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Family customs and traditions
In the daily study, work or life, we always have to contact the essay, essay is the memory of the people stored in the relevant knowledge, experience and ideas expressed in written form of narrative. I believe that many people will find it difficult to write essays, the following is my collection of family customs and family training topic essay, for your reference, I hope to help friends in need.
The family is the blue sky, I am a bird, without which I will not be able to fly; the family is the rain, I am grass, without which I will not be able to grow; the family is the sun, I am a sapling, without which I will not be able to grow. The state has its own laws, the school has its own rules, and the family has its own customs.
In the United States, a mischievous child took a beautiful little axe given to him by his father and chopped down one of his father's cherry trees. The father was angry to see his beloved tree chopped down. The boy saw that he was in trouble, and though he was afraid, he was a child who did not lie, and admitted his mistake before his furious father. The father was touched and said happily, "My good son, Dad would rather lose a thousand cherry trees than have you tell a single lie. Dad forgives the honest boy. But never cut down a tree again." This honest child is George Washington, perhaps it is this honest character let Washington became the first great president in American history.
In my family, my parents often teach me to do a pick up money, not greedy for money, this sentence is y imprinted in my heart, but when I was a child, I do not know what is picking up money.
One day when I was six years old, a little sister from an uncle's family came to my house to play, and after playing for a long time, my uncle pulled her away. In the sofa at home, a jade like necklace fell there, sharp-eyed me immediately ran to where I sat down and pretended to watch TV, a hand holding the remote control board, the other hand but has been to the back to take the necklace. After I touched the necklace, I immediately ran to my room and secretly hid it. During dinner, although my face was calm, I was apprehensive. My father and mother seemed to have read my mind and repeatedly asked me what had happened. I stammered and told my mother and father the whole story, and my father first put the bowl on the table with a bang and shouted, "Bring the necklace at once! He shouted, "Get the necklace now! I cried at the sound of my father's anger, and rushed into the house to get it. Mom took the necklace, said to me in a serious way: "Be a person to pick up the money, no matter where you pick up also have to give back to the owner of the thing, otherwise the owner will be worried, you have to put yourself in other people's shoes." I seem to understand nodded. Mom returned the necklace to the little girl, she thanked me, the uncle also praised me, but I was ashamed to bow my head.
The family is the nursery, the child is the seedling. The family style is like a raindrop, it is with the wind into the night, moist and silent, the seedling only in the rain under the moisturizing, in order to grow up healthily. Children can only excel under the cultivation of good family style.
Family style and family training topic essay 2"The first hundred good filial piety, always keep benevolent filial piety." I am the first training of every family. If a person is not filial. My mother and father are at home, especially grandparents honor grandma and grandpa, so I naturally learn by ear from childhood. I often go to my grandparents' home, make their favorite fruits, massage them, tell them stories and make them happy. Every now and then, I will go to see my grandma and grandpa.
My mom used to give me "political lessons" and tell me classic stories. She taught me to obey the law and discipline, respect my teachers and classmates, get along with each other, and be willing to help people in trouble. This is my second family motto! I remember when I was in fifth grade, it rained heavily after school. Many students in my class didn't bring umbrellas. I had an umbrella in my school bag that my mom had prepared for me. Looking at the sudden downpour, the students who didn't have umbrellas from their parents were shocked. I took the initiative to step forward and said, "Come on, I have an umbrella. Let me take you back. I sent a few students home, and finally I went home by myself. That's when I realized my clothes were wet. A gust of wind made me have a cold war, but my heart was still warm.
Only when you go through a lot of pain can you become a good person. This is my third family motto. Only by experiencing circumstances that ordinary people can not endure can you create a real talent that will stand out in your future studies and life. My grandfather used to say the same thing. My grandfather used to tell me how hard life was when he was a kid in the 1960s. My grandfather and I said : When he was a child, his family was very poor and caught up in years of war and natural disasters, escaping, eating tree bark, sweet potato seedlings... ... But no matter what circumstances they encountered, they never faced difficulties or gave up, and eventually ushered in today's happy life. Grandpa told me, a person will encounter this or that unexpected difficulties and even tribulations, as long as you do not give up hope, do not give in, nothing is invincible.
