What effect will the contradictory educational methods in family education have on children?

When a child fails in an exam, parents immediately worry, scold the child and even "mix doubles". After telling the child the problem, the child still doesn't understand and gets angry. "How can you be so stupid that you can't learn such a simple question? How did you learn it? " In my consulting room, I have seen children with insufficient growth hormone secretion due to long-term abuse and destruction by their parents, and their bodies are in a state of tension for a long time. They are as thin as boys in Grade Three, Grade Four and Grade Five. I have also seen a girl who was beaten by her father with a stick as a punishment when she was a child, and became scoliosis when she grew up. My choice will only give me advice and never force me to do what she does. Even though she knew that what I did might be asking for trouble, within a certain range, she would still let me try and experience it myself, so as to better understand this matter and grow up by myself.

The way of education determines children's outlook on life, values, career, love, marriage and so on! Admitted to the university, but life ability, interpersonal skills and so on are not qualified for university life, and finally become losers and be eliminated. Our children have become dragons and phoenixes among people. It is better to put these wrong educational methods into "little black" and take children as punching bags. Children are the continuation of our lives, so we should take good care of her. But children often don't know their parents' intentions, but they can feel that their parents' tone and expression are different from before, so children often feel that they have been criticized, but they don't know where they are wrong.

Beating children will definitely make them violent, but it will increase their violent tendencies, just as smoking will increase the risk of lung cancer, but it does not mean that smoking will definitely lead to lung cancer. I also enrolled my children in an online art course to teach art treasures 1 to 1. The teacher taught me professionally, and the places that children draw badly can be guided, which is much better than online and offline classes. Lucky people use their childhood to cure their whole lives, while unfortunate people use their whole lives to cure their childhood.