Should we honor our parents?

Filial piety is a traditional virtue of our country.

Have you ever thought that parents should work hard and make more contributions to the modernization of the motherland in the past ten years? On the other hand, it is not easy to do housework and work day and night for our healthy growth! Parents have devoted infinite love to us and are full of self-sacrifice spirit. Now, we should understand our parents' painstaking efforts and be proud of them.

In fact, parents all over the world are the same. They all dedicated their selfless love to their children. Many mothers study with their children every day and give up a lot of rest time. Many fathers forget the fatigue of a day's work in order to catch up with their children, and many grandmothers, grandfathers and grandfathers have to wait in the wind and rain many times in order to pick up their grandchildren on time. So remember, the grace of parenting will never be forgotten.

Filial piety means loving parents, listening to their teachings, caring and considerate parents, actively sharing their hardships, being a good child at home and being a good student at school. When I grow up, I consciously assume the responsibility of supporting my parents.

Filial piety to parents and respect for elders is the duty of being a human being, a natural virtue and a prerequisite for the formation of various moral qualities, so it has always been praised by people. Just imagine, if a person can't even honor his parents and repay his upbringing, who will believe that he is a "human"? Who wants to deal with him?

There is a saying in the new San Zi Jing: "Be warm, be fragrant, love your parents, and be meaningful." Huang Xiang Jr. mentioned in the book was a good boy in Hubei in Han Dynasty, and he was famous for his filial piety to his elders. At the age of 9, he unfortunately lost his mother and knew how to honor his father since he was a child. Whenever it is hot in summer, he fans his father's sleeping pillow to drive away mosquitoes and close the curtains to make his father sleep comfortably. In the cold winter, the mattress was as cold as iron, so he slept on his father's mattress first, warmed the quilt with his own body temperature, and then let his father sleep in a warm bed. Huang Xiang Jr. is not only famous for his filial piety, but also diligent and knowledgeable. At that time, it was known as "a westward journey, a yellow teenager in Jiangxia".

For some only children now, we can often see such a scene: after dinner, the children turn their heads to watch TV or go out to play, but their parents are busy tidying up; There is delicious food at home, and parents always let their children taste it first, but children rarely ask their parents to eat it first; Once a child is ill, parents will be very busy and take care of them in every possible way, while parents are unwell and children seldom greet them. These are all worrying.

Xiaohua 1 1 year. Her parents love her very much. Xiaohua also likes her parents very much, but she still doesn't know how much she loves her parents. Parents end their day's work every day, dragging their tired bodies home, and can't even drink a mouthful of hot water. Xiaohua wants her father to play with her and has been crying for dinner.

In this regard, parents feel very sad. They think that perhaps their usual love for their daughter makes Xiaohua have no filial piety. So they decided to start with the little things in life and cultivate children's consciousness.

Once, Xiaohua tried to wash clothes by herself, and her mother readily agreed. When washing clothes for the first time, Xiaohua was struggling, and thin sweat oozed from his forehead. Moreover, after washing clothes, his forearm began to ache.

Xiaohua asked her mother curiously, "Mom, are you so tired of washing clothes for my father and me?" Mother said, "Although I am stronger than you, I am tired of washing so many dirty clothes every time." Xiaohua said thoughtfully, "Mom, I'm grown up now. I will do my own laundry in the future. "

Mother didn't know how happy she was after listening to her daughter's words. She praised Xiaohua in time and said, "Xiaohua is sensible and knows how to care about her mother." Xiaohua is happier after listening to her mother's praise. Since then, Xiaohua has been much more sensible. In addition to insisting on washing clothes by herself, she also took the initiative to help her parents do some housework and gradually learned to take care of their parents.

Why has Xiaohua changed? Because she has experienced the sufferings of others, aroused love or sympathy, and can put herself in others' shoes.

Whether you have the habit of honoring your parents is not only the emotional relationship between children and parents, but also the big question of whether you can care about others. At home, you can form a good habit of honoring your parents, and in society, you can care about your colleagues and be loyal to your motherland. Therefore, we can't ignore the good habit of cultivating children to honor their parents.