Dad often talk to me about learning, tell me how to focus on efficiency, how to cherish time, learning knowledge must be down-to-earth, can not let go of the water, adhere to can not give up halfway. To be a person, to maintain an optimistic attitude, there are good things to share! These will also be the most valuable wealth in my life.
The right family traditions, excellent family rules make me grow up in this family!
Probably both parents are intellectuals, as a senior engineer's father will be "study first" as a mantra, as a teacher's mother will often read "should be well-mannered. These two sentences to my ears are rubbed out of the callus of the "holy edict" can also be said to be my family style.
Since I can remember, every guest + will see my parents full of smiles, generous reception of guests. So, it was either a sweet and savory meal or a "classical" type of talk. My brother and I don't ask, don't talk, answer questions, adults don't interrupt, adults don't eat on the table, so we won the guests' praise: "Your children really know what they're doing." "Worthy of intellectuals, is different." But usually, naughty brother and I will from time to time "offense". For example, we put a hairpin on our sleeping father and combed two pigtails, so my mother drove us to the toilet or the balcony with a broom in her hand, and I could hear my father shouting, "How dare you move the soil on the emperor's head."
Although it is the 90's, but due to the influence of feudalism, my father always used some feudal education methods to control us. But it is these methods of education, so that the natural cheap skin of my brother and I in the study always top. At night, there was no sound of mahjong playing and no sound of the earth shaking, only the rustling sound of my brother and me doing our homework and the sound of our parents turning over books and newspapers. Sometimes the whole family would argue over a math problem. But after all, it was a feudal education, and there was a closed-door policy for everything! The radio was not allowed to be listened to, no excursions were allowed on holidays, and it seemed as if they wanted my brother and I to be nerds. No, even extracurricular books could only be peeked at in the toilet or under the covers. I really wanted to say to my father, "It's the 90's, it's time to change your old-fashioned education methods." But I was afraid of my father's authority, and I always swallowed my words.
This is my family style, there are pros and cons. But I firmly believe that with the progress of the times, the new era of family style will be settled in my family. My family will become more fulfilling and better!
Family Style and Family Training Topic Essay 4Every family has a different family training and family style. A good family motto and family style can make people positive. A bad family tradition can lead people astray. Honesty and trustworthiness is my family's family motto, which accompanies me to grow up and make me what I am today.
When I was in elementary school, I met a classmate named Xiaoming, whose parents didn't care about him and he didn't love to study. One day after school, he invited me to his home to play games, I went. I went to his house and played until it was dark before I went home. As soon as I entered the house, my mom asked me sternly, "Where have you been, coming back so late." Mom's face was very ugly. I said in a voice that I couldn't even hear myself, "I was at school writing my homework, and I came back after finishing it." Mom got even angrier when she heard this and said, "I've been to your class, there's no one there, come on, where the hell have you been." Dad hurriedly pulled me aside and said, "Didn't we always tell you, be honest, how can you lie." I nodded after a short period of reflection, and told my parents about the process of going to Xiaoming's house to play, and promised never to do so again.
In elementary school, there was an exam, I took 98 points, I was very happy, the results of a check there are two wrong questions did not check out, minus those points I only 90 points. At that time, I was very entangled, in the end is to find a teacher to change or muddle through it. I remembered what my parents had told me: be honest. So I went to the teacher, to her to explain the situation, the teacher gave me to change the results, but let me did not expect is the teacher the next day praised me.
There is no good future without good family customs and family training.
Family Style and Family Training Topic Essay 5My home is a harmonious home, a warm home.
Because our home is a grateful home, our parents often use gratitude to teach us, but also into the life, my parents taught me what is gratitude. Gratitude is a kind of return, gratitude is an expression of gratitude, is not forgetting the gratitude of others, haunting everyone's heart. To learn to be grateful is to polish the dust of the mind without numbing it, and to learn to be grateful is to never pay the price of any mind.
