Why are young people nowadays all low desire Reasons are more

Why young people now have low desire, there are many reasons:

First, now the 00 and 90 after, mostly after 80 and 70 after the birth, that generation has begun to reduce, so the 00 and 90 after is also decreasing.

Secondly, nowadays, families are used to having only one child, at most two, and to increase the fertility rate in a short period of time, people's consciousness can't accept it if they have more children in one family. China's early years, every family is very poor, more than one or two children, can not pull the gap between rich and poor, poor nutrition, poor conditions, one or two can not live, it does not matter, anyway, more children; and more children means that you can share the old age, more to earn a ration, more children also have the probability of out of the one or two outstanding children Guangzong Yaozuzu, siblings help each other to live a good life, are poor, do not exist to share the family property; now if the family Now if the family has a second and third child, unless it is an entrepreneur, otherwise, life will be very heavy, the university may not have the money to go, and finally can only gnaw on the old. Most of the siblings are shirking each other's responsibilities to pension, share family assets, turn against each other, and long ago there was no love of brother and sister.

Third, now the high cost of living and education, no one is willing to sacrifice quality to complete the number, more children can only become alternative, not in line with mainstream values. This is not selfish, because only if you live well, the child can live well and realize a virtuous cycle.

Fourth, the new generation is less influenced by traditional culture, the idea of succession is not so serious, the most exciting time of life, the most reflective of the value of life, if you give birth to so many children, it will be in the existing class downhill. They have not yet lived to understand, did not enjoy the joy of youth, do not want to be dragged down by children. Even if Dink is okay, pension needs can be solved, and do not want to bring grandchildren, no matter the joy of heaven.

Fifthly, young people nowadays are more responsible, they want to give their children a good environment, cultivate a good child will also feed their own, the risk of the whole family is not so big.

With the implementation of the full two-children in 2016, but from the data show that the number of newborns in 2018 fell significantly, behind the data is the cold reality.

A significant portion of young people have the will to give birth, just that they think they can afford to give birth, but can not afford to raise! The current level of income is unable to cope with the pressure of the cost of living after the birth of a child, and thus passively choose to late marriage and late parenthood or Dink.

In the face of high prices and the substantial increase in the cost of education for children, young people are not willing to give their children to the elderly. This has led to a marked contrast between fertility intentions and the reality of the situation, which also plays an inhibiting role.

To solve the problem of declining birth rate, some experts believe that the heavy burden of parenting needs to be solved. For example, the establishment of a comprehensive pension insurance mechanism, the promotion of women's equality in employment, and the provision of employment for families that need to raise children, and so on.

First of all, let's talk about my own situation, there is a small child, a boy, three and a half years old, reading kindergarten in his hometown, I have three siblings at home, I am the oldest, there is a dragon and phoenix baby brother and sister below, the younger sister has already married, the younger brother does not have a girlfriend, and from the start of the family is even more a long way, parents! The health situation is still good, my mother at home to help me bring up children, after the death of my grandfather this year, my grandmother also lives in my house, that is to say, my mother is now at home to take care of an old man and a small, my father went out to work on the construction site, my wife and I are working in Shenzhen, husband and wife, the two salaries together every month more than a little more than 1 W. At present, no house, no car, no loans, a little savings, not much, the plan is to save some money over two years to pay a down payment or that the family has a Suitable road, after two years to go back to do something, after all, children grow up day by day, wait until the elementary school, parents have been tutored not to come over, now in kindergarten, at least parents can teach children to recognize words, draw pictures, and then take care of children's clothing, food, housing and transportation, but into the mandatory education of the parents is certainly not teach.

Really if we go home and buy a house in the county, with the county's current housing prices (6000 +), when the time comes to carry a mortgage for decades, the child went to school, coupled with the county's low wages, high consumer spending, simply do not dare to have a second child, so it is still the same, the price of housing is the best contraceptive pill at present.

Most young people should want to have children, but now the social pressure is too great, especially after 80, 90 young people are in the life of the biggest pressure of a stage, the birth of a child really need to consider discretion.

The reasons for the low desire to have children are as follows:

First, the work

80, 90 young people are mostly working or entrepreneurs, work is basically part of the career of the upward trend, entrepreneurs are also mostly very busy, hands-on stage, overtime, socializing is the norm. Giving birth to a woman means shifting focus for a year or two, mainly taking care of children, and men can't devote themselves to work.

Second, the economic

80, 90 young people are mostly burdened with mortgage and car loans, if the salary is not very high in the case will be considered if you want to have a child more economic pressure. Take the third-tier cities, the house 1 million repayment loan of about 3,000, the car more than 100,000 repayment loan of more than 2,000, the cost of living and so on counting 3,000 yuan it, a total of 8,000 yuan conservatively. If you want to have a child, milk powder, diapers, clothes, etc. 3,000 per month is necessary. This will be 11,000 yuan. Third-tier cities, couples on 10,000 or not much, if you need to support the elderly that is even more difficult.

Third, care

Young people need to go to work, entrepreneurship, raising a family, which means that after the birth of a child need to be taken care of, it is necessary to consider whether the parents can help take care of the child, and if you can not take care of the money to hire a nanny and can not stand, and then again, to hire a nanny to consider is not a parent-child companion, the nanny to take care of the bad, or even child abuse.

Mainly these three aspects of the pressure to make 80, 90 after the consideration of childbearing, in fact, not no desire, is born how to do the problem.

Here, I encourage you to remove all the difficulties or to give birth to the next generation to make you happy, will not regret.

I am the father of two children.