Examples of traditional inviting matchmakers to drink in Wuxue City, Hubei Province

Literally, we mean "getting drunk" rather than "drinking".

For most people, "drinking a glass of wine" has long meant a happy time for friends to laugh and laugh. Based on the different ages of each of us, based on the environment around us when we first drank, we all have all kinds of memories and expectations (sometimes anxiety), which reminds us of a cold beer, a cocktail, gin and tonic water, whisky and beer, a sip of red wine and so on.

Over and over again, in the early drinking process of most people, the expectation of alcohol can always meet the actual needs of drinking.

If every time is just right, we will naturally think that "drinking a glass of wine" is a pleasant experience, which not only meets our own needs, but also does not exceed the norms of religious customs. At the same time, it satisfies our desires, caters to the etiquette of social occasions, and helps us relax, cheer up and realize our various pursuit goals. For example, a 55-year-old Finn, when someone asks him for a drink, can't help but immediately think of the warmth brought by drinking a glass or two of brandy or vodka in cold weather when he was young.

If she is a young woman, she may immediately think of a gorgeous crystal cup filled with champagne, fragrant clothes, intimate friendship and romantic atmosphere, or a young man with jeans, beard and long hair at a rock concert, taking out a bottle of booze from a bag full of bottled wine, with flashing lights and smoke, and everyone screaming and screaming, which is exciting. A member of AA said: "Have a drink" is almost synonymous with eating pizza and drinking beer.

Another 78-year-old widow said that when she was in a nursing home, she often couldn't help but think of the habit of drinking a glass of sherry before going to bed. Although this kind of drinking is very natural in our minds, it is misleading in our current situation, and this is also the way some of us start drinking.

If this is the process of drinking, it is unlikely that we will deteriorate into a drinking problem in the future. However, if we look at the process of drinking fearlessly, we will find that no matter how hard we try, there has never been such a perfect and magical moment in our last few years or months of drinking.

On the contrary, we have repeatedly found that our actual drinking amount is far greater than this, which always leads to some kind of trouble in the end. Maybe we just feel a little guilty about drinking too much in private.

But sometimes it will turn into a fierce quarrel, which will affect your work and even lead to serious diseases, accidents, or legal and financial problems. So, when a suggestion of "drinking" appears, now we try to recall the whole process from the beginning of drinking to the last poor drunkenness and hangover.

General friends invite us to drink, which generally refers to the way of entertainment and a cup or two of tasting.

But if we carefully recall all the details of the pain caused by the last drunkenness, we will not be confused by the long-standing impression of "drinking a glass of wine" in our minds.

Now we can frankly admit that in terms of our real physiological reaction, we are quite sure that a cup of yellow soup means that we will get drunk again sooner or later, which will bring a series of troubles.

Drinking no longer means music and joy to us, but memories of illness and regret. A member of Alcoholics Anonymous once said, "I know that if I go to a bar for a drink now, it will never be the same again, just spend a little time and some money."

This drink will exhaust my bank account, my family, my house, my car, my job, my reason and even my life. This is really too big, too expensive and too risky. "

He remembers the last time he got drunk, not the first time he drank.

In recent years, frequent drinking accidents have caused irreparable consequences and losses to society and families, so who will bear the responsibility after drinking accidents has become the focus of attention. The author concludes that there are six kinds of actors who should bear legal responsibility and even criminal responsibility for the damage caused by drinking.

The first is that forced drinkers, such as those who deliberately drink or stimulate drinking, should bear corresponding legal responsibilities for any consequences of being advised to drink.

The second is the person who persuades the drinker to drink even though he knows that he can't drink or is unwell. This kind of person should bear legal responsibility for the consequences of the other person's illness caused by drinking and drunk driving.

The third kind is people who drive away with * * * after drinking wine. In this case, if there is a traffic accident, the drinker should not only bear the responsibility for his own drinker, but also bear the corresponding responsibility for the other party who suffered the accident.

Fourth, people who fail to safely escort drunks after drinking. If the drinker has lost or is about to lose his ability to control himself, he is unconscious and unable to control his behavior, and the drinker fails to send him to the hospital or send him home safely, then the drinker who has an accident must bear the corresponding legal responsibility.

The fifth type is people who know that they are drunk and still instigate drivers to drive after drinking. Such people not only have to bear civil liability for the consequences of traffic accidents, but also may be investigated for criminal responsibility if they knowingly instigate drivers to drive when they are drunk.

Sixth, the organizers of the wine bureau should bear the obligation of moderate drinking and safe escort after drinking, otherwise they should bear corresponding legal responsibilities after the accident.

Wine is a good wine, and a banquet is a good banquet, but drinking is risky, so be cautious in persuading wine. This article just reminds everyone that drinking alcohol should be moderate and appropriate to avoid being sued.