Therefore, we are also grateful to our parents for the kindness and respect they give us from the bottom of our hearts, because our parents' words and deeds directly affect us, and their love accompanies us throughout our lives and guides us forward, selflessly giving without return. As children, we should thank our parents for their hard work in educating us to adulthood, providing us with material conditions and educational resources. When the years pass our parents' youth, leaving behind wrinkles and gray hairs, we ask ourselves whether we have done our filial piety in time. The so-called "you like to eat three fresh fillings, she has someone to give you a package, your tears, someone to wipe you" this person is the mother, "bear a bag of cigarettes, half a pot of old wine", this is our father, is our "ladder of heaven! This is our father, our "ladder of heaven", the one who "pulls the oxcart" for us. People can not forget the roots, people should know how to be grateful, filial piety can not wait, do not treat your parents well, it is difficult to treat people well, do not thank your parents to lose the basic morality of being a human being, be despised, treat your parents in fact, is to treat yourself, our words and deeds to our parents is our children and grandchildren in the future to be emulated.
Secondly, our parents taught us to give grace and gratitude to our teachers to teach, because we are unremitting mentors, like a mother's painstaking, like a father, selfless, like a candle to burn themselves, illuminating our way of life; like silkworms as our "preaching, teaching, and solving puzzles," civilization of our ignorance to pay the persistence, gave us confidence and strength, taught us to learn. We have confidence and strength, teach us to learn knowledge, understand life, I will be very grateful.
In addition, parents teach us to understand that society is a melting pot, which provides us with the opportunity to work, improve our ability and growth. But as a drop in the ocean, we are too small. There are our colleagues at work, as well as companies that have given us the opportunity to work, leaders who have nurtured us, and friends who have cared for us, who have not only enriched our knowledge and accumulated more work experience, but also enabled us to achieve results and be recognized by society.
Because of this, we have a grateful heart, which makes our life, learning full of sunshine.
Family Tradition Topic Essay 6"There are national laws, and there are family rules." As the saying goes, there are no rules, and of course my family is no exception. The size of my family rules quite a lot, but let me feel the most y there are two points: one is civilized and harmonious, helpful family style so that I know how to get along with people in harmony; the second is to read more, study well the family training so that I have been benefited.
My family says I'm my father's little tail, and I always like to follow him wherever he goes. When taking the bus, I saw my dad take the initiative to give seats to the elderly children; in the street, met strangers asking for directions, my dad will enthusiastically give people directions; in the downstairs, met the elderly grandparents shopping back, my dad will go out of his way to help put the big package of things to carry upstairs ...... These little bit by little help people's behavior y infected me. Every time I see my dad's heartfelt smile on his face after helping others, it makes me realize the joy of helping others. I think I want to be like my dad to be a person who is willing to help others.
Ever since I can remember, my family has taught me to read more and study hard. I often ask my father: "Why do I have to study well?" Dad said, "Only by learning knowledge well can you grow up to be a man of action." My grandmother has always loved reading, and also asked me to read more and accumulate more knowledge from books, and asked me to make notes while reading at an early age. She often used the poem "If you don't work hard in your youth, you will be sad in your old age" to encourage me to study hard. Therefore, whether it is in the grandmother's house or in my house, from the simple puzzle books and paintings in the childhood, to now a variety of content-rich books are all over the desk. My father never slacked off on my schoolwork. Under the influence of such a family training, I have developed a good habit of enjoying reading since childhood, which is a great help to my study and life.
I like my family's family motto. They are like an invisible power to influence me, so that I can thrive in a healthy, positive and upward environment.
Family customs and family training topic essay 7Recently, the school students are discussing the "Zhejiang good family style", I came home from school, but also asked my dad: what is the family style. Dad told me that family style usually refers to the traditional fashion or style of the family or family, is the heirloom of every family. "And what is our family's family style?" I asked my dad curiously, my dad smiled and touched my head and said, "Think about it yourself, what do mom and I usually teach you? What do you have to do when you study and what do you have to do in life?"
I thought about it carefully and realized that the influence of family style on me is everywhere. Usually when I write homework at home, I always love to write while watching TV, at dinner time, I used to like to use chopsticks to knock the bowl to make a ding-dong sound, and then eat to eat to read extracurricular books ...... These things were seriously criticized by mom and dad, after I changed these faults. Now think about it, mom and dad is hoping that I become a polite, study seriously with the child.
