piety". Loyalty and filial piety are the principles that must be followed in life, and the glorious tradition has been passed down from generation to generation. Family education plays an active and inestimable role in traditional education. Today, most families in society continue to inherit the teachings of their ancestors, carry forward the glorious tradition, scrimp and save, and build a harmonious family relationship with respect for the elderly and love for the young as the starting point. This harmonious and stable family relationship plays a positive role in promoting the healthy development of society.