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Tangshan Fengrun area and Langfang area engagement marriage customs

Tangshan Fengrun area and Langfang area engagement:

1. Both parents meet to negotiate the engagement, mainly to order the yellow calendar and how much the man's bride price. Currently more popular is 108,000, but mainly depending on the economic conditions of both sides. Received gifts according to economic conditions return, if the woman's conditions in general if the collection of 88,888 then return to the man 38888-58888 ranging. If the woman's condition is good, directly accept all the gifts and purchase a car to the man.

2. To the engagement day before there is certainly a lot of time, in this period of time is to add two people engaged to the things needed, we start with the man to the woman's things.

(1) A set of gold jewelry. Including earrings, bracelets, (anklets), necklaces, a pair of rings, a diamond ring (diamond ring now roughly the price of buying to 15,000 or so can be, in fact, you can also go to the gold store to buy bare diamonds to choose their favorite style to create a big difference in price, you can save about 35%, Note: the premise of the first to ask the parents, some parents like to buy 24K pure gold think you can preserve the value of the young people do not like to feel the rustic! ).

(2) wedding candy. Including sugar gold apricot pair. Wenzhou joy sugar sub-size, all the women need all the male party responsible for the joy of sugar, including red packets within the joy of sugar (currently 50-100 red packets have been put, depending on the conditions of both sides with the number of joy sugar).

(3) watches. In the past for the watch, now in view of a variety of electronic products have the function of the watch, only to buy a female party also a lot. The price depends on their respective preferences for style and economic conditions, usually around 10,000 dollars.

And the woman to buy things for:

(1) the man's wedding engaged to wear a set of suits, two shirts, two ties, two pairs of shoes (casual with a pair of shoes) two sets of casual wear, socks a dozen, gold: bracelets and necklaces each one (if you give the best man's red packet of less than 580 you need to buy another shirt to the best man). (The gold this even do not know, I did not do so at that time)

(2) a set of dishes 88 pieces 98 pieces 108 pieces can choose, depending on the situation to buy. It is recommended to run a few more, more comparisons, otherwise the price difference between the parties is not small. Send a bowl also have to pick a day, there is a "stable" said, "stable" resonates with the Wenzhou language "bowl". Now the market bowl divided into bone china and ceramic, it is recommended to buy ceramic, high temperature resistance is not easy to crack, but also not like bone china as long as the day is easy to accumulate dirt. There is attention, it is best to buy microwave oven applicable, this point later very practical.

(3) six kinds of points citrus, pastries, dates, cinnamon, lotus seeds, peanuts. And then the man sent sugar gold apricot back to the man (six samples in a special store can buy, save a lot of time and effort, specially wrapped in a basin and wrapping paper, need to be a week or so in advance of the time to book).

3. Engagement Day: Now the engagement banquet is divided into two kinds, one is the woman's home at noon to set up a banquet banquet invited the man's parents and the best man to attend, the evening by the man back to invite the woman. Another is that both parents plus close friends and relatives together in a hotel banquet engagement. Generally now choose the latter in urban areas more, the man drove to the woman's home in the afternoon dressed to meet the woman and her parents, and give the woman's younger brother or sister suitcase money (suitcase money refers to the woman's younger brother or sister do not allow her sister to get married to pull the suitcase refused to go, you have to give him money before he is willing to let go of people, the previous generation of people so interpreted, and that is, if the woman is an only child, it is given to the woman's mother). Regarding the suitcase money, it is also given on the wedding day. The suitcase money ranges from 5800-10800. After arriving at the hotel to both parents to tea, to friends and relatives to toast to witness your love.