There was another time, I did not do well in the exam, afraid to take the test paper back to mom and dad to sign, will be blamed by them. So I made a special effort to carefully fold the test paper into a small square, stuffed into a small compartment of the schoolbag. When I got home, my dad asked me, "I think your last test scores are out, where's the test paper, take it out and show it to me." My hands were sweating, my heart was in seven, and I made a point of turning over my book bag in front of my dad, saying, "Dad ...... the test paper is missing ...... I don't know where to put it." Maybe dad saw my nervousness, comfort me to sit down, said: "Really missing? Children ah, poor test does not matter, we have to face, dad will not blame you." I struggled for a while, but still took out the test paper. Looking at the wrong questions on the test paper, I felt ashamed. And dad really didn't blame me, but analyzed the reasons for the wrong questions with me and told me how to improve in the future. After that, I never did such a thing again. I have also learned to face up to problems and difficulties, and to be an honest child.
There are many other family customs in my family: to be trustworthy, to be helpful, to be kind ...... These are with me as I grow up, and I am proud of my family!
Family customs and traditions topic essay 8"Mom, mom, what are the family customs?" I couldn't wait to ask after school. "Family style ah, ask your grandfather when you get home." Mom said with a smile.
Back home, my grandfather sat in the living room watching TV, I ran over and asked, "Grandpa, grandpa, grandpa what is the family style ah?" Grandpa also smiled and looked at me and said, "Don't worry, don't worry, let's eat first." After hearing Grandpa's words. I dashed to the table, grabbed the most superior position and sat down, picked up chopsticks ready to eat. At this time my father said: "Our family's family style is thrown by you, the elders have not yet sat down, you move chopsticks." I thought to myself: this is the family style. It dawned on me. Quickly put the chopsticks down and stood up. At this time Grandpa sat down and said to me, "You know what family style is, don't you. If you know, then eat quickly." Only then did I sit down, pick up my chopsticks, and take a big bite of my meal. During the meal, I picked out the ginger, garlic, chives and other things I didn't like and put them on a plate. Mom snapped, "Why did you forget the family manners again? Quickly eat these" "Oh, so this is also the family style ah."
After dinner, I took off my socks, which had holes in them, and was about to throw them away, when my grandmother popped up and said, "Why do you want to throw away these socks?" "Look at this are broken so a big hole, can not wear, to throw away." "Torn and patched can be worn, tell you this is also the family style oh." I had to take the broken socks back to mend and then wear.
"Then what other family customs in our family?" I asked my mom. Mom said, "Don't waste water, don't throw garbage anywhere, be an honest and trustworthy person, and don't lie to your mom and dad and other people." "Is that a family spirit too, that's a lot, it must be hard to do." I said with a reluctant face, "Not much, as long as you do everything, you won't think it's much, and you won't think it's hard." Mom said in a serious tone. "Really, then I will definitely learn the family spirit in the future as well." I said happily.
The family style is a necessary thing that constitutes a family, a country, a nation, if there is no it, then this nation, this country, this family, there is no meaning of existence. So from now on, let us come together to learn family style, come together to do family style. Let's take action.
Family Style and Family Guidance Topic Essay 9Family Style, Family Guidance, Family Guidance, do we all know what this means? I think it is: honesty, integrity, discipline and law, filial piety, thrift, unity and friendship.
My mother always taught adults to talk, children should not interrupt, and to respect the old and the young.
I remember one time, my mom bought me a lot of delicious food. I ate with great relish. Suddenly, my mom looked at me and I asked her, "Mom, why are you looking at me?" When my mom didn't say anything, I still enjoyed my delicious food. My mom still looked at me with disappointment. I suddenly understood why my mom had the disappointed look. My grandparents and aunts were sitting next to me. I didn't let them share my deliciousness. I was just enjoying it alone. I blushed and lowered my head, realizing my mistake. I didn't respect the old and I didn't love the young. I made up my mind to respect the old and love the young.
Another time, my mom cooked and called me to eat, I was watching TV, ignoring her. When I finished watching cartoons, to eat, a see mom only left a mouthful of rice. I am very angry, fierce mom: why do not you give me raw teach me: I told you to eat properly, you do not come to eat, where to watch cartoons, you eat yourself. Mom is very tired, to make you a good meal, you are also considered a mother, really ungrateful. I know from that day on, can't always watch cartoons, help mom cook, wash dishes, sweep the floor, even if there are some things like cooking I can't do, you can help to do some things that you can do, such as washing, choosing food these things within their own ability. To learn to be filial to my mom and dad, my mom and dad are busy working every day is very tired, I want to help them do more things.
Now I finally understand what family style, family guidance, tutoring is. If there is no family instruction, family instruction will spoil us, only to know that the change is wrong, slowly education, in order to the family style, family instruction, family instruction style, spread to the light.
Family style and family training topic essay 10
Family style and family training, now seems to be not much mentioned, as if faded into oblivion, but as long as you think about it, it is still invisible around us, the family's every move, none of which is not to reveal the ancient family style and family training from the two families.
As the saying goes, there are state laws and family rules. Our family's family style and family motto is nothing special, but it shows the traditional Chinese virtues. In our family, the elderly always come first. This is filial piety, repaying the parents for their upbringing. Once, the old man had a cold, but I had to go to school, the family car only one. And although my house is not far from the school, the distance is still there. To send the old man to the hospital as long as the roadside turn can just send me to school. But my parents couldn't, they didn't even drop me off, they took the old man with them and rushed to the hospital. Although I wasn't late, I was still uncomfortable in my heart. But when I think about it, if something happens to the old man, he will be lost forever, and this is also the respect for the old man. The many times I have been sent to school, but it will spoil me. Filial piety and respect for the elderly is the first family tradition and family training.
Yet there is also, everything to the good. To the good heart is better than everything, have a kind heart, is also one of my family's family motto. Whether others are not harmful heart, but we are absolutely must not have. Upon the words of my parents, if everyone abided by this one, the world would be full of love. In fact, I didn't understand at that time, just thinking why others can do bad but I can't, not realizing that those people are special cases. The world is really full of good people, but to be more precise, there are more people who are not bad. Goodness, everyone has, but how to show, but little is known. And if one goes to rob, it is immediately known by countless people. This is one reason why there are so many bad people. But even so, can not help people? No, that's not true.
In addition, there are some, some respect for teachers, unity ...... However, I think the most important thing is that these two, there are these two, it is enough.
Every home has its own family style, family rules, family training, to talk about my family's family style, family rules, family training, it can be related to a few things when I was a child.
From my understanding, my mother told me to do people's reasoning, first of all, to study hard, meaning to learn, to learn; followed by progressive, to continue to go up and down, with their own practical actions to prove that I can do; and then honesty, dishonesty, which will allow others to trust you, rely on you; and finally, kindness, not a kind heart, only a narrow mind, how to think about others? How can you help others when they are in trouble?
When I was five, I could do anything I wanted. But eating is very picky, either picking meat or vegetables, and often leftovers. And when I wash my hands, every time I wash once, I have to waste half a basin of water, and the faucet is not turned off after washing, wasting a lot of water for nothing. After my mom learned about these two bad habits of mine, she said to me, "Thrift and diligence are the traditional virtues of the Chinese people, so in the future, don't be picky about what you eat, and don't have leftovers, and save water." From that moment on, I knew to be "diligent and thrifty".
On New Year's Day, I went to my grandfather's house to pay my respects. I said "Happy New Year" to him. Grandpa took out a red envelope from his pocket, put it in my hand, and said to me seriously: "Granddaughter! You are already six years old, and next year you will be in first grade. I want to tell you three words, the first sentence is to respect elders, no matter where you go in the future, you see elders should be polite and respect elders; the second sentence is filial piety to parents, parents brought you into the world and raised you. When you grow up, you must repay them and be filial to them; the third sentence is self-improvement and self-reliance; in the future, no matter what kind of work you do, don't rely on others, rely on your own strength to work, but also rest on your laurels and be industrious and enterprising. This is what I expect of you, and I hope you remember it at all times."
Another year had passed and I was going to elementary school. We sat down with the intention of having a family meeting. Dad said, "Today's content is to discuss the family style, family rules, family training. The purpose is to let you discipline yourself to mind your own business when you go to school." We had a long discussion before we settled on it.
The family style is to be hardworking, progressive, honest and kind.
The family rule is to be diligent and thrifty
The family motto is to respect elders, be filial to parents, and be self-reliant.
After going to school, I feel that since there is a family style, family rules, family training, all the time to keep in mind, to restrain themselves